Let's just say I have VERY successfully navigated this situation.

I used to work at Spencer's gifts part time. My manager was a sexy and hilarious guy who was working there his senior year of college. He would flirt with me a LOT at work..:I had a huge crush on him. He would flash me seductive looks at work and I knew he wanted me and he would call me "Blondie" which made me blush. He invited me over one night to smoke a blunt at his place, and I was over the moon. Eventually, we started spending time together, going on dates, and having sex after work. He would get vibrators and sex toys from the store and try them out on me, which was insanely hot. Since it was against policy for managers to date associates, we had to keep our little fling a secret from our coworkers. Eventually, we let it slip that we were together...it was just too hard to hide. We had fallen in love with each other had new priorities. Eventually, we both moved on from our jobs at Spencer's.

Fast forward seven years and we are still crazy in love, we have a home together, and have been through so much since then. We still love playing with sex toys from Spencer's. He still calls me Blondie. And we plan on trying for our first baby soon :) I met my Prince Charming in a dildo/gag gift store, and I love telling our story.

So yeah, you could say it turned out pretty well for us. As far as hooking up with your coworker? I say go for it. You never know what can happen.

It definitely depends on the type of job you have, and how bad it would be to lose the job.

Just landed a job as a first year lawyer at the best law firm in your city? Dont smash that girl.

You work at fast food place, and she cooks the fries? Smash away.

Somewhere in between: judgement call.

quit ur job and smash

OP: ”So long time, first time. I really want to put a lit stick of dynamite up my ass. I know I shouldn’t but I really want to. Is there a safe way to do this? I will take my answer off the air.”

AskTRP: ”No, do not put a lit stick of dynamite up your ass.”

No.

If you proceed use caution and get as many records as possible. Text, phone calls if one party consent, record audio/video of encounter.

Have another job on standby or a decent buggout stash on case shtf.

Be aware of if not already have a lawyer on retainer if you're high enough status.

You should have multiple girls or at least trying for outside of your workplace. Actively try but if something happens with coworker the above should apply.

Good luck.