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moltenw 5y ago
What if I don't drink and don't use any substances?
I feel like it's still possible to pull off something like that off, but at the same time - "lets grab a drink" and then not drinking could be iffy.
Maybe you can turn it into a joke when she asks why you dont have a drink with something like "I have one, see? - Water."
Empodocles 5y ago
You're taking this quite literally, substitute with "Grab a coffee" or "grab an ice cream" and you're good to go.
moltenw 5y ago
Nah, I mean, I get that, that's exactly what I'm doing right now due to me not drinking. I was just wondering if that could work as well in my situation.
I do need to spend less time in my head and overthinking things, though.
P.S I don't drink cofee or eat ice cream either haha
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latinasonly 5y ago
my in text game worries me more than in person or on the phone, because I have my tone of voice and body language to take care of shit tests when I "go too far " on a comment. also when I match with a girl on tinder, even if my text game seems confident they have not seen my confident demeanor
NewYorkGuy41 5y ago
Lol did you pull that not wanting to waste her time (I’m very respectful) etc... off r/tinder? I posted that shit I’m gonna be so happy if I helped a brother out
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
Good guy NewYorkGuy41
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NewYorkGuy41 5y ago
Hahahahaha yessssss. God that makes my day. Let’s pm each other notes.
teentrp2000 5y ago
Is the text where OP opens up and tells her the truth a good idea? Wouldn't it be better to keep the plausible deniability so she doesn't feel like a slut and so sex "just happens."
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teentrp2000 5y ago
Yeah, if it's Tinder it changes the dynamic. I thought this was something you might regularly do with girls you originally met in person.
OfficerWade 5y ago
I once asked a girl how she would feel going to a second bar after we left the first one. She was DTF and by the way people talk about moving around I thought it would be ok just tell her let’s go back to my house and drink instead because there’s less noise.
As for the kissing, the best code of conduct is to save it for the moment you can potentially fuck. If she has any resistance to you getting your hands on her she will tell you right away. Don’t fuck up and tell her to go home like I see many guys do. It’s the type of mentality that leaves you with nothing. Keep pushing for the win.
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OfficerWade 5y ago
You can try but you have to gauge her interest. Rejection is a lot better than failure because you don’t want her to think you’re a wimp.
Zanford 5y ago
Dinner's bad for dates anyway.
'ice cream' where the exchange is at, is decent, as is 'drinks', 'coffee' etc. esp if the logistics are good (Very close to her place).
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HurricaneHugues 5y ago
Whats wrong with ice cream? Explain to me. Its hot af outside, ice cream is cold and come sin different flavors, so does frozen yogurt. Its an enjoyable experience that offers up a lot of kino opportunities and body fluid swaps.
Zanford 5y ago
If you live with your parents as an adult, taking her to your place is terrible logistics (both b/c of cockblocking and b/c it's a DLV) but if it's better than her place for whatever reason, then I suppose it's your best option.
CainPrice 5y ago
Within the first 10 seconds. Hug her hello. If she doesn't pull away after a few seconds, keep touching when you sit back down.
If a girl is meeting you past 9:00 PM, that's not really a date. It's just an hour getting drinks for you guys to screen each other for potential craziness before going home to fuck. A dinner date is silly for a hook-up. You should be getting drinks at 9.
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
Hug? What the fuck is this? Teletubbies hanging out? He should kiss her on the cheek.
DownyGall 5y ago
How is she DTF?
latinasonly 5y ago
hey guys I have a question that is related to this topic. I cannot invite girls to my current house because my family is always home. I would like to invite myself to their house. How would you recommend I go about doing that? It feels a lot more pushy to say "hey why don't you invite me over to your place", or is there nothing wrong with that, or should I pick a location close to their place and then escalate and try to pull to there pad ?
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latinasonly 5y ago
I share a room with two other people so there is not much privacy at my place (during the school year I have a room to myself at a college house), and I also have the same issue with bringing less attractive girls over
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
When u meet up, give her a kiss on the cheek, dont hug her. Kino throughout the date. Pick a different ice cream flavor than she does, then offer her to lick from your cone and vice versa. Or take one bowl wih different flavors and use one spoon. Just get her co fotable with touch and body fluid exchange. By the time u get home, your hormones and natural instincts should be primed for reproductive activity.
MisterDSTP 5y ago
Thats disgusting..I ain't licking no ice cream spoon off no thot
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
But u expedt to kiss her?
MisterDSTP 5y ago
Not really... but heat of the moment kissing during sex can atleast be rationalized..
I personally only do a "Hollywood style" kiss just to make sure she's DTF but just thinking about tongue kissing a thots makes me quiver. Yuck.
I'm black FWIW. So maybe it's a cultural thing.
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
I feel u lol. Havent kissed a hookup since 3 years ago. I just kiss their necks and proceed
DadOnDabs 5y ago
She's looking for you to pay for her meal, don't.
To carry on with that you start escalation from the moment you see her. Greet with a hug, do playful pushes and teasing touches, as soon as you can isolate go for the kiss. Then simply make an excuse to go back to your place.
kidkidkid123321 5y ago
Don't show any interest when you're with her. Play it casual. As though you've never met her. She'll go fucking crazy for you.
MisterDSTP 5y ago
So how does OP shift out of the dinner date that he already agreed to?
Retstortion 5y ago
Bro you live with your parents. Nobody is gonna fuck you
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rivermongoose69 5y ago
It’s probably your mom trying to cockblock you. Don’t give up!
casemodz 5y ago
Wait for that when you're in a room together.
Honestly if she's willing to go home with you or bring you to hers, she's dtf. Just gotta put a movie on, get her a drink. Have some bulls bullshit convo about the movie, etc. Put your arm around her. Brush her hair next to her ear. Tell her she looks really cute...if she looks at you or turns her head, smile and slowly lean in for a kiss. Even married chicks need some attention and want to feel pretty...especially with "strangers". That's why you'll have more luck with a girl you don't know over a girl you've known for a while.