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chachaChad 5y ago
Never, ever be afraid to tell someone what is on your mind. If she doesn't like it she get get the fuck out. I get the RP wants girls to figure shit out just by ghosting but life doesn't always work that way.
I think not telling her the truth directly when she asks is pretty fucking weak.
Do it calmly without emotion. Say it once. Wait for her reaction. If she responds how you want (i.e. some kind of apology or something positive) great. Take it in. Tell her it's great that she understands and you're glad that's behind you both.
If she shits on you again or fucks with you in anyway, just say OK and move the fuck on.
TelemakosTheDane 5y ago
ChachaChad reaches the same conclusion as I did, go ahead and tell someone if they step out of line. I respectfully disagree with his Chadliness on one thing though, which is: don´t tell her what is on your mind. (I get what he is saying and agree, but I think the wording is problematic)
Don´t use the words you did here, as in don´t say that ´´ What bothered me is it seemed like one of Those instances where she treated a stranger better than she treats me ´´. I would suggest letting her know that she stepped out of line, that it is in poor taste and that you don´t want her to do it again. Don´t leave anything up for debate, you didn´t overreact or have some emotional overreaction, she did something that was not okay, bad behaviour to display in public and you don´t want it to happen again. Remeber that scence in Godfather? Never go against the family in front others, or Daddy might get shot by the Tattaglias.
totallyAlphaguy 5y ago
Great response. Men set boundaries and women either follow or gtfo. Men lead and make rules.
chachaChad 5y ago
To be fair, everybody can set boundaries. A common one for females is "You don't get no more pussy until we are dating, married... etc...". Lots of guys fall for that one.
The real challenge is to set your own boundaries and know when to walk away from other people when they enforce their boundaries.
totallyAlphaguy 5y ago
Boundaries are slightly different from manipulation tactics though. But I am more so making a general statement.
chachaChad 5y ago
Boundaries are about what you will and won't do or put up with,
epictetus_irl 5y ago
Just take the week off without verbalising it
fnordsnord 5y ago
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raging_mongoose 5y ago
Tell her you needed time to work on yourself / career / spent time with your buddies.
Women arent stupid she knows its about her she just wants you to say it so she can tell you how wrong you are for thinking she disrespected you.
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Ricklogical 5y ago
I'm super clear and up front about boundaries in the start of a relationship. As I change and make new steps into myself, I tend to talk about it with any woman I might be seeing.
If you don't like her disrespecting you in front of others you can say something, but you should really crush those feelings and be indifferent to it. Best of all is to be entertained by it. Things like that are comical to me. No one can put you down but you my brother.
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Ricklogical 5y ago
Tell me what happened. I need more details.