I'm in front of her. She uses another guy in our floor as her personal puppy (Peter), and whenever he snaps or doesn't run to help her, she starts complaining behind his back and blaming him for her failures.
She's way behind in a project (as always) and she literally says "it's because Peter is not helping her and doesn't talk to her".
Today we had a serious issue with a company system and some clients started complaining. I was struggling to fix it and one of my female coworkers (another one) on the other side of the company wrote via chat that "stupid client X was affacted".
Of course, I moved promptly to fix it, together with Peter. Once it was fixed, I called her and asked her if everything was ok. It went like this:
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ME: hey jenny, everything allright with the system?
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SHE: lol, I was joking, client X wasn't affected.
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ME: are you serious? we moved promply to fix the issue for him and you are telling me he wasn't affected?
- SHE: yes
I hanged up the phone rather upsed and throw it on the table, commenting to myself "she was a bitch" and "next time, she can fix her own issues herself". I wasn't thinking, I was just venting to myself.
The woman in front of me that ratts men out heard me and, in private, asked to talk to my boss. He gave her audience (he didn't give me audience for work stuff, that's secondary), and she went to his office, telling him that "peter is moody all the time and it's making work life hard for her, that jack (me) slammed the phone on another coworker, etc"
And my boss was clearly upset that "he has to work with so many unstable men", while the woman in front of him (who literally gets a passed for having a pussy), is forgiven.
It's not the first time this bitch runs to my boss, but my boss never does anything to punish any of us. But having her in front of me doing this is insane.
The worst part is my boss didn't ask for specifics about my situation, he just said (in private) that "we have to work with moody guys (peter) and crazy shitheads that hates everyone that's not as good as him (jack, ie, me), and people can't work with ease... In the end, we only have 3 professional people in our team", and he listed them. Of course, I wasn't included...
And my innocent coworker is just sitting there, waiting for people to help her and ratting others out when it suits her. WTF FUCKING FUCK????? What the fuck did I do to her???????????
WTF is wrong with this picture?? Should I be worried about it or just let it go?
addwater 5y ago
Your boss is a beta cuck for allowing this behaviour.
My boss is a relative alpha male, and he weeded out several females who behaved this way within the first few months of starting.
I've never been happier.
binrobinro 5y ago
Why aren't you recording this shit?
Or at least demand that she makes all request though email, so you can start a file on her.
Or both.
beginner_ 5y ago
In the end every average powerless middle manager is covering his own ass. The rabbit hole guess that deep that if he doesn't hear the stupid bitches complaints, he risks his own job. So he just hears her out and plays along or he is a blue pilled pussy. Up to you to decide which you think is the truth. In the end it matters who gets raises and promotions is it you or her? If it's her or neither, leave ASAP.
Kabuki431 5y ago
Just do ur fucking job. And stop interacting with women at work. Tell them to fix their own shit or get a work order from boss.
rebuildingMyself 5y ago
Mike Pence rule, ftw
nabosch 5y ago
What’s the Mike Pence rule?
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nabosch 5y ago
Smart. What a world we live in.
rebuildingMyself 5y ago
It's working because feminists are freaking out in the workplace. Men aren't doing them favors as much, validating their existence, doing their jobs for them, mentoring them, taking them to lunches/dinners, etc. out of fear of being the latest #MeToo statistic.
You made your bed, ladies, now lie in it.
ios-pro77 5y ago
I just stopped doing it when I saw she was a bitch. My coworker (Peter) is still doing it, so today I texted him everything I know about this bitch to see if he wakes the fuck up.
Funny thing is, she's now calling us (in private, she has no balls, of course) "two 40yo men in their period". I'm 30, btw, but she's not good with numbers, 2 tits + 1 pussy = she can count up to 3. Why does she call us that? Well, my coworker is constantly depressed, so she has ammo. I did nothing to her though, except minding my own business and ignoring her. And yeah, I got thrown in the same mix.
The only guy she deems "normal" in there is the good for nothing 45yo old who's short, stocky, nerdy, and they love to treat like their puppy.
We throw the garbage out regularly, and we sort of take turns to do it. Last Monday the bin of plastic was full, so the bitch in front of me asked the stocky guy to throw it out. He said he would, and let it go. She repeated it a couple of times the next couple of days, and the guy still said "he'd do it eventually".
Came wednesday, and this bitch literally grabbed the bin and put it on the stocky coworker's desk, so the guy found it there when he came into the office. I was on a business meeting outside the office, and for what I heard, he got pissed and got called "hormonal" for reacting to that shit. And then things went back to normal. Of course, he went out and threw out the trash.
See, that's not the sort of thing she'd EVER do to me because she's scared shitless of me reacting badly to her crap. So, the stocky moron gets treated well and abused, while we get treated like crap to the point of being undermined with our boss but she doesn't dare mess with us up front.
One way or another, she's projecting her stupid fucked up power. Either up front or behind our backs. And god it will be so good when I get her fired...
ReefaShark 5y ago
Be less reactionary/emotional. This is the world right now dude, pitiful men betray themselves and their kin for any amount of feminine validation.
wawakaka 5y ago
Behind every successful woman there is a man doing all the work
gELSK 5y ago
// , BAH!
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I get what you mean, overall, but you have to at least admit that there are exceptions. Pretty sure Mary Cury deserves some credit for her Nobels, especially when she paid for her scientific work with an early grave due to radiation poisoning.
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marie\_Curie
MrTazingo 5y ago
her husband did most of the work she was just an assistant/collateral damage.
Women providing meaningful science discoveries please...
gELSK 5y ago
// , Dude there's a reason the feministas harp on Marie. She's almost unassailable as a scientist. There are so many easy targets in the modern over-eager rush to some misguided notion of diversity of genitals over diversity of ideas that it seems petty and pointless to go after Marie Curie. Why not Margaret Mead? Better yet, Elizabeth Holmes? When there are so many fish in a barrel, maybe don't go hunting jabberwockies.
It doesn't help your credibility or anyone else's.
Even if Pierre Curie may have been better than her, including his discoveries of Alpha rays, she had a lot of ideas and stood on her own.
In fact, it was at Marie's insistence that Pierre Curie had written up his research on magnetism and received his own doctorate in March 1895; he was also promoted to professor at the School.
"Marie Curie – Student in Paris (1891–1897) Part 1". American Institute of Physics. Retrieved 7 November 2011.
"You don't work you don't eat" was more than just a metaphor back then
Why the hell would patriarchal as fuck **mining companies**, of all things, sponsor **her** research, specifically *Marie* Curie's research, in an age in which she repeatedly got denied posts at universities for having a vag?
Let me say that again. Why the hell would patriarchal as fuck mining companies, of all things, sponsor her research, specifically Marie Curie's research, in an age in which she repeatedly got denied posts at universities for having a vag?
Do you honestly think some top-hat wearing 1800s industrialist is going to take a break from strike breaking and beating his prison workers to say, "Oh, no, we specifically mean *Marie*, because we support females in science"? Hell no. Money talks, and they knew where to seek competitive advantage.
It was only in mid-1898, according to Pierre's biography and other supporting written records, that he started pitching in, well after her she had already discovered a new goddamn element.
Tell me, if the roles of Pierre and Marie were reversed, which one would you be claiming was the assistant?
If you looked at their lab notes (all a matter of historical record, now), and the names were removed, which would you suppose were written by a man?
If she was just the lowly lab assistant, why would Pierre himself raise a stink that he would not accept the Nobel prize without her name on it? Look at the photos. LOOK INTO HIS EYES. This is the face of a man who got more radiation poisoning than your entire family will ever receive in their lives, and who is tired of your shit. This man was not some easily cowed milk sop, but a serious-minded alpha in an age when science was much more of a free for all, winner-take-all race than it is today.
"You don't work you don't eat" was more than just a metaphor back then.
You seem like you're in the former category, but I'll leave this up for the rest of the forum to witness how to depose ignorant tools of the Jenda Warz™ with the facts. We're going to need more practice before the decade is through.
KellsUser 5y ago
Almost sounds like your boss is treating her how a father might treat his daughter.
He listens to her (made up) stories and plays along. He keeps her happy in her meaningless little world, and nobody is actually punished.
My question would be if your boss is handling the situation correctly. Should he continue letting her play fairytale like a child, or should he try to set boundaries?
ios-pro77 5y ago
This is not exactly true. He believes her. He knows she sucks professionally but she believes her stories, and even though he doesn't flat out act on them, he still acts on them.
He should tell her to shut the fuck up and go to work or call us in a meeting with her so we can tell her to shut the fuck up. But he'd never do that for a piece of pussy, no matter how ugly, monkey-like she is.
Instead, he gets himself worked out over this and starts treating others slightly different, and it pisses me off when it comes to me.
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ios-pro77 5y ago
He is.
Probably true. Maybe he's doing it for personal reasons, ie, only he gets to be the boss and women's validation is gold for him. He never refused raises or stuff like that, so if he's doing it on purpose, it has to be personal.
I'll get her fired one way or another. I already told my coworker the fact he got ratted out for helping her, and I've stopped helping her months ago. I'd like to see what she does once everyone cuts the cord.
Funny thing is, a coworker showed me a group chat: at the same time she was all nice and warm towards Peter, she was also chatting all sorts of crap about him to other women. That's the piece of shit she is...
SeydouxBlue 5y ago
Does your boss have a boss? I usually don't like taking shit laying down, but that's just me. You have to ask yourself what your goals are at this job and whether or not this is something worth trying to fix. i.e. are you trying to get promoted or trying to get a better job somewhere else? Or trying to stay where you are?
ios-pro77 5y ago
I want to stay here, work and kick ass. I want her to shut the fuck up and let me alone. I was out of touch with this woman for months, and I relocated inside the company next to her desk a couple of weeks ago. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING fucking happened between us that would provoke this.
And yet, at the first sign me being slightly aggressive towards a woman that wasn't even in this fucking floor, she literally run to my boss to complain about me. you tell me what the fuck I should do with this fucking cock sucker son of a fucking bitch piece of shit of a woman...
gELSK 5y ago
// , Women, even the non-back-stabby kind, often have a different definition of the word "aggressive," and for good reasons.
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styxus90 5y ago
Meditate. Helps being less reactive. You can't win in this situation if you don't keep it cool. Whether you ignore her or plot something against her (which i wouldn't recommend, she doesnt deserve so much energy) you have to do it calmly. The way you are clearly worked up right now... understandable, but you can quit right away if you dont plan to keep it cool. If you give her emotions to work with, she's gonna FUCK... YOU... UP. Thats what they do, my man.
ios-pro77 5y ago
I agree, in fact there was no quarrel with her. She started it by going to my boss behind my back to tell her I slammed the phone on a coworker.... what the fucking fuck....
EdaBagaDix 5y ago
Your boss might be more red pill than you think. Did he actually punish or cause you any problems? He may have just been ‘sympathizing’ with the women so that they would shut up and forget it.
ios-pro77 5y ago
Yes. He slowly took authority away from me and, in one occasion, he verbally put me down in front of my team to get back at me and show me who's in charge. He never does that crap, and he did it with me specifically on purpose.
He then disassembled my team and let this bitch do nothing at work all day long without punishing her while I got to carry the blunt of a lot of heavy tasks.
It only reversed a couple of month back when I went to his office and told him "either you give me A, let me work on B and don't wanna hear about C, or I quit", and he gave me everything I wanted.
Trust me, he doesn't. One of the women in the company (the one he actually wants to fuck) once told him that "any other woman would have eaten jack alive", referring to me. Why? Because I stood up for myself one time and told the bitch to fuck off and don't expect me to do the work for her, as well as to stop throwing shit behind my back like a bitch.
Well, my boss "muse" thought that I was out of line, of course, and he told my boss that. During a meeting with my boss to settle the issue, my boss repeated the same thing... "you know, jack, other women not as defenseless as this one may have had a very different reaction to your actions...."
I looked at him with disgust and told him that "no woman has the right to act like that, and what the fuck does woman A, B or C have to do with anything here..."
That is the kind of moron that pays my salary
EdaBagaDix 5y ago
Wow. He sounds pathetic. Get a new job before the one he wants to fuck drops a #MeToo accusation and takes his job.
UEMcGill 5y ago
It's almost like there's a book on the sidebar.....
47 laws of power is your friend.
This is from another response of yours. Power games happen with or without you. You need to become indispensable to your boss. Reputation is everything, Law 5.
I was going to write a couple of highlights for you but fuck that, do your own work. Let's just say I'm older than you, and you need to learn how to fuck people over who fuck you. If you don't play the power game, it will be played for you.
ios-pro77 5y ago
That's the game she played from the start. She built her likability and reputation as a "team worker", even though she sucked at her job. Her strategy was to used her social value to compensate for her lack of skills, and literally refused to learn them.
I showed my boss (the beta moron) the chat message this bitch sent me about "how she would absolutely never learn this stuff while other people in the company were doing other stuff", and he just laughed and did nothing.
Back to the original point, her actions towards me have always been the same: attack my reputation. And the same goes for my coworker Peter. We (especially me) are pretty good at our job, so she knows we can make her life a lot easier. When I realized she was using me and not learning (a year ago, give or take) I cut her off and she went bananas behind my back.
Insults, attacks on my reputation, my team-work attitude, my social skills, etc. I even got promoted, and she escalated her complaints to our boss and, once more, constant attacks on my reputation in order to get herself transferred and out of my reach. Why? Because I wouldn't tolerate her crap and just demand her to do her job.
Now Peter is the target, but at the first sign of me doing something she didn't like, she's once more attacking my reputation. I did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to get in the last month we've been sharing a floor with, and yet, I'm automatically put on the list of "those whose reputation needs to be trashed". Granted, she's more careful with me now so she only complaints to one or two people, and very modestly. But Peter is getting the shit for real, and everyone is hearing about what a depressing creep he is.
And everything behind his and my back.
ElOweTea 5y ago
48 laws of power.
UEMcGill 5y ago
I see at least one person has read it.
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This is pretty much why most men don't even want to work with women anymore.
Feminism isn't about equality; it's about power.
ios-pro77 5y ago
yeah, it seems that way. What I wrote on the post happened yesterday. Today, she escalated. She essentially insulted Peter (my coworker) mercilessly with her group of friends via chat.
And, of course, out of nowhere, I was thrown in into the same mix. She's cautious about me so I didn't get hammered to the other women, but she still vented that "she can't stand being in the room with two crazy nut-jobs like us" with one of the men sharing the room with us.
Funny thing is, both him and the guy she vented to suck at their jobs. Peter was still pissed, but I wasn't doing squat. I was just minding my own business, doing my work, not insulting nor bothering anyone. And yet, I was still attacked by her.
She essentially started calling us "40yo men in their period" because we don't entertain her like other men do. Yeah, that's the kind of bitch we are working with...
pame12 5y ago
Probably should find another job before she ruins your reputation.
redpeaks 5y ago
You do seem pretty unstable.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Dude, two words: get out
Boss is a blue pill pussy worshiper. That shit is NOT going to improve.
WhoSweg 5y ago
he should wait until he has another job lined up though before getting out. Negotiating when you're at a job is a lot easier than negotiating living on your savings.
jackandjill22 5y ago
Not good.
ghostninja33 5y ago
Look for another job after u get it immediately leave, do not try to negoiatate a little more money is not worth u r sanity and dealing with all this shit
Nov51605 5y ago
The best time to get another job is when you already have one
traveldeedee 5y ago
With that kind of boss your company probably won't go very far. A good leader is almost always naturally red pill aware.
Sooner or later, talents and real contributors like you will leave. And what's Jenny going to do? Step up and save the company? She's going to leave faster than she can run once she catches the wind. So your boss is probably going to run the business to the ground.
Just look for other opportunities or just work for yourself man!
ios-pro77 5y ago
He's well aware, but he's blaming everyone else but himself.
He blames his business partner (one of the other owners) for being "too hard on people" (when he's actually right, and realized which woman's a real bitch);
he blames me for being a "batthit crazy nutjob who wants everyone to be as good as me";
he blames my coworker peter for being a depressed fucked up employee who brings other people down; he blames coworkers who get paid a lot and do crappy jobs;
And the list goes on. He never said shit about the woman who literally went into his office to vent about others because, well, she's just stressed and it's obviously her right.
But this time the joke's on her. I told my coworker peter what she did, in a pretty clear and long message explaining to him how she's treating him. Let's see if he wakes the fuck up and stops doing her fucking job...
traveldeedee 5y ago
Dude I’m not trying to be an asshole to you. But the fact that you don’t take immediate action but rather coming here to rant, just shows that you need some testicular fortitude.
KarmicPrism 5y ago
You gotta device a plan of attack somehow, even if you're a raging aggressive employee. x}
gELSK 5y ago
// , Have you considered making an online resume and going to a community college?
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A lot of states will subsidize continuing education.
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As far as your approach within your job, it sounds like you're doing the right thing. Document everything, and make sure you document it on your own hardware. If you have a digital camera or camera phone, take pictures of any text conversations, and, where legal to do so, record phone conversations.
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If they end up firing you, you can go to court and get back any damages. Just remember, your boss may be easy to fool, but maybe not a jury or a judge.
KarmicPrism 5y ago
????. Hey btw why do you write // before your posts?
ImperiallyInclined 5y ago
Like others have said brother, just get out as soon as you can.
It’s not worth wasting your time and resources. You won’t even get 20% back if you decide to waste your time and resources there. Just the fact that you’ve heard TRP means you know better.
Time WILL sort them out.
You aren’t God’s creation born just to sort out this mess. If you are, you wouldn’t have the need to message here.
Fuck them, leave them, and let peace permeate your mind. Don’t look back and leave them all to their destiny.
All the best!
KarmicPrism 5y ago
Solid and logical. ????
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JinSantosAndria 5y ago
Ah, the daily office wars. You have two options, get out and persue some kind of unicorn job where this shit does not happen (and will not happen in the future) or get into the right frame for this kind of deskjob.
Always leave a written trail of correct behavior and actions behind on any step you do in any company that has a deskjob. Always confirm shit via email after a verbal agreement. Always act in the interest of the company, not risking the higher ups money and budgets for stupid things. Never complain about stupid shit, never, ever, to anyone inside or anywhere near that company. Write a god damn journal and keep it under your bed if you need to wipe away the tears produced by a work contract you signed and still pays you.
Be in your frame, but stoic? Just do it. Do it. If you cant do it, how should your boss consider you a stable asset to his company? Confirm what she told you on the phone, CC your higher up, note that you wasted X manpower on that because of a lie. Do not press for a meeting or something, just keep it written, move on, do your job.
KarmicPrism 5y ago
@OP, PAY ATTENTION ;)
ShotgunTRP 5y ago
You remind me of myself
So you drink coffee, smoke cigarettes or both ?
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start documenting this shit as well as your bosses refusal to fix it. You want to have a history that proves your being treated worse by your boss then anyone else.
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
The problem is you're paying attention to what women Say.
Your boss clearly isn't going to do jack shit unless you make a major fuck up. He just likes having excuses to whine and bitch, and thinks complaining will get him pussy points, but he knows what side the bread is being buttered on.
Do your job competently. Stop paying attention to what people say.
Next time either of these women ask for help, bring up their past behavior and politely refuse, saying you're busy with more pressing matters. Do not explain yourself. Do this over messaging or email.
Talk to Peter. Let him know she's constantly complaining about him behind his back to his boss, and he should start saying "no" and "not right now." Tell him what helping her does is rewards him by causing her to blame him for her own failures. "Because Peter didn't help me....... enough."
If he's not aware of it already. He'll probably deny and JADE.
ios-pro77 5y ago
Looooool, even though I told the guy what happened, only one day has passed and he's back helping her.... unbelievable.
She stands next to his desk like a puppy and asks for help, and he talks to her and solves the problem for her.
She literally said "I need a lesson on ABC"... unbelievable...
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
Thats just sad, man. Predictable but sad.
The thing about Codependency is these degenerates get a sick satisfaction from enabling people to fuck them over. It's emotional masochism.
At least you tried.
ios-pro77 5y ago
Ok, you have a point here.
Not easy. It's a small company, I can't just "lock out".
Done. I told him today. I explained him everything, and I specifically put a lot of emphasis on Pete, you are helping her and she's acting all nice, right? well, yesterday she went to the boss and throw you under the bus telling him she can't work with you, you are fucked up, useless, etc. So please, out some boundaries and stop this shit because it isn't fair...
We'll now see what he does. In either case, she's a total and utter bitch. She just can't stand being there and do her job. She's constantly complaining a about either peter or me in private to others. And in my case, it's for no fucking reason. I did nothing to her (at least not in a while lol), but it doesn't matter, "we are the two 40yo men in our period" because we are not there to entertain her.
Fucking bitch... And if my coworker peter doesn't wake up from this, I'm going directly to the other business partner behind everyone's back and fucking sink her forever.
RunawayGrain 5y ago
Any chance the boss is slipping her the pipe?
My money says get another job if you can. Second to that, get evidence of the boss plowing her, and throw 'em both under the bus.
ios-pro77 5y ago
No, he wants to fuck another coworker, not this one. He's just being a pussy-deprived moron, but not fucking her.