I've gotten with one girl so far and we've made out one night at her house. I had never kissed a girl before her and I think she was a bit dissatisfied with my performance. I didn't get much out of it either, so I'm wondering where my weakness lies and I realized that I don't even know the first thing about kissing.
What exactly should I be doing when I kiss? Where should the animation and stimulation be coming from? Is it simply pressing lips together with some pressure, should I be sucking hers ever so slightly etc. It's an aspect I've never heard about.
Thanks.
Aurora921 6y ago
I would advice you to kiss another man first so he can teach you how to be a proper kisser. You might also want to blow a guy or get fucked im the ass first to learn proper technique.
EmbarrassingPostAcc 6y ago
I'd rather fuck him in the ass first so I can get direct experience with the role I'd like pursue with women, but perhaps I could get fucked in the ass afters to understand the other's perspective and round out my conception of it all. Thanks for the insight.
dubfegnezz 6y ago
This isn’t the kind of question you should be asking here. Don’t expect to get advice on this situation. Whatever happens, at the end of the day a funny story will come about. Don’t give a fuck and whatever happens happens
-saltymangos- 6y ago
You’re over thinking it bro. I got my first kiss 2 days ago and just happens. Just do what you think is right. I used to watch video after video on how to kiss and it just happened. I didn’t even expect her to kiss me. She just went right in and I followed.
EmbarrassingPostAcc 6y ago
I came here in hopes of a no-nonsense, straight answer. What I thought was right ended up not being so, and I feel like it's hurt my chances. Telling me "just do what you think is right" is non-advice much in the same way as "just be yourself" is.
I'm just looking for a basic explanation of what I ought to be doing as a basis: of course I want to plant my lips on hers at the minimum, but I don't want to suck on them like I'm emptying a teat dry. What is the golden middle ground?
-saltymangos- 6y ago
Then look up a video on YT. It’ll go in-depth and show visuals. Her lips are gonna move around. Your lips will move around. There’s no “planning” after the initial kiss happens (assuming you’ll go right into making out).
If you just want to kiss her and that’s all. Just wait for her lips to be together and tilt your head a little and just kiss.
There’s really no golden middle ground. You’ll have to adapt on the fly, just go with whatever is happening. You CANT predict and plan this type of shit out. It’ll drive you crazy.
I’m no expert on this though. Go to Youtube and they’ll have your answer.
setsuna0 6y ago
Don't think feel
UnPawsed 6y ago
Aim for the top or bottom lip. Not both.
randomcaqitaLization 6y ago
This is legit advice? I must be the worst kisser alive. Hilarious xD
ZeppKfw 6y ago
yeah like don't suck her whole mouth man
pretty_bread 6y ago
Not everybody's first kiss will be how they expect it.
_thechinaman_ 6y ago
Lolololol. "Give me the philosophies to teach me how to laugh!"
light-----------dark 6y ago
Slow and sensual.
Right when your lips graze hers, pull back, but pull her head towards yours - push/pull. After about 2-3 times, you make out, and then pull back and repeat the above again.