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MadKat88 6y ago
The problem is not the snapchat use. It's that you care. It doesn't matter if she's sending puppy pictures to her friends or her tits to her side man. Remember she is replaceable and let her do her thing. Abundance.
Wakatowa 6y ago
This 100%. Why should you talk to her about it and show your insecurities?
MrGoodStuff05 6y ago
I might be the unpopular opinion here but to me this is literally a non-issue. She probably just snaps a bunch of dumbass pictures to her friends that got nothing better to do with their times.
[deleted] 6y ago
Yeah, I’m in my late twenties and everyone uses Snapchat. Bigger issues at play here, mainly trust issues.
The fact that you are monitoring her Snapchat score is a big red flag for yourself. That’s not healthy. Next thing you know you’ll be grilling her at parties about who she was talking to. Think hard on if you can handle a relationship.
cantstopper 6y ago
Honestly, I have no reason not to trust her. She's open with it and even offered to delete it because she doesn't want it to hurt the relationship. I declined because I didn't want to come off as insecure and let her have a normal life with me. I even saw her friends list when she opened snapchat and the top 6 people (people atop her list) were her girlfriends and other mutual friends of ours. I assume the list lists people who you snap most frequently atop the list. I haven't seen the entire list.
I guess what bothers me is:
1) The reputation of Snapchat being secretive and a cheater's app
2) The fact that my sister used to be a big snapchat user and she went from guy to guy like it was some kind of game
3) The fact that her Snapchat score goes up ~300 per day, meaning she's exchanging a lot of secret images or videos with people other than myself. Kind of bothers me.
[deleted] 6y ago
This isn't about where or not you have reason to trust her. If you didn't trust her then, hopefully, you would have dumped her by now. It's about the fact that you are closely monitoring her behavior.
If you want to stay in this relationship, you should not be bringing this up to her. Hell, I've lost attraction to you based on this post.
cantstopper 6y ago
Lol, thanks for being honest. Thanks for the advice. I just deleted the app and I'm going to be completely ignoring it from now on. It's playing too many games on my mind.
[deleted] 6y ago
Have you tried talking to her about this? Remember to look her in the eyes, also, if you don't tell her how you feel about this the way you just told us here on Reddit, or even better, if you don't mention to her that you made this post about your concern, I don't see why you too should be meant to be together.
All of this might be just your thoughts in your head, there might be some truth or not to a certain degree about what you said.
Oh boy, the silly concerns some people go through these days, Snapchat? Instagram? nothing wrong with using those apps for a good 5-10 minutes of your 18 hour long day, relax friend.
Stay healthy buddy.
cantstopper 6y ago
That's why I was adamant about dating a woman who doesn't use these apps...but...yeah, she started using it again. Go figure.
[deleted] 6y ago
How did you convince yourself that there is anything wrong with using those apps? Have you considered that your so loved one enjoys the little time (probably nowhere near as much as she enjoys spending her time with you) throughout her day that she spends on those apps? You really should try to raise some questions from her perspective about her world, then about your world from a side perspective.
[deleted] 6y ago
You are aware that the purpose of snapchat is to text and especially send pics that delete automatically behind you, right? They are trying to grow the brand but it's core is titties and sexting.
Doesn't appreciably change the advice but acting like snap is the direct equivalent of say normal texting or messenger (which she could be using instead but isnt for "some reason") is a little off.
cantstopper 6y ago
I guess just how fast her score is increasing is bothering me, coupled with the negative things I keep reading about it.
[deleted] 6y ago
I really suggest you to talk about these things exactly with her, she might be happy that the score is increasing, and if she is, then you should be too in my opinion.
joedevice 6y ago
If you take one snap and send it to 10 friends, thats +10 on your score. Girls have lots of 'friends' that snap each other bullshit. So if each snap goes to 10 people then your 300 snaps a day very quickly becomes only 30 actual pictures.
Etc. The number is inflated. Stop worrying so much.
cantstopper 6y ago
Sometimes when I receive a snap, I get +4 added to my score. Still, 30 videos and images is a lot, especially for a 30 year old going to 31.
joedevice 6y ago
Why is it a lot? Women like social media. Stop being so insecure.
[deleted] 6y ago
first. she’s in her late 20’s. this means her options are drying up. this explains her need to expose herself to others online
second, i don’t know what a snap score is exactly, but it sounds like she has quite a fan club. why would she need to gain validation from a bunch of online strangers?
she is still looking for a mate
dump this broad before she dumps you. she is broken