Plate blocked me on Instagram and stopped responding for no reason I can think of. I’ve been seeing her for about 3 months. Can I get a quick analysis on what happened here?
I tried to set up plans with this plate last week. She took forever to respond so I made other plans in the meantime. When she finally got back to me and said yes, I informed her I made other plans.
She wasn’t happy about it but we exchanged a couple texts the next day. Seemed like no big deal. About a week goes by and we text last night about hanging out this week. Then started texting again today about the golf tournament. Normally don’t do that with her but was planning on transitioning to arranging a meet up.
Anyway we’re teasing through text and she’s snapping me a bunch. We were talking about which golfers we liked and I was joking about their attire, who’s hot, etc. Seemingly innocent stuff. Then here’s how the conversation plays out:
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Her: you’re so shallow
Me: only when it comes to guys
Me: I see the inner beauty in women
Her: that’s profound
Me: I mean I hang out with you
Me: you’re not much of a looker ????
Her: that’s what they say man
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Then she blocked me on Instagram. Nothing else happened. Not sure what to make of it. I texted her and said “did you block me on Instagram lol? // I was about to send you a meme.” No response from her after that.
I’m totally ok never contacting her again. Just confused. Did I push too hard? Is this potentially some sort of shit test to see if I chase after her? I mean we’ve never fought about anything. Seemed like everything was fine. Just a little confused. Wondering if anyone has any theories.
Also, what’s my best move going forward? Never contact again? Ask her to get together this week? Was thinking about just texting her “interesting”.
But yeah, I don’t know. Just find it odd and unexplainable. Maybe she found another guy but doesn’t explain why she was texting and snapping me all day yesterday before blocking me. Any theories and advice would be appreciated.
Edit: turns out she’s seeing someone and he took her phone yesterday. She texted me and said she likes me but we weren’t really hanging out a lot. I’ve been trying to balance four plates so I think this one broke due to lack of availability.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
She’s a plate. Plates fall and break.
Also, you need to work on your witty repartee.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
You're not attractive and she found more attractive dick.
Bedtimeshine 5y ago
I knew that the minute I read the title.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Sort of what happened. But when she clarified and said she’s been seeing someone else, she said it’s because we haven’t been hanging out a lot and she likes me. She agreed to hang out Wednesday. So I think it was less about attractiveness and more about lack of availability. I haven’t seen her for probably at least 3 weeks.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Ok. Definitely possible. But why did she send me like 10 snaps earlier that day before blocking me? I didn’t send her a single one back.
Kevin19Fish 5y ago
She sent you the snaps before you pissed her off. You told her she wasnt much of a looker and that made her upset.
You're uncalibrated and you tried to do to much. Playfully teasing a girl and being a little cocky is good. Straight up calling a girl ugly will never get you laid unless you have triple the smv she has...which I'm assuming you don't
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Yeah thanks for the input but you’re wrong. She’s been seeing someone else. He took her phone that day. She didn’t think I was interested because I hadn’t asked her to hang out in a couple weeks. We’re hanging out this weekend. My comment on her looks meant nothing.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
To make you jealous? "You ain't gonna get this pussy anymore". All women are attention whores so.. don't get oneitis on her
btrpb 5y ago
"you're not much of a looker”
bluefingerblue 5y ago
You think that was too harsh? Clearly a joke.
Kevin19Fish 5y ago
"your dicks not big enough to make me cum ????"
Clearly a joke.
btrpb 5y ago
Yeah clearly a joke. The kind of joke women don't like...
fnordsnord 5y ago
deleted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^0.4977 ^^^What ^^^is ^^^this?
[deleted] 5y ago
It's just a plate. Don't PMS about it.
lol wtf was that?
You called the bitch ugly and wonder why she doesn't want to talk to you.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Yeah but she’s clearly hot. And she knows that. I dunno man. Just said some shit.
Empodocles 5y ago
Follow up text made you look really beta.
If you really wanted to text her her about it, which I would strongly recommend not to, make it a joke instead of such a beta needy question + "lol".
It's just a plate. Go to the gym and watch an episode of The Red Pill interviews. :)
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Yeah true. How do you joke about someone blocking you on Instagram tho. Don’t see much joke potential there
Empodocles 5y ago
That's why I wouldn't recommend it
Kommanderdude 5y ago
Stop being a butt hurt whinny man bitch because your Oneitis blocked you on Instagram.
Kevin19Fish 5y ago
Stop posting bullshit comments like these. Op is asking WHY he failed so he doesn't make the same mistake again. Telling someone to not care that they failed doesn't help anyone
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Lol she’s not my oneitis. I have a different girl I have oneitis for lol.
Kommanderdude 5y ago
Yet you wrote an entire dissertation on reddit about this one meaningless plate that blocked you.......
Ok.
GStaGib 5y ago
90% of this subreddit is about learning to fuck bitches. The bitch in question was no longer fucking. He wants to learn why. People like you don't help anybody.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Because I didn’t understand what happened. Seemed totally out of the blue.
FMIBMW 5y ago
Not give a fuck and keep doing you.
[deleted] 5y ago
Oneitus.
Dio_Brando_Joestar 5y ago
Your game sucks. Go work on it.