What does this all translate to when a girl says this about guys? Or about me? Is she shit testing or do girls actually not like guys who are big/ too veiny/ too muscular? I know I shouldn’t care about what they think or what they say but what does it really translate to psychologically when girls say this? I was skinny, I work my ass off for 3 years now I gain a lot of muscle and people are always going to hate but IDGAF, I’m just trying to understand how people think and why they say the things they do.. thanks