He met this girl on tinder and has been going steady with her for few months. He's a huge beta male blue pill type which I've tried to address but nothing changes. But this girl had matched with me around the same time and I was bored last night and looked and noticed she recently in last week updated her profile and pictures. Do I let him know?
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freew33zy 5y ago
I'd tell him, but I have no problem playing bad cop. My friends, after knowing each other for years now, appreciate this trait in me by now. But they didn't at first. You might be doing something good for him, but you're going to look like bad cop. At least if it's your best friend he should understand.
IfoundAnneFrank 5y ago
You'd think but he gets very defensive. Here says he wants to get him with me shortly see how he reacts.
freew33zy 5y ago
I mean yeah people don't like bad cop. That's the point. But down the line they often appreciate it. I once told my friend the girl he was pursuing for LTR (beta move) was no good and clearly slutty. He got pissed at me and didn't talk to me for... two weeks. You know what happened the second week? She broke things off with him and he found out she was talking to another guy the whole time. He immediately came to me and apologized and said he appreciated what I tried to do for him. Bad cop is bad today but someone people are thankful for in the future. (if they're smart)
BuckNekkid18 5y ago
If it was my best friend, yeah I'd tell him but not right away, be careful with the fact that she matched with you. She will pull the "i was just playing around with the app" shit.
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Plan this carefully
madhguru 5y ago
Who the fuck is dating girls from tinder...why get in his business now, that's like telling someone smoking is bad for you after they flick the butt.
IfoundAnneFrank 5y ago
Hahahahaha that's funny. Like I said we are very different when it comes to women
markinsinz7 5y ago
How the fuck does ur broken get a hoe like that from tinder . Must have status or looks. Sometimes the # of betas getting laid just piss me off.
IfoundAnneFrank 5y ago
Idk man, sometimes she pulls good trailI have no idea why. He's a beta to the max
IfoundAnneFrank 5y ago
Tried to bring him to the gun with me and he lasted two weeks before he quit
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
Just say- “I was swiping right on every single girl and I checked my matches. Look who the fuck I just matched with bro”
IfoundAnneFrank 5y ago
He knows we matched before he first went out with her.
FearGarbhArMait 5y ago
It's not your problem, better to find out after he finds out.
Ricklogical 5y ago
If your 'best friend' got a job and the position wasn't that good, but he wanted the job, stopped looking for work for a few months, then you notice that employer suspiciously was seeking to employ someone for his exact position... would you tell him?
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You would, because he's your best friend, not some cunt you see now and then, a probable life long pal. If you see a best friend walking into a fucked up dramatic situation, you pull him back from it and show him the danger.
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You don't have to tell him what to do with the information, but you don't keep it to yourself, that's what you do with someone you don't know, not a close friend, certainly not a best friend.
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Maybe you've never had one?
IfoundAnneFrank 5y ago
You think? Would you want to know?
FearGarbhArMait 5y ago
I would want to know but I would also question your loyalty for checking in on her. He will find out everything he needs to know in time.
IfoundAnneFrank 5y ago
Fair point. He knows we matched I told him when he went to meet her. We hadn't messages or anything. She was in the update section that I was checking cuz I was bored on the toilet lol
Bedtimeshine 5y ago
Or course you tell him. It’s your friend... it is your circus.
CainPrice 5y ago
Your friend knows Tinder is for casual sex, right? Not for finding love. If he doesn't, he's about to learn.
Go ahead and tell him. Women don't just update their Tinder profiles with new pictures for funsies. If they're boyfriend-girlfriend, arguably they shouldn't be on Tinder any more at all anyway and should have deleted their profiles and uninstalled the app. Might as well save him the heartache of a few more months of wasted time.
Ricklogical 5y ago
Yep. Tell him.
creating_my_life 5y ago
of course.
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
If you tried to stir him right and he still wont listen, there's nothing you can do for him. Id advise you to distance yourself from him because his beta problems will drag u down.
If u want to try one final thing, I'd say make a move on his girl behind his back on tinder and send him screenshots when she incriminates herself with some wild shit. BUT, before you do that, you need to record a video of yourself saying what you're about to do. So that it she somehow flipsbthe script on you and says that you're thebone whobaplroached her, you can always show your buddy the video.