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gains_o_clock 5y ago
Hey OP not to burst your bubble or anything but I want you to make sure you get good fricking grades on these midterms because grades are way more important than girls man. Work on yourself and let that be a side mission of yours maybe.
bondbandito 5y ago
Thanks brother. Good reading of context, you are right. Very thankfully I only have a single paper (most have 3-4 papers).
But. I really should have a stronger purpose beyond girls
[deleted] 5y ago
This. Exactly this. This man has the right priorities, OP, listen to him.
midnightreider 5y ago
Yep, firstly your well being and confidence are bolstered by achieving high grades. Secondly, girls are attracted to intelligence and achievement, both of which are bolstered by high grades
twdziki 5y ago
So... She agreed to do study together with you?
Go study with her, apply game. What's the problem here?
bondbandito 5y ago
Yea but that was in passing (in person not text), and she said there's someone she's studying with for that too anyway
We haven't made concrete arrangements, and I don't know how to bring her mood to that high point when we were together and ask again
twdziki 5y ago
Then make concrete arrangements for studying with her alone. You don't even have to mention that other person.
Also, who's the other person? Maybe they're a complete pushover and you don't have to worry about them anyway.
bondbandito 5y ago
I should pretext that I did already ask her out tonight - she sent a pic of her rushing her project (w google docs and all) with groupmates, I.e. legit busy.
I'm concerned about how to get her to the emotional high point to ask for a meetup. Given that she's not demonstrating more than mild interest
About the other person - I dk lol. She just said she had someone she was studying with. Could even be schrodinger's friend for all we know
twdziki 5y ago
You can work on your text game, but just through texting you'll very rarely get something more than mild interest for longer periods of time. The job of texting is to get her interested enough that she's willing to at least give you a chance, nothing more.
Then you go spinning other plates/do your thing in general until the time she said she's done with the project and after that you chat her up, ask her how is she doing, exchange maybe 1-2 messages and then ask her out.
If she's still not interested, don't waste your time. Find someone who appreciates your attention.
bondbandito 5y ago
Thanks for the detailed response, highly appreciate it.
I especially like this line, always a healthy mentality I should have
twdziki 5y ago
In terms of texting game though one thing I've noticed from that short convo is that you don't ask question at all. If she's not super into you (but still somewhat interested) and you don't direct the conversation through questions, she'll just respond with single-word messages like "Yes" or "Same", giving you nothing to work with.
One way of appearing clever through text is to ask a question you already know an answer to and prepare an answer your answer to that answer.
Of course don't overthink it - you still have to be adaptable and roll with the punches, but yeah, questions are good way to steer conversation in general.
bondbandito 5y ago
You're right about me not asking questions. I intentionally didn't cause some guy advised not to - but your reasoning makes better sense to me.
The last messages are mine now, so unless she says something by tomorrow when should I message her to revive the convo?
I really feel like moving the conversation to Whatsapp/Telegram too - IG has always looked non-conducive to instant messaging
twdziki 5y ago
Maybe he meant it in the way that you should be confident and take charge. But you can lead through questions. From my experience it's a good way to circumvent the initial ASD.
Don't bombard her with questions though - it's not an interrogation. Remember - initial texting is only for making her interested enough that she's open to seeing you 1-on-1. Not for making the entire seduction happen.
She already gave you a cold shoulder for now. Her schedule is not going to free up in just 24 hours. And messaging her everyday will only lead to oneitis anyway.
Find something to do in the meantime, contact her in a couple of days.
Here you must rely on your own judgement - I'm an old fart who doesn't use IG and I don't even know what Telegram is. But if it's more intimate then sure. But once again - it's only to make her interested, not for idle chatting. If you want you'll have plenty time for chatting when you're in a closer relationship.
bondbandito 5y ago
Thanks man. Really appreciate you going through my longass message to reply to each thought
bondbandito 5y ago
Reflecting on it, I had just mentioned the midterms trying to bait her into asking me about the study meeting we talked about.
But, that's actually expecting too much forwardness of a girl right?
twdziki 5y ago
It depends how high she considers your SMV to be (or whether she sees you as a beta provider, but then you'll get to see her, but you'll never get even close to that pussy).
Banking on your innate SMV to do the job for you can work, but it's not a reliable tactic in my opinion and I prefer to stick to higher-percentage stuff.
bondbandito 5y ago
I see. She's on exchange from overseas so theres some cultural/language differences to work around - so I really should have made things clear-cut. I'm kinda banking on the 'guy you can get away with banging overseas' thing. Won't be surprised if she has a boyfriend back home
vandaalen 5y ago
"I need a break. Let's meet for a coffee at x in fifteen minutes."
bondbandito 5y ago
Different library.
vandaalen 5y ago
So...
redhawkes 2 5y ago
ffs you ain't gonna drink a coffee in the library dude
bondbandito 5y ago
Ffs Im in the opposite side of town. Why would yall comprehend it as being reachable within 15min given its different libraries
redhawkes 2 5y ago
Read the context. What vandaalen is saying is to isolate her at some place - aka logistics, then game.
You autistically fixate yourself on the timing.
bondbandito 5y ago
in fifteen minutes Not even. He thought it was nearby. Im 3 hours away so that line falls flat
redhawkes 2 5y ago
You dense mofo
And no x doesn't mean ten.
bondbandito 5y ago
Whatever.
You just changed the meaning not just the time
BadBoyProgrammer 5y ago
You both in the library?
Perhaps talk to her, using you mouth, instead of texting?
bondbandito 5y ago
Different library, I should clarify