besides the obvious scarcity mindset/oneitis in the second situation
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BlackFire68 5y ago
My grandfather always said, "Son, never ignore a gut reaction, but never believe that it's enough on its own".
HiredMind 5y ago
I like that. I'm stealing it.
TheGatesOfValhalla 5y ago
Good stuff
bluefingerblue 5y ago
This is a good question. Bump to see if there are any good replies. When it comes to girls and loyalty, I myself can’t tell the difference between a healthy gut feeling vs being paranoid.
iskandph 5y ago
and it's not that small of a problem bro
I've already lived through and read a lot here and at TRP to know AWALT
but being this cynical can f*** up some good relationships
CeremonyTree 5y ago
I too am a victim of this.
finnabustanuut 5y ago
I am in the exact same situation. I trust my girlfriend but trp makes me paranoid.
IncelNoMore 5y ago
I think eventually you'll get past it. After I swallowed the pill I was single for a while and it seemed fine. Then I got into an LTR and I became paranoid and anxious af. I would replay scenes at night and overthink every little thing she did. And I would always has this sinking feeling. Her going to work made me feel bad.
Now it's been a year and I don't give a shit anymore. I'm only observing what's there to observe and I don't fantasize adultery for no reason. Even when she goes out for drinks or smth, I don't even stress one bit. I realized the only thing you can do, is do what you gotta do. Whatever else will happen is out of your control and not worth stressing about.
rpsheepdog 5y ago
A gut feeling comes from past experiences
Paranoia definition from google: a mental condition characterized by delusions of persecution, unwarranted jealousy, or exaggerated self-importance, typically elaborated into an organized system. It may be an aspect of chronic personality disorder, of drug abuse, or of a serious condition such as schizophrenia in which the person loses touch with reality.
I added the emphasis on certain words, TL;DR paranoia is irrational and has no root in reality
iskandph 5y ago
good point
LateralThinker13 5y ago
It's only paranoia if you're wrong. Trust but verify.
ManofManic 5y ago
Paranoia is part of the process in understanding the origin. Analyze & isolate until you find the source of snakery, and never let a bitch gaslight you.
The__Tren__Train 5y ago
when it comes to women... who cares?
who cares if she cheats? she's not yours, it's just your turn.
DiggerClam 5y ago
Paranoia is better than being fucking blindsided while knowing nothing.
Knowing boxing you may be looking around for people looking to start shit in a club VS being hit in the back of the head with a chair while chilling watching the game with mates.
[deleted] 5y ago
The reason betas experience paranoia in relationships is because they have a reason to: they know that they're low smv. Betas know deep down in their heart of hearts that their smv isn't high enough to keep a girl faithful thus experience frequent gut feelings & paranoia.
This is also the same reason why high smv guys never experience these gut-feelings. They know that they're too high smv for any girl to leave or cheat on them and even if they do they'll replace her with no effort.