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JinkiesGangAClue 5y ago
Lol go fuck her.
Ionvas2 5y ago
I feel the same shit, but I don't understand why she told me about her long distance relationship if she'd say 5 minutes later that she hates relationships and monogamy. Plausible deniability? An easy way to reject in case the date goes badly?
mrpthrowa 5y ago
She is telling you she wants you to be discreet about this...
You do this by ACTIONS, don't say a word and don't mention it, just act as if it's completely normal and you know... be discreet.
She's also absolving herself of any responsibility... you went for her, and shit just happened
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Tells you because you need to know.
Non-monogamy means "can still fuck me".
blaine_freelance 5y ago
Your mistake is trying to analyze what she says as if it means anything.
Fuck or don't fuck.
Bruchibre 5y ago
She doesn’t know yet that she wants for fuck. For now she thinks she only wants to go out.
brinkleybuzz 5y ago
Subtext. Read between the lines. Chicks don't just come out and say what they want. What she wants is some discreet side dick from a dude who will plate her while she plays GF to her LDR guy. You hit the lottery my man. A hot chick who wants the D and not a relationship? Cash in that ticket or give to someone else who will.
Ionvas2 5y ago
I am going out with her in two hours, will give an update to see if that was really the case.
JinkiesGangAClue 5y ago
AWALT. She wanted to fuck. Felt bad after she left. Then gave you an in. Go out and escalate. If she try’s to throw you in orbit go fuck off and find a new girl, no harm no foul.
Ionvas2 5y ago
Yup, I think I'll do just that.
Ricklogical 5y ago
Plz report back.
Ionvas2 5y ago
I edited the post with an update
Ricklogical 5y ago
Nah it wasn't way too easy it was just right. She's alone and that sucks. You can't leave them alone, if you do, you break up with them and remain 'friends' because they are a potential plate in the future.
This is why early kids or marriage is such a disaster. I'm sure she's a nice enough woman, but has no responsibility or honor in this matter, mostly because there is little repercussion.
So enjoy her, but don't forget how you met and that she can just as easily do the same to you, because in my experience cheating is a problem based within the one in the relationship cheating, has little to do with the quality she sees in her partner, and more to do with the quality she sees within herself.
Do they ever settle down and stop cheating? I don't know, I think some might, but most never learn and never change and there is no reason to hate or be petty about it. Accept it as a flaw and enjoy them as they are free of any negativity.
jay_jay_man 5y ago
She doesn't want to "go out" with you, she want you to come over and "go inside" her and bang her brains out. Invite her back to your place or go over to hers and get to fucking. She isn't interested in dating, she wants to bang as much as you do.
Framexemplary 5y ago
She is giving you a frame to use to fuck her. She is in a relationship she doesn't want to be in. She is telling you she wants to be a plate. Go create a matching frame with her and smash.
fashfront 5y ago
Rail and bail. Blow your load and hit the road. Ejaculate and evacuate
HIJKelemenoP 5y ago
Pee in her butt.
Fatfeministnproud 5y ago
Cum on her tits and call it quits
Fatfeministnproud 5y ago
Put it in her hole then stop, drop and roll.
Fatfeministnproud 5y ago
Finish in her mouth and hit the deep south
Fatfeministnproud 5y ago
Hit it and quit it
Kabuki431 5y ago
Shake it bake it and roll over.
MisterDSTP 5y ago
Set it and forget it
howard_roark714 5y ago
Cum n run
Barkingtaco 5y ago
Smash n Dash
Anasthaesium 5y ago
Ayn Rand would be proud
howard_roark714 5y ago
lol
Bedtimeshine 5y ago
Casual FWB at best. And make that clear. Don’t be a schmuck who lets her beauty have power over you. You’ve seen her character... and she’s indulging the 50 other dudes that are all over her right now as well.
BecomingChad 5y ago
She's telling you she's in a ldr to put that responsibility on you. Go out have fun with her and escalate and if something happens, it's your fault so it's ok
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Plate the fuck out her.
She told you she has an LDR so that it's "your fault" and not hers when you fuck her. "I TOLD that brute I had a bif and he fucked me anyway! He is so BAD!" Just power through all the hamstering.
effyouasshole 5y ago
Her actions say she's interested in you. Her words say she's plate/FWB material. Proceed to game her, and escalate.
If she repeatedly resists your escalations, that's when you conclude she's trying to make you an orbiter. Until then, assume she's DTF.
And this should be obvious, but if she hates relationships and doesn't believe in monogamy, then she can never ascend higher than FWB status.
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Neither. Plate.
Ionvas2 5y ago
Yes, date in order to plate asap
friendandadvisor 5y ago
Date as in one-time thing, not as a regular thing.
Ionvas2 5y ago
Second date I'll call her to my place for drinks
madhguru 5y ago
Is she young? (college age or close) I think girls in LDRs at that age are just carrying out the high-school sweetheart games and hometown summer flings, and are just waiting for reasons to break them off. Girls don't mention not believing in monogamy if they don't want you to game them.
Ionvas2 5y ago
It's the "barely out of college age". And I agree, but why even mention the LDR to me then?
Edit: one word
madhguru 5y ago
Without knowing the dynamic for sure, I'd say shes shifting the guilt/blame over to you for lurching over a girl in a relationship instead of her cheating on her guy.
There's only one orbiter around her and it's not you (provided you're fully committed to nexting her if you get the wrong vibe.) As long as you don't have a problem ethically moving in, sounds like she's clearing you for landing. Best of luck though
neatbranch 5y ago
Can you elaborate on the "correct answer to 3 questions" before asking her number?
Ionvas2 5y ago
I've told her that she looks ok, but that's not enough for me to get her number, so I told her I want to know 3 things about her before: 1. If she believes in religious stuff, if she believes in supernatural shit and if she likes to read. She got the answers that I was hoping for, so here we are.
I know most of the guys here would think that was too much, but, firstly, that made her want to qualify, looking for my approval, and secondly, I already have a decent amount of stupid plates and I'd love right now to have some great conversations before/after sex, so those questions were actually meaningful for me, not just game.
DulceDeLecheMardel 5y ago
So which are the correct answers for you?
Ionvas2 5y ago
I'm really into science stuff, so you might guess
FieldLine 5y ago
When a woman tells you she is in a committed relationship, there are four possibilities:
1) She is in a committed relationship and isn't open to your advances. She gave you the number because women are conflict averse and it was easier than saying no.
2) She isn't in a committed relationship and told you she is because she's not interested and wants you to go away. She gave you the number because women are conflict averse and it was easier than saying no.
3) She is in a relationship and is open to potentially cheat if your game is tight enough. She gave you the number to this end.
4) She isn't in a committed relationship and is shit testing you because attractive women get hit on all day. She gave you the number to see if you pass.
The takeaway is that a woman saying she is in a committed relationship offers absolutely zero information towards the end of getting your dick wet.
Batmanforreal2 5y ago
Plausible deniability. She wants to fuck, but doesnt want to feel like a hoe
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“Great! Bring him along I’d love to meet him.”
That_Deaf_Guy 5y ago
"I have a girlfriend, shall we introduce them?" works well.
Ionvas2 5y ago
Yess, this one was even better than mine.
plenty_of_eesh 5y ago
Seems ambiguous to me... Like some woman might interpret that as your genuinely being interested in having a double date, instead of taking her home.
Depends on tone/other signals I suppose.
Ionvas2 5y ago
I told her "I have a girlfriend as well, who cares lol" or some shit like that and it seemed an okish answer.
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Ionvas2 5y ago
Depends on context. If it's though a text, I'd probably just say whatever is best to to meet her and escalate in person.
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Ionvas2 5y ago
Exactly, I'd add some drinks into the mix for a better effect.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Female hamstering at its finest
flapjacksrbetter 5y ago
3 questions before number? What are u talking about bro? Lets talk about it
Ionvas2 5y ago
Yes, I wrote a detailed reply about it at a comment here who asked the same thing.
mushroom_overlord 5y ago
Looks like an easy lay with low committment. Do it.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Fuck.
Don't think of it as dating.
RPAlternate42 5y ago
Sounds like a typical girl trying to create typical plausible deniability.
Boys and men, and "LDR" is just a ticket for her to cheat... Because she can say she's in a relationship which fills her social hole and she can say it isn't a real relationship which fills her pussy hole.
moontripper1246 5y ago
Two things.
If you have a problem going after girls in relationships then backoff. Personally, its a huge turn on. I like the rush if knowing I'm fucking some chick then sending her back to her "bae" dirty af. I'm like that tho.
Second. People are generally more.complex than we give them credit for. She probably meant like 8 things when she told you she had a LDR. (Long distance sucks, but I like the comfort of knowing someone cares for me, but your still hot, but I don't want to be the one cheating do I need you to make it okay for me to fuck you while I'm still waiting in a LDR, but I might want you to be my new BF/c of this awesome conversation, but also relationships suck in general so I'm not sure...) And she is experiencing all these thoughts at the same time. Suffice to say you can probably hook up with her if you keep being yourself. Hell you got he into you enough to admit she has a BF somewhere even tho she wants to fuck you. Honestly I'd count her as a good girl for telling you. The shit ones are chicks that just cheat and you find out that she fucked over some guy without including you in it ..
Anyways, it's up to you to pursue, and I think it comes down to whether or.not you care that she has someone else somewhere and if that bothers you at all. There's a lot of single girls too, not everybody needs to be a BF destroyer. Peace