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PS2Errol 5y ago
They are jealous.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
You smash, they don’t, they mad.
anti_masyarakat 5y ago
If you don't fuck em somebody else will
That's what happens. Kids get wasted. Bunch of pervert takes advantage of her.
You are doing her a favour. Not letting her do bad decisions.
She will look up to you. Like a light house.
Every boyfriend she had after this will based on you.
To begin with, 13 year old kids already lose their virginity and have bunch of people inside her, hell some even have a daddy and already experienced pet play and gang bang.
So, like I said, you are doing her a favour. Unless, you the one who want to corrupted her.
punchyson 5y ago
I love High School girls, I keep getting older but they stay the same age....
Name that truth
RedSkeller 5y ago
Dude I'm in my 30s and I tell my friends about the 20 year olds I bang and they look at me with wonder. Suddenly around their girlfriends or a female audience this becomes 'creepy'.
bidric 5y ago
I don't see how that's weird? You're fucking 21, are you supposed to date 20 yo girls exclusively? wtf
Glowv2 5y ago
You explained it yourself buddy. Jealous , blue pilled betas. You go out and you feast, creepy lil fucker
TonytheNetworker 5y ago
To be completely blunt, I think it's a facade. If any of the pathetic betas had a chance to pound some fresh 18-year-old pussy they would not hesitate. They are full of shit because they would do the same exact thing if given the opportunity so they are being haters and calling you a creep as a way of projection.
Str8_Pillin 5y ago
Social conditioning.
The girls they hang around with don't like it because they can't compete forever. They don't want guys to know that they can trade in their lease for something brand new every couple of years. Its advantageous to them to train BPs to think that its "creepy" in order to keep their stability.
The guys adopt this mentality because they think agreeable = pussy, and they don't know how to shut it off when they're around only guys.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Beta upbringing and jealousy. It's that simple.
Prodigalrockstar 5y ago
in hs I always thought the older guys hooking up with girls in my grade were lame bc it typically meant they couldn't get girls their own age. this spilled over into early 20s..i'm now 27 and if you think i'm fucking/dating a girl over 23yo lmaooo
8700nonK 5y ago
Well, 18 is still in high school, so probably that's why. After college things tend to equalize more. I remember in high school dating outside of it (so older dudes) was seen as a big deal and unusual (in a bad way), even though the age difference wasn't that big. A 30 guy dating a 22 is seen as perfectly normal, so you just need to wait some years..
Quaternionz 5y ago
I'm 29 and I'm plating a 20 year old. Just ignore it and laugh it off. There's no logic to this shaming convention, nor even a coherent philosophy. You can't argue against its tenants, because there aren't any. It's just fear and jealousy.
Men are jealous. You know they'll be going home later that night to jerk off to porn where the girls are 18-21. You know they'd go for it if they could press a button and make a horny 18 year old appear and want to fuck them.
Women are terrified to admit that something like 80% of their dating market value is determined by their youth and physical appearance. You know they'd go for it if they could press a button and be the flawless 19 year old hot girl again.
If someone gives you shit just agree and amplify like everyone else is suggesting.
"Oh, well, you know, I actually prefer them at 17, but 18 is safer."
"Don't worry, I always check their IDs first."
"Yeah, she's the 5th one I've bagged this month. They're just throwing themselves at me lately, not much I can do about it."
If you really feel like arguing about it logically then tell your beta and feminist friends to go and actually ask a 19 year old why she likes dating older guys. I've had multiple young women share their feelings on this subject with me spontaneously. It's always the same story. "I can't stand dating guys my age. They're such immature little babies. They're not men yet. That's why I like dating you. You're a man and not a little boy. You don't send me pages of crazy text messages, you don't get emotional, sex with you is actually good, you have money and can take care of me, etc... etc..."
Tell that to a single 30 year old feminist friend over drinks sometime, and then show her pictures of the 19 year old hottie you're banging. She might just start crying right there in front of you when she realizes how fucked she is. She wants the same things the 19 year old wants. She's just a little girl inside too. But now she's too old and irrelevant to attract any good quality men who will genuinely meet those needs for her.
OMGtothemoon 5y ago
Dude I'm 36 and plate 18 yr olds all the time. Fuck the haters, you're balls deep in 18yo snatch.
MakoShark93 5y ago
LMAO, do you ever think sometimes that you were their age when they were born?
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It’s the crab bucket mentality in action.
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omega_dawg93 5y ago
tell them to STFU and stop watching "barely legal" porn where the girls are 18 & 19 yrs old.
parents have 364 days + 1 more day to get their kids ready for adult life at 18. after 18, the kid's gloves come off and they're set-out into the real world where 'wolves' & gold-diggers exist.
18 yr old men are taking bullets defending this country and your friends are worried about local 18 yr olds taking cock.
OP, pull your unit out and get to work.
friendandadvisor 5y ago
WTF are you hanging around these fucking faggots??
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friendandadvisor 5y ago
FTFY. Otherwise, you're doing great.
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friendandadvisor 5y ago
99% are worthless leeches. The other 1% are made up of 99% cool guys that are primarily, instead of only, looking out for themselves.
F_Dingo 5y ago
Tell them to screw off. Make sure you stay above 18 though or you can find yourself on the sex offender registry.
StrifePrevails 5y ago
Just ignore them. You're not going after children, these are adults that know what they're doing. No doubt, if a hot 19 year old showed interest in them, the story would change. Keep winning
MisplacedSanityP 5y ago
Frame, say something like "Yeah, I just wait outside the high school for when school lets out looking for girls". Don't take lesser men too seriously. They want that 18 year old pussy just as bad as you do.
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Andgelyo 5y ago
Your friends are trying to be white knights to look good for society, but we all know those dogs who jump at her the first chance they get lmao
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MisplacedSanityP 5y ago
Jesus, I've never been in a frat, but I thought that was one of the few places left that was red pilled.
ahackercalled4chan 5y ago
depends on the university and the frat. ATO's at Ole Miss are alpha as fuck. ATO's on some other campus might be more like tri-Lam's from Revenge of the Nerds.
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NabroleonBonaparte 5y ago
I disagree with the rule but from an organization perspective, they probably want to avoid all of that #metoo bullshit
PlebDestroyer 5y ago
That’s fucked I’m here to say it isn’t like that everywhere. I’m in a top frat very red pilled
blister333 5y ago
You aren’t allowed to have sex? What kind of fascist bullshit is that?
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griz3lda 5y ago
Legal risk.
OMGtothemoon 5y ago
What are you, Sigma Nu or some shit? That's gay AF. Us Kappa Sigs slayed.
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OMGtothemoon 5y ago
Sigmachi as we call them at NC State are third best. Mostly Charlotte boys, yes pretty boy image but I'd have thought they have balls. At least back in 2005 they did.
xlithernigga 5y ago
They just messing around lol. My friend dated a freshman and we bagged on him but no one is actually serious about it lol.
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xlithernigga 5y ago
I honestly could never see anyone being really serious about this. Especially if they are party people. Straight edge maybe not but idk. That just seems wierd. I’d cut them off. They don’t seem like very fun people to take it so serious.
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xlithernigga 5y ago
Jesus that shit wierd as fuck man
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THEMANWHOWASRIGHT 5y ago
All women are children who happen to be legal to fuck.
I said women you disgusting pedo, not 17 or less
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VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Lulz. Get out of here with that faggot homo blue pill shit.
endertheend 5y ago
Reported for moralizing.
griz3lda 5y ago
It's not moralizing, you're butthurt that someone doesn't have the same taste as you. They're too young for him. Move on.
Mr-Ed209 5y ago
Your friends are idiots. 4-5 years is an optimum age gap if you're going to LTR. It puts you in a position to have your shit together, compared to her.
Obviously thinking too far ahead, but if the relationship is to go the distance it also gives you much more time before the kids/marriage dilemma surfaces.
redditaccountiuse 5y ago
Age seems like a much bigger deal when you’re younger.
Self-honest 5y ago
Ignore them. They're just jealous.
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I opened this post expecting you to say you were in your 40's or something but 21???
College seniors fuck freshmen girls all the god damn time.
What jealous retards...
Bruchibre 5y ago
Your friends - so young and already brainwashed by feminist magazines. Let them be.
sehns 5y ago
Meanwhile the 18 y/o's are like: https://i.imgur.com/Pp15Mb1.jpg nsfw
TigerXtrm 5y ago
Well shit, talk about risky click of the day dude. Do we do NSFW tags around here? We need NSFW tags...
sehns 5y ago
Fair play, tagged it
SynfulVisions 5y ago
But... you're 21? The fuck?
I mean, I got some pushback at 30+ dating a string of 18-19 year olds... but damn.
Zanford 5y ago
Crab bucket. Guys be jelly of you, girls be self conscious about their age
P.S. These 'friends' are not your friends
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Zanford 5y ago
Well you called them friends so maybe part of you isn't aware
If they can't handle the truth, don't talk about your personal life with 'em
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Hitchens92 5y ago
/u/Zanford is a troll.
He will never engage with you in a serious manner.
https://www.reddit.com/r/MurderedByWords/comments/9dhrw5/defend_us_instead_of_complaining/e5ilabb/?context=3&st=JLR16S1Q&sh=ee6efce6
Ignore him and move on.
Zanford 5y ago
Awww look I have a homophobic stalker. Who likes to link to himself and his own homophobia as a source!
You really are a special kind of stupid
Hitchens92 5y ago
If I’m homophobic then address where I made a homophobic statement.
Otherwise it’s just more trolling.
Everyone can read my comment and see that it wasn’t homophobic and that you didn’t even address it.
It’s funny how you guys think you control the narrative. We KNOW you are trolling. Your attempts to shrug it off only make it more obvious haha.
BeklagenswertWiesel 5y ago
They are all blue pilled as fuck and most have trouble getting laid.
you answered your own question.
edit: for formatting
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You just answered your own question bro haha.
xlithernigga 5y ago
They very much just playing around lol. If they serious they super insecure and closeted individuals.
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xlithernigga 5y ago
Who tf are these people. I’m curious as to what state your in cause I could never see this happening in California.
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xlithernigga 5y ago
These are frat kids saying this? I’m starting my first year of college and I thought frats were supposed to be the chad and red pilled places.
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xlithernigga 5y ago
I’m going to cal poly which seems like a pretty large party school. I start in about a week. I’ve been talking to a lot of people in the frats there and they seem to enjoy them but I guess with 150 kids there is gonna be annoying people.
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xlithernigga 5y ago
Yea I think they are unsuspended after the blackface thing. People I talked to said they were the best.
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Jsieijejeieokkd 5y ago
Bang and repeat
_Last_Man_Standing_ 5y ago
tell them to fuck off...
the usual formula for "moral" age differences goes like this
your age / by 2 + 7 = moral
or for your case 21/2+7=17.5
your in the clear by any measure... ;)
edit:
100 years ago this was actually the formula to find "ideal" age of a girl you are abut to marry...
but lately it became the "bottom limit" of moral age...
so 100 years ago she would be half a year too old for you... ideally...
ReddJive 5y ago
Why do you care what they think?
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ReddJive 5y ago
You're lying to yourself. Which is it?
Dymatizeee 5y ago
They're jealous of your success. I'll bet money they'll do the same shit if given the opportunity.
criveros 5y ago
I’m 31 and I hook up with 18 year olds. It’s normal.
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criveros 5y ago
I’m pretty open about it, with family, friends, and even some coworkers.
flatbushwick 5y ago
After 12 it’s lunch
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Physio_Tool 5y ago
If youre 22 its not weird to plate nor is it for a 30 year old. But if you were 25+ and your LTRing 18 year olds then its a sign of you lacking maturity. Most girls dont mature until 25 and up so you wont grow much dating down in age.
redhawkes 2 5y ago
FTFY
For the rest of your comment, revisit the sidebar.
Physio_Tool 5y ago
Whats been your experience? Or are you basing it all on trp theory. Saying a comment with such absoluteness is essentially saying your mom is no more mature then a 13 year old which is a very ignorant and inaccurate statement. I can speak from personal experience having had both, older girls in general are more mature after 25 compared to 18
redhawkes 2 5y ago
Most girls don't mature. They aren't held responsible for their actions or using manipulation techniques to put the blame on you.
It's true that the 18 yrs old are more childish, but it's the same with the 25+ yrs old, they just enter the epiphany phase and looking for settling down. If you think that they get more rational, you don't have enough experience.
Every other aspect of AWALT is the same. This is all from my own experience. Treat them like a bratty kid and you'll see what Im talking about.
sandal_on 5y ago
18-19 and younger girls are no doubt the easiest to manage and catch. Yeah, they probably are shaming you because of jealousy, would be less probably if you were older though.
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Yeah it is perfectly legal (18), and 13 is also perfectly legal age in other countries. Doesn't mean the laws are pillar of right and wrong.
redrogue12 5y ago
I don't tell my friends about my plates.
momomotorboat 5y ago
You don't. Fuck what they think.
therymancruise 5y ago
I'm almost 30 and it's rare for me to sleep with a girl who can legally buy a drink. My last 3 girlfriends were 18, 19, 20. I learned that the YOUR perception of it is the signal to everyone else. If you act like it's creepy, and you're sheepish and embarrassed, people will pile onto you. If you're shameless, people will be jealous instead. My go-to line now is to shrug and say: "I like em young."
imtheoneimmortal 5y ago
i date with 16yrs old and they say care about to go to jail
"it would be nice so i can make many albums"
Kabuki431 5y ago
Well at 37 i have plates between 18 and 22 and i get the cradle robber look from older (late 20s) women all the time. U know hit the wall and stuff.
RP_78 5y ago
Get used to it, I'm 39 and when I go out with a 20 something I still get strange looks. /s
__uwotm8__ 5y ago
There is absolutely nothing wrong with plating 18 year olds at 21. Is this a joke? I’ve had a 19 year old plate at 30, approaching 31. Granted I wouldn’t flaunt it openly to everyone, but none of my close friends saw this as creepy, if anything they were a little jealous. Sure they made jokes but that’s just friendly banter.
plenty_of_eesh 5y ago
I had a 19 year old plate at 45. Yeah I kept that on the DL pretty well.
Also... Don't forget to check their ID!
BurningOrangeHeaven 5y ago
Its really because at 18 your still considered a dumb fuck so people see it as taking advantage of a younger person. Just think about how much your own thoughts have changed since you were 18, and your only 3 years older. Anyway there's nothing really wrong with it, if she was guna hoe out she would do it with someone else either way.
lampshade2818 5y ago
If you're in college, it's nothing. Do you think any junior/senior on a college campus has ever thought, "Man, I want to hook up with that freshman, but she's way to young."? In college everyone is basically the same age, except some can go to bars and some can't. Now if you were in your 40's that would be a different story.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
why would it be a different story?
they're still legal at 18, and if a 40 yr old can game his way into the pussy, why is it an issue?
the younger men in this area act more feminine than the women... resulting in these very young girls seeking masculinity; they even overtly say it.
it's not hard to bang these young girls... the young guys aren't doing it.
lampshade2818 5y ago
If the "Legality" thing is your mindset that's cool for you. I was just thinking that your average 40+ year old guy and your average 18 year old girl don't really have much in common. Different places in life, different paths, etc. If I had an 18 year old daughter and she brought home some 45 year old guy who is obviously looking to bang her I would not be happy. That's just me. I encourage all the 40+ year old guys out there to start cruising the freshman at their local college.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
you think girls at that age are looking for LTR's from men that are that old? i'll answer for you... "hell no." what has happened is that an older guy has given her the tingles... and she wants to (and has the right to) act on her urges.
bottom line: at 18, females are considered adults, and they can do whatever they want with their bodies without parental consent. the end. girls are doing porn at 18 just like girls and boys are voting at 18 and taking bullets in the military at 18.
if you raised your daughter in a way such that she brings a 45 yr old man home with the intent of having an LTR, YOU need to look in the mirror as a parent before you criticize her decision.
lampshade2818 5y ago
I respect your opinion. I don't even have a daughter. I was just thinking ahead. You do you, I'll do me. It will all work out just fine.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
it's really not about you or me. i respect your opinion as well, but you can save yourself a lot of wasted energy by letting ADULTS be ADULTS and letting them make their own choices. iow, i stay out of the business of anyone over 18. yes, they're young, but they're grown & legal.
older guys are appealing to young women. looking at the girl or the guy with any judgment isn't right (imo) because it's really not anyone's business but theirs.
sandal_on 5y ago
Dude, the issue is that people use the same reasoning ("what's the issue if a 45yo man bangs a 18yo girl) as pedophiles to justify lowering the bar.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
lowering what bar? why is the word,"pedophile," even spoken when both consenting people are adults?
Throwaway-242424 5y ago
Sour grapes mostly.
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I'm 24 and I almost exclusively date 18-21yos, but I live in Colombia right now. In the USA usually 19-24. Tighter pussy, way less demanding for drinks and eating out (which is bullshit I don't participate in anyways) Why the fuck would I pay for some unhealthy food and alcohol to fuck some worn out girl when I can uber over an 18yo to my house who doesn't drink or do drugs.
They're jealous of the tight pussy.
If you are dating very serious, it is kinda weird, just keep them a plate.
Who gives a fuck what your friends think? Are they friends or just people who annoy you?
BuckNekkid18 5y ago
21 year old hooking up with an 18 year old isn't weird at all. I'm 24 and have 2 plates that are 18 and 19 respectively.
chicityt 5y ago
Age differences are adored though?
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RandomTRPan0n 5y ago
Ignore them.
Okcupid proved men of all ages prefer 18 to 21 yo women.
It's just BP programming
breakfastburrito24 5y ago
Leonardo DiCaprio
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breakfastburrito24 5y ago
As long as he keeps it legal. But he doesn't give a fuck and no one can do anything about it, so he's still happily getting what he wants.
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breakfastburrito24 5y ago
Yup, and he's not going to lose work over it.
joner888 5y ago
If you are 20-25 ish i would say its not at all creepy to hook up with 18 year olds . Once you pass 30 thu , you are in murky territory ( in my opinion )
oytrp 5y ago
Just agree and amplify.
Where I'm from, friends fuck with and make fun of each other. I would probably make the same jokes, even though I would certainly bang an 18 year old.
So maybe they are just fucking with you, maybe they are legitimately appalled, maybe they are jealous. Doesn't matter. Just don't care what they think.
JustSatan 5y ago
JEALOUSY.
Iwantmypasswordback 5y ago
Jealous. It’s college man, do every chick kn sight
SilkTouchm 5y ago
Ignore and next them.
SteveStJohn 5y ago
> I told some of my friends about her
Are you looking for validation?
koedeloe 5y ago
I had a friend who was 23 and was fucking a 17 year old. Everyone in our group of friends laughed about it. Personally I don't care. But here on TRP I see a lot of 28+ year old guys going for 18 years old and that's disgusting IMO