What does this all translate to when a girl says this about guys? Or about me? Is she shit testing or do girls actually not like guys who are big/ too veiny/ too muscular? I know I shouldn’t care about what they think or what they say but what does it really translate to psychologically when girls say this? I was skinny, I work my ass off for 3 years now I gain a lot of muscle and people are always going to hate but IDGAF, I’m just trying to understand how people think and why they say the things they do.. thanks
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juliusstreicher 8y ago
Wow, it means that you are just too big! You need to work out a lot less, and eat a lot more! Women hate muscles! They love the dad bod. Think Seth Rogan, and Kevin James.
Seriously, though, it's an invitation for you to let them feel your muscles for themselves. "Hey, it isn't bad; grab this latissimus dorcep! See!" Then, lift her over your head. The rest will come naturally.
W_O_M_B_A_T 8y ago
Ooops. You paid attention to what women said.
es1426 8y ago
45 upvote comment on an 8 upvote post.
looks like we have a winner
wracky272 8y ago
Why does it matter what a woman says about guys? Look at who she is fucking or trying to fuck and you'll have your answer.
[deleted] 8y ago
Girls only say they don't like muscular guys to betasize men they're in a relationship with so they're easier to control and less appealing to other girls.
Edit: If you're a high value muscular 6' Chad you're way too high risk for her to have as a provider, thus she needs to break you down (i.e. "Why can't you be more vulnerable?", "I really don't like muscular guys.", etc.).
360_no_scope_upvote 8y ago
Yeah, especially if you have a 6 pack and you start seeing a girl more than just casually "I don't like guys with 6 packs" is the dumbest shit I've ever heard
revaforce 8y ago
That’s exactly what’s happening
chomponthebit 8y ago
This isn’t even his final form...
Casd12 8y ago
You know why girls say that shit? Cus they know they can't get them, so instead they reject them first to prevent hurting their fragile egos.
Weak men says the same shit saying "oh she's a slut, or she looks like a bitch, she ain't that pretty", when in reality they're virgins and have never met those girls. Therefore, are just saying that so if the girl were to reject them, they would have done it first.
kruxofthemimed 8y ago
i really dont understand why this is even a question you have tbh this whole post comes across as a humble brag. "girls" are not a singular hivemind, and will have their own specific preferences on amount of lean muscle mass/body fat %. generally if you look like this i think its safe to say most people think you look like a freak in person and wont be attracted. If you're on a shit ton of gear then there's the possibility you're at that 'freak' level, but i really doubt it. you can be on a lot of gear and even then its hard to look super freaky like pro body builders. so more than likely you're just a decently built vascular dude whos trying to humble brag to all your bros that you have huge guns and women simply cant stop commenting on it
Mr_Badass 8y ago
Do you know your body fat? Girls tend to like between 10% and 15% the best. She can be in the beta provider phase in her period. Best to just IDGAF and laugh about it.
revaforce 8y ago
I think I’m about 8-9 % I’m pretty lean
Mr_Badass 8y ago
Yeah don't worry what she thinks. She could be insecure, intimidated, or shit testing you but in the end of the day you have abundance mentality.
Whisper Moderator 8y ago
Why are you listening to what women say instead of watching what they do?
revaforce 8y ago
They’re fucking skinny dudes and fat fucks
[deleted] 8y ago
Lean muscular alphas are low in supply.
bigbodybuilderr 8y ago
If you've been training natty for 3 years you're not that big. Nattys cant get freaky big. Unless you've been blasting gear for the last 3 years.
revaforce 8y ago
I’m not saying I’m THAT big, but that’s how they see it or say it
huge_gap 8y ago
Just girls that are insecure and are intimidated.
katerzgonkate 8y ago
You really don’t think too muscular is a thing?
VikkBlack 8y ago
You failed at paying attention to dumb shit.
mrHappyPotatoe 8y ago
It means you are not veiny enough. She loves it.
Like when i have beard they say it they dont like it but when I sweep with it between her tits she gets wet.
Take girls as scysophrenics and most of your problems are solved.
[deleted] 8y ago
Yes, there are girls who don't like overly muscular men... Is this news to you?
[deleted] 8y ago
If you're training naturally you're never going to reach this point.
juliusstreicher 8y ago
I don't know; I rarely trained, and wasn't very muscular back in the day, but, ANY sort of effort made my veins prominent. The doctor that did some ultrasound or MRI or wtf, said that I had 'great veins'.
revaforce 8y ago
I’m not saying I’m overly muscular but it appears that way or that’s what they are saying