I'm a musician. Apparently that means something.
There are a few regulars I see at shows and others I'll see once and then never again. There have been a few instances of these girls following me out of venues post-show with nothing really escalating too much, either due to logistics (when the van has to leave, it has to leave) or because I think I can do better. Not to say that they're not attractive, as they all are, but because I know exactly what I want and don't see the point in settling.
That, and I'm the type who needs a little emptional connection to really get interested in a woman. Or they have a SO; I hold myself to some standards.
Physically, I've got a decent face and am only a hair overweight if at all with virtually no visible muscle. Fair build that looks great in a jacket. Tall enough to not care about my height. I need some work, even with a good foundation, but I'm nowhere near pulling what you'd call HB7s in large numbers.
And I guess my record proves just that; I've done things with "enough" girls but at the age of 20 I've only gone the full way with one, and only once at that. Far from ideal.
Now, my lack of closing comes from a view that I once read summed up as "If you only accept the best in life, you often get it", or something like that. Seems to lean a bit towards the Alpha side of things, right? Yet I've never read that on TRP. Just things like "Work your way up. Take what you can get and practice until you're plating the best women you see".
But that sounds booring. More dull sex? I find the anticipation of seeing someone I'm into (and might have a shot with) a few months down the road rather motivating anyway, why should I ruin that for myself?
Am I really missing out by turning these girls away?
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Well, it's been a while since we've had an "Am I gay?" post....
Youngyoda89 5y ago
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boy_named_su 5y ago
As a guy that's fucked 130 chicks, i can say I'd be happy if it was 10. The body count doesn't make you happy in the end. Do what you want to do
That being said, you could let them blow you...
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Terdmuffin 5y ago
I think most people regret the sex they didn't have, not the sex they had. I've had girls I wasn't really into give me great sex and girls I was really into give below average sex. Never know until you try.
danny_skrrrrrt 5y ago
If you don't have a rotation of plates already, then go for it, so then when you go for those HB7 and up , you won't worry of missing out with the abundance mentality
SomeoneBehindThePC 5y ago
I already feel some sort of abundance mentality. There are a few I could arrange something with at any time, and with that potential in place I don't entirely feel like I'm missing out.
Edit: I just don't feel a drive for them.