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WoodWizzy87 6y ago
“Lol “ and leave it at that. You know the game she’s playing. Just don’t even play. Like what normal fucking woman would state that to a guy she’s sleeping with? A hoe, that’s what kind...
JerryLawlerPigFace 6y ago
One things for certain is that she’s not anything more than plate material. This is not LTR material by any means, she is trying to mess with your frame/manipulate you as others have pointed out. Let’s be honest, she’s probably going to fuck that guy either way. Start detaching yourself to whatever emotions are building. Just shake them off rn. Even if this was her push for exclusivity, it’s a totally fucked up way of going about it.
I agree with the above suggestions: do not even play this game with her.
BurnieSlander 6y ago
The fact that you had a gut reaction to this means you don’t have enough abundance.
The fact that you’re still considering this chick as more than a plate after a text like that means you are still a blue-pilled chump.
I realize the EC’s are recommending no response, but I wouldn’t let her off so easy. “You disappoint me.” and a soft next would be my play. There’s a good chance you’ll break the plate, but if she seeks forgiveness you will have established the fact that that type of behavior is unacceptable and you are not the type of man that will tolerate it. Her respect for you will become real.
The best plates are ones who have seen a glimpse of your dark side and know that you are not to be fucked with.
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megadump44 6y ago
This is where it gets a little hairy. In the last week we've been texting pretty often, which I know is frowned upon here. If I don't text back she'll think something's up or I'm pissed about it. Is no response still the way to go?
newposter20000 6y ago
Don't respond, and then misdirect half a day after with something else.
If she calls it out "I haven't given it much thought. What's that you were you asking?"
vandaalen 6y ago
The things I have to put up with here...
kabuto_mushi 6y ago
We don't deserve you bro lol
SlappaDaBayssMon 6y ago
Lol yes
Joehogans 6y ago
Ignore or change the subject.
NewBoomAction 6y ago
Haha she's trying to fuck with your frame young homie.
Tell her only if I'm invited.
juliusstreicher 6y ago
I don't think that OP wants you there anymore than the other guy. Nice try, tho.
cenie 6y ago
I mean you're welcome to tag along.
juliusstreicher 6y ago
Well, let's see...
VasiliyZaitzev 6y ago
"Yes - I was thinking about fucking him and I saw him first!"
newposter20000 6y ago
Yeah it's a shit test. Don't respond, and if she pushes it in person deflect in the usual shit test ways: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2pb4fs/everything_you_need_to_know_about_shit_tests/
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megadump44 6y ago
I am a bit conflicted. I'd rather she didn't. I kinda got a gut wrenching feeling when I read that, but I'm seeing her as a bit more than a plate now. I think she's fishing for the "what are we" talk, and if she is, how should I go about it?
SeamusAwl 6y ago
How do you go about it? What do you want? Do that.
Self-honest 6y ago
"I fucked this guy."
"I have. I'm still going to test you and see how you react."
Or if somehow magically she hasn't, she's going to.
Cool. You haven't even come close to vetting her.
Why? You don't even know her. That's neediness my friend.
Fuck other girls. Keep plating her. Don't give a fuck about anything she says. Watch what she does. Form a judgement. Look for red flags. Keep plating her. Revisit your feelings about her in like 8 months if she is still pushing for commitment.
boy_named_su 6y ago
i don't see how's she being considerate. she's being slutty and insulting
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boy_named_su 6y ago
there's a difference between her fucking other dudes and you knowing it, and her rubbing it in your face
should i bring up other plates to my plate? no, there's no point
There was absolutely no need for her to bring up fucking another dude. She knew they weren't exclusive. She could have fucked another dude without consequence. Her bringing it up is something different.
You're not "policing" it, you're just avoiding insulting, slutty, classless wenches
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needz 6y ago
"The only winning move is not to play."
OfficerWade 6y ago
“Zugzwang”
boy_named_su 6y ago
"We're not exclusive so do what you want. It's a turn-off to hear about other men though"
I'm not sure if it's stupidity on her part, or a way of her telling you to slow your beta roll. It's a turn off for men to hear about a woman's other men (though not necessarily vice versa) and it brings her down a peg in your mind if you want an LTR with her
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weak. so many words. and makes you sound butthurt.
crew6dawg0 6y ago
OH SNAP. This shit is good. It shows that you dont care, but if SHE does, she better play nice and get into your frame. This would be my go to.
Joehogans 6y ago
Can you explain that bit. I see of course a man getting jealous/angry over her talking about another man but why would it be good for you to talk about other women wanting to have sex with you, seems like she would get angry real quick.
boy_named_su 6y ago
women like men that have game. you having a high body count is okay (it's ok if a guy is a slut) but her, less so
Joehogans 6y ago
How much do you think is considered a high n-count from a woman's perspective?
juliusstreicher 6y ago
YOU need to first decide what you want from her. LTR, plate status, FWB. Until then, you're pissing in the wind.
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Tell her “do what you feel”...the. Ignore her
Joehogans 6y ago
That's a shit test if I've ever seen one....she's trying to gauge your reaction and see where you stand with her.
blackedoutfast 6y ago
"lol"
Merwebb 6y ago
"oh, i did already tehee"
Scheme00 6y ago
“You’re a classy broad aren’t you”
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JerryLawlerPigFace 6y ago
This ^
There is literally no positive to this behavior of hers.
bruiser18 6y ago
"Would it be bad? I dunno, I've fucked 10 other girls I didn't think that was bad."
Or
"I dunno, is it bad that I've fucked 10 other girls without asking if it would be bad?"
You know, something along those lines. Or don't respond.
needz 6y ago
"idk. I never asked you for permission"
bruiser18 6y ago
Yeah exactly this, less emphasis but same damage