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[deleted] 5y ago
Stop thinking about girls and start thinking about yourself. See a speech therapist.
NotMeUsee 5y ago
This is good advice. Not saying other advice is bad. But this is best.
10211799107 5y ago
"Think about what you want to say...not what you're going to say" - some TRP member comment i read once
Practice at home. Talk to youself in the mirror and slow the fuck down. Think about what you want to say and say it slow and clear. If it's a legit case of stuttering and not nerves, see a therapist.
Shieldless_One 5y ago
Might be unorthodox advice but try psilocybin mushrooms.
Theres still a lot of grey area but its been known ro help people with depression and addiction. A few people have said its cured their stuttering too because its all mental.
DanishApollon 5y ago
A skilled hypnotist can fix your stuttering issue in one session. Find one in your area and book a one on one session.
Source: Am hypnotist.
MindFuktd 5y ago
Would love to chat about your background as hypnotist. I find hypnosis, psychotherapy, NLP etc very abstract but EFFECTIVE. Will pm you some ideas/questions....what got you into the field?
DanishApollon 5y ago
You're more than welcome to pm me.
I got into this field out of pure interest. I realized that I could remove my chronic pains from an old back injury through hypnosis.
This is what I do for a living now. Both physical and emotional pain along with other things.
10211799107 5y ago
"Think about what you want to say...not what you're going to say" - some TRP member comment i read once
Practice at home. Talk to youself in the mirror and slow the fuck down. Think about what you want to say and say it slow and clear. If it's a legit case of stuttering and not nerves, see a therapist.
Jojobelle 5y ago
I used to stutter and now I don’t. Don’t be nervous it’s a simple as that. Big bigger than the situation and don’t have a victim mentality. I used to stutter to say my name but when asked because I wasn’t proud of who I am. Now I am. If oh need any help free to DM me
jm51 5y ago
Check out The Alexander Technique and book a lesson.
Not all AT teachers are great ime. If you leave the first lesson feeling like you're walking on air, you've found a good teacher. That feeling wears off pretty quick but with continuing lessons it takes longer to go until pretty soon, that's your default state.
People take lessons to fix certain problems. eg stuttering but it's important to realise that the lessons are to teach you how to use your body correctly. With correct use of the self, problems like stuttering go away as a side effect of correct body use.
lbrownlbandit 5y ago
Try saying something you know to be completely true to a mirror with as much anger as you can put out without being loud ie stern voice. Works to get me out of a stuttering stupor. Repeat till it feels natural.
anonymau5 5y ago
pump
PM_ME_LEWD_SHIT 5y ago
I stuttered a lot too man. I naturally talk fast as fuck so I’d lose my train of thought and start stuttering. What helped me was talking slower, and don’t be afraid to say what comes to mind.
Johnnadawearsglasses 5y ago
Do you often know the answer or the right path but someone else speaks up first?
RetiredPolarBear 5y ago
Definitely
[deleted] 5y ago
I don't know how it is like for you, but I've always been a stutterer as well. My stuttering had to do with my confidence and me being self-conscious.
Before TRP, I used to get self-conscious easily and anything that would happen and shatter my confidence would get me stuttering a lot. I used to hate the way I look, not satisfied with who I am and always wanted to be better. And stuttering always made the problem all the worse.
However, after TRP, my stuttering decreased significantly. I say decreased not disappeared because it can't just be vanished. Especially after losing weight and beginning to look better and coming in terms with myself, I my confidence was much higher and now, I just say whatever the fuck that comes in my mind. I stutter sometimes, but I still say it. People don't even notice because of my confidence.
So my advice is, same as the rest here, is to work on yourself on becoming a better person, especially the physical part of things. Confidence is something that we all aspire to have but only a few are born with it. If you're not confident enough, then start lifting and eating more healthy only to look better. Look up posts about male fashion and that kind of stuff and improve your looks. You said your face is not bad, so work on the rest of your body, your hair.. etc.
And when you start looking better, PEOPLE WILL NOTICE.
They will fucking notice. Especially those that you see once in a while. And they will compliment you on how cool you look. And when that happens, you feel a sense of satisfaction which in turn nurtures your confidence. And the more girls giving you IOIs, the more confident you become.
I can't describe to you what confidence is, but when you start feeling it, stuttering will be something of the past, and you'll feel that everyone will want to take part of your world.
Work on yourself brah. If I did it, you can too.
[deleted] 5y ago
When you start being confident, you'll feel have that "Fuck you and fuck off" attitude towards people, so even though you are stuttering, people would still want to take part in your world. If they don't, they are cordially invited to go fuck themselves. That's what everyone here thinks. If someone or some girl is being a bitch around you for whatever reason there is, you won't chase after them asking them what's up? You open the door for them and ask them to close it after the quit.
If you're still stuttering even after increasing your smv, don't make it pull you down. It's who you are and you must deal with it.
Mysterious_Thing 5y ago
Have you tried meditation? Try meditating 1-2 times a day for 15 minutes. That might actually help your stuttering.
https://www.headspace.com/blog/2017/02/04/mindfulness-and-stuttering/
Qazreddit99 5y ago
Read sidebar a few times.
If your stutter is a legitimate speech impediment and not just nerves then get speech therapy. It is real amd can work wonders. A good speech pathologist can chamge your life.
If people knew the BP you then they will always see you that way. Sucks, but that's life.
If you have an RP attitude but a BP body then people won't feel respect-only distaste. You don't NEED to be 6'0" or have a super strong jaw/chin or have broad shoulders. You just need to be well groomed/dressed and in decent shape.
[deleted] 5y ago
agreed
red pill mind is nothing without a decent figure., people judge you on how you look regardless
Qazreddit99 5y ago
It's like how Patrice O'Neal would walk up to women and start insulting them. That worked for him because: A)he had that kind of personality B)He was like 6'5. He was a gigantic black guy. Nobody was going to mess with him.
I am a 5'7 white dude. The way he did things likely wouldn't work for me. RP puts tons of emphasis on game, but if you LOOK like a bitch then you almost always get treated like one. This means that if you look like a pussy then your 'game' has to be spot on or people will simply treat you horribly.
Looks are as important as game. This gets brushed under the rug a lot here because people don't actually want to admit it. They sre still BP. They want to believe thag you just need to be in good shape to be top 20%, but this isn't totally true. A chubby 6'1 man with a good physical frame and a handsome face will still rise far above a 5'8, small framed man with a mediocre face who is shredded.
[deleted] 5y ago
exactly, and i think i read something where the blacker the skin, the more apparent masculine qualities, thats kinda why the darker skinned girls offend the whiter ones because of the whole white = feminine. anyway excuse the debate on race.
he was 6ft 5? no wonder he had no problem getting laid and even more so when he was a fat fuck. 5'7 sameish here, 5;9 here.
i absolutely agree with all that though, the better you look the easier it will be to hold your frame (saying this as a guy with an immensely bad looking face) the halo effect is well and truly real, game is definitely very very important to build your character. i've found changing the tone of what i say has a massive effect, and even more so when i'm just being an insulting asshole, women love it *(obviously you have to be pushing limits but not be out and be a prick intentionally)
i know fulll well my game could get a lot of different pussy, it's just the excution part of my limiting self beliefs that could do with some work...i'm saying this as someone who doesn't lift, pussy can sense a stronger man and at the end of the day, that person needs to be socially on another level to get poom poom
bidric 5y ago
What did it for me was to speak loud, deep, and slow.
When you wanna say something, just start saying it slowly, but confidently. Chances are people are going to shut up and listen, and if they don't, it doesn't matter, nobody cared, because you didn't sound nervous.
Johnnadawearsglasses 5y ago
Then what you have to realize is that number 1 the stuttering is purely mental most likely. The second thing is that you are afraid of speaking up because you fear failure. You think if you say one stupid thing everyone will judge you. Which is incorrect. Listen to the most powerful person at your job speak. I bet 25% of what they say is wrong or meaningless or both. No one cares. People just want a leader. A proactive action oriented leader. Because most people can’t or won’t lead. And without a leader the pack is aimless.
So stop being afraid to fail. Accept it as a price of success.
That’s the big picture.
The little picture is you getting spoken over or interrupted. That problem stems from you being viewed as not a leader, as someone who doesn’t deserve to be listened to. To change that perception the first step is to have impact when you speak. For work, before you go into a meeting write out your key bullets. Speak first so you have the podium and are less likely to be preempted. And keep your comments concise and impactful. No rambling. Rambling is boring and boring begs to be interrupted.
Alchabitius 5y ago
Try not fapping and watching porn for about a week, your t levels would be higher. And it would give your brain a rest from all the poison you put in it. It helped me, and I suggest you try it.