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chazthundergut 5y ago
Yes. In general, you can recover frame by actually having a strong frame and demonstrating it. Women are very much in the moment and focus on how you make them feel right now. If she sees you with weak frame, she will test you harder but it can be recovered.
Stop flirting with the girl at the front desk. She is paid to be there and to be nice to you. You are giving her free validation and getting nothing in return. You are communicating to her with your behavior that yapping with a chick is more important to you than your gym goals. Stop flirting and get to lifting.
Good luck dude.
wonderlandwarlock 5y ago
Underrated comment ^
We_Are_Legion 5y ago
Do not try to be perfect, or alpha. There is no mindset that sets you up for failure more than trying to be alpha. Be beta, if you have to. Be proudly beta and it will serve you better.
As for recovering, you'd be surprised what you can recover from. Women do not want perfect. Perfect is boring.
Do the following and tell me how it turns out. Do not over-complicate or think about it. Just complete these simple steps
Go upto her tomorrow and tell her she made you nervous yesterday and you really think she's cute and you were wondering if you haven't messed it up enough to get her number.
If she doesn't give you her number, I will give you another cute girls' number (USA) to compensate. Deal? Now go.
clausternn 5y ago
Now I wanna watch a RomCom where a TRP user gives another TRP user a random girl's number who lives across the country, and they end up getting married and starting a family.
spartan_spear 5y ago
this is good constructive advice. don't try to be alpha all the time. it's a spectrum and in certain situations you may end up acting more beta, but you can only build on top of that platform. no one is born with a 100% alpha mindset.
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if you were, life would be easy but boring.
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the outcome of this advice will be
latinasonly 5y ago
just pretend it didnt happen. go and talk to her again, if she brings up how you walked away at your shit test or whatever, just hold frame. if she says anything about last time, even with a serious or even angry face, stare deep into her eyes until she looks away, laughs, smiles or otherwise breaks her composure. then say "your funny". you must do this with total confidence.
Big_Red_suppository 5y ago
Get a sense of when a chick is into you. I'm not going to corner someone, which is precisely what you're doing when you try to game someone at work at a desk. but the chicks I've met in that scenario were either quick to tell me the ring was fake to keep the creepers down or told me when/ where they were going to be when they were off.
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therymancruise 5y ago
Athol Kay calls those Loyalty Tests.
Gr33d3ater 5y ago
Yeah, I mean whatever they are they’re no big deal. Nothing to get worked up or end a relationship/interaction over. Women aren’t confident like strong men. Many men aren’t confident like they should be.
Flintblood 5y ago
That happens to me all the time when I’m in mission mode or tunnel vision mode. I get serious and my intent is all focused on the mission. I asked this kind of question last week, but was more about me losing energy and presence after working too long without mental breaks to lighten me tf up.
GucciGangBucks 5y ago
This might be me. I get told I’m “intense”, “overly confident”, “intimidating”, etc. sometimes I wonder if I need to take a step back and chill the fuck out. Although like you when I’m focused on my mission I have zero problem crushing weights for hours, working 10 hours, doing homework for 10 hours, or reading 500 pages of books in one night. I think I need to take a step back and realize my personality type really is top 3%. I’m an ENTJ personality type which is only 3% of people which makes it hard for people to relate to my intense nature.
Flintblood 5y ago
I usually get INTJ so we’re probably close to experiencing the same tunnel vision thing.
Hob_Toadfoot 5y ago
Your frame is currently that walking away was beta and that you must now overcome that mountain before she will recognize you as alpha.
I suggest you chose to acknowledge that you wanted to walk away, that the departing words were irrelevant, and that you're more interested in being strong than in how this individual views you.
If she wants a piece of you she may stew over her words and eventually apologize, believing she offended you.
If she doesn't then you've regained a few minutes in your day.
thebadmanpuntdbaxter 5y ago
Self certainty = frame. You saying shit you can’t back up? She calls your bluff and you scurry off tail between your legs. You stood up too soon and she made you sit the fuck down. Frame is looking back at her and saying “make me”. She knows exactly where you stand. changing her perception of your mindset is tough. You need to convince her you have a bulletproof positive playful attitude through either time or preselection in interacting with other chicks. Judging by your post, focus on time and hard work with a smile.
ReddJive 5y ago
It is possible but you are not in a relationship so why bother?
In either case though you are the prize. Even if you fail a shit test it’s her loss. She missed out on being a cool mother fucker....even one as weak as you.
As a teaching point remember she can’t read your mind. As long as you don’t lose your cool she will wonder what happened with that guy?
Women shit test alphas as well. It’s when they STOP shit testing is when you have to worry. Move on. if she was into you she will approach or make herself available.
satellite779 5y ago
When they stop shit testing they don't care?
onlinehumzu 5y ago
Comfort tests.
PM_ME_LEWD_SHIT 5y ago
You fucked up. Move on and learn from your mistake.
GucciGangBucks 5y ago
I believe so too. Crazy after being red pill so long I can still have moments where I just beta hard asf out of nowhere.
PM_ME_LEWD_SHIT 5y ago
Happens to the best of us champ. I’m still recovering from being beta.
GucciGangBucks 5y ago
I’m just happy I found this stuff at 21 and 40 like some people.
PM_ME_LEWD_SHIT 5y ago
I’m 18 and recently discovered this stuff. It’s great
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
It's possible you really were scaring/creeping her out and the smile was one of embarasment/supplication.
Dude... it's your fucking gym.... don't fuck around with the staff.
Chances are you're miscalibrated and completely fucked this up and misread the whole situation.
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teentrp2000 5y ago
What would have been the best way to deal with this situation? Usually I just A+A on shit tests, but it wouldn’t work in this situation and I have shit creativity.
BurnYourFlag 5y ago
Ignore/change the subject. But the gym is a bad place to pick up women.
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Pass the next one? You're not going to win every battle.
daytonbull90 5y ago
Talk to her as if nothing ever happened. During the moment, you should have gone to the nearest machine, done a single rep, and came right back.
Nergaal 5y ago
Play shitty games win shitty prizes