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oytrp 5y ago
To be flirty just don't ever respond seriously. Tease her about what ever she is talking about. You don't really need to be sexual at all. Just be fun and keep it light.
Doesn't matter what you are talking about if you're escalating physically.
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oytrp 5y ago
I found that Kino is THE most important aspect of game that leads to getting laid.
It is absolutely essential. I'm not an affectionate person by nature so I struggled initially. But when I made a conscious effort to apply Kino it made all the difference.
jhx264 5y ago
Bullshit. It's calibration. Uncalibrated kino is going to get you in trouble.
oytrp 5y ago
Who said calibration wasn't necessary?
Can't calibrate it if you aren't applying it at all. Hence why I find it so important.
jhx264 5y ago
Kino is not calibration
oytrp 5y ago
No shit.
jhx264 5y ago
Again if you use kino without calibration you're fucked. Ergo kino is lower in the hierarchy for cultivating attraction
oytrp 5y ago
There is nothing to calibrate if you don't apply kino.
"hierarchy for cultivating attraction"
lol, wut.
jhx264 5y ago
Dude you calibrate BEFORE you escalate. Sure there are different levels of kino that you can calibrate but going for a touch is highly dependent of the social situation, the girl, etc.
Example 1 - super obvious scenario where kino was a greenlight- i picked up a girl who sent me nudes, told me she wanted me to spank her, tie her up, etc. I pick her up and she is touching me already. I put my hand between her legs before we even get half way to our destination, then i immediately break rapport by making a joke about how i was checking to see if she was a dude. After she was even more affectionate to me.
Example 2- scenario where kino was the Wrong option until it wasn't - i met a girl and we're walking around grab a tea. I already can tell she's a super shy, quiet, in her shell conservative girl. I don't any kino aside from letting her accidentally brush her arm into me walking. I notice but i don't escalate based of off this because i know it may be unintentional and i haven't gotten enough other ioi's to escalate. Later on in ther night we're hanging out on my couch listening to music, i allow her to initiate kino on me. Then i reciprocate equal intensity kino as if to say- that feels good, i want you to feel good too. Then i take a break in rapport by making a joke or something and looking away. I gave her some iois and she grabbed my shirt and pulled me towards her
Had i not calibrated to the individual girl's personality and social setting and used kino on the shy girl i would have been blown out.
boardrider73 5y ago
True! I blew out a HB9 one night cause of too much kino and miscalibration. Totally turned her off. Live and learn right..
FieldLine 5y ago
Guys like when girls fondle their balls. Girls like when guys fondle their minds.
You could have walked over and said something about how she's been looking at you all day, as if you weren't looking back.
Vithonil 5y ago
Thanks for the link I'll have to check it out later. I appreciate the help, thanks! :)
epushepepu 5y ago
Broken link bob
11-Eleven-11 5y ago
I'm not sure but I think it goes to the Trp reddit so it wont work on mobile.
MisterDSTP 5y ago
With your penis
Vithonil 5y ago
Thanks, buddy.
UncleChido 5y ago
Among the other advice in the comments, I want to add. You shouldn’t take a week to reinitiate a hookup with her. Girls get attention from other guys and she might forget you. Strike while the iron is hot.
hopelesshotel 5y ago
i gotta disagree, they get attention from every guy is the #1 reason you wait a week to respond, all those guys still do the 3 day rule to build off the rapport. Alphas with true abundance don’t give af about a rapport, wait a week bro
UncleChido 5y ago
You should read the sidebar. The 3 day rule is clearly stated there. No matter how alpha you’re, they’re other alphas out there also asking her out and she most likely would forget you. If you’re lucky not, another bummer is, the heat of your first meeting would have subsided, so she wouldn’t feel eager to meet up much later. Remember also that women act in the moment.
Personally, I forget girls (or rather, I’m not anxious meeting girls) - irrespective of their SMV - if we don’t hookup within 5 days after our first meeting. Perhaps it’s just me tho.
hopelesshotel 5y ago
the sidebar isn’t LAW, she will forget you as you blend in with all the other guys gnawing at her like dogs to a bone. want to stand out? wait a week, the century old 3 day rule shows you have high interest in her, validating her. also, true alphas don’t care about a rapport, you sacrifice that & show you have high SMV by waiting a week. bigger payoff
UncleChido 5y ago
If course the sidebar isn’t law. Likewise the pill, it’s just observations from people with experiences.
Every person decides what works best for them and stick with it. For myself, I rather stick with the 3day rule and as mentioned I’m not interested in initiating hookup after 5days from first meeting.
It’s just my style and it works for me. Attraction is non negotiable; if a woman likes you enough, she is ready to fuck you within the first hour you both meet. So why the delay.
hopelesshotel 5y ago
the delay reflects your SMV. if a quick fuck is all you care about, sure most circumstances thats fine. If you’re looking for a plate or LTR then delay is Very very important. the patience and lack of validation drives woman mad, i want women submitting to me like slaves chasing MY validation. you can’t do that if youre hitting her up every few days because that shows your interest level
UncleChido 5y ago
Of course yes. Familiar breeds contempt. My point is with the initial rapport buildup. After that you can ignore her for months if necessary.
I keep the 3 day rule from first meeting. But after f-closing or serious kino. I push tactically and the effects are amazing.
Whatever works for you mate. We might be saying the same thing
hopelesshotel 5y ago
same man, games game. I hope it works out for you
COLIE53 5y ago
Tease her like you would your kid sister. Nothing actually hurtful but jus childishly makin fun of em. And when they throw shots back at you agree and amplify.
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jhx264 5y ago
Whatever she says you go "Yeah and..."
It's an improv technique. Practice this with anything. Get creative. Be fun