Don't worry about it.

First, she was an HB5. Hopefully your future pursuits will be higher than that. But also, the build up to hooking up with a date will make it easier for you to get aroused.

With a hooker, it's quick and cold like business transaction. Real life won't be anything like that.

So first of all I'd be thinking

• Ok I've got some idea of what to expect from sex

The only difference will be this

• When you pull a girl you like you'll be rock hard
• The BJ with a condom is the shittest thing ever
• Kissing is fun when it's with a girl you like
• Sex is amazing once you get the hang of it

Just know these things, dont feel anything about losing it to an escort because sex is just a primal thing, the whole 'I lost my virginity is sacred' is a blue pill fantasy, No one cares

It's a step forward in my eyes and I think when you pull your first girl you'll be craving sex on the regular

How to proceed

• Message one of the girls and mention " Hey I wanna go to X and Y they have a Z, You should come"

  Do something like go for drinks or what not something fun though ( NOT A MOVIE )

• Then use plausible deniability to get her to someone's house with a bedroom ( Do some research on plausible deniability on TRP a lot of people fuck It up, its CRUCIAL)

• Have shitty sex and get better each time

Goodluck!

I lost my virginity to one when I was 18. Same experience... she looked worse irl, decided to go with it because it was a 1hour drive. I've banged 25 hookers now and if I show up and they're ugly, I just tell them I'm not interested.

But don't end up like me... you might get addicted too, it's an easy way out. I still pull girls but I am just addicted to hookers because I love fake tits and can't be bothered by females their drama.

How to move on from here? Lift, stop watching porn, stop seeing hookers, meet with the girls from Tinder, approach girls in real life, work on your future.

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Since you have other prospects I'd say you're on a good track. Just don't go after more escorts, it can be addictive FYI. Another good lesson to take from this experience is that fucking a girl you aren't attracted to sucks, probably why you couldn't stay hard. Since you have prospects I'd just say hit them up and start going after them, if they're on Tinder chances are they are DTF so throw in a reason to go to her or your place and escalate.

Keep fucking.

Problem is you didn't tell her to "no thanks" when you found out she was a dive.

So, now you felt like you were being rolled/hustled from the beginning.

Might want to increase your budget. Women who are really skilled and attractive are able to ask more up from because they know customers will pay it.

This whole fucking was meh.

Now you see how little of a deal sex is. For some reason, society is so obsessed with it and endows it with mythical things it's supposed to do - but in reality it can't.

It does get better - especially if you are both attracted it's nice and you want to do it again and again multiple times a day.

In the end, it's still hollow.

I don't even know how to french kiss.

Just make out with some women (best done in known-for-hookup bars). It's nothing to them, and you can just leave after making out - it's not like you have to take her home.

now I'm worried about not being able to get my dick up.

It happens. You can't worry yourself to death about it - that would make it worse.

I hadn't masturbated/porn for 4 days before seeing this hooker. Any advice on how to proceed from here ?

Try again and don't pressure yourself. It's just sex. You'll eventually improve - but if you aren't feeling it with her for some time, stop the sex with her.

Also, if she's not hot enough it's difficult. There are many others better than her. You have to reject bad women. Yes, YOU.

If you’re struggling to get erections it’s likely you’re ridiculously low T (unlikely though) or you’re a porn sick freak

I can bet money that you do not exercise and you still watch porn. Also, why would u want to french kiss a girl who's job is to eat dicks?

You could've told her youre no longer interested because she looks nothing like in the ad. You have that power, since you are paying for a service. You just had a mediocre experience wih a bad escort. Its no big deal. At least u came. Stop watching porn, and start exercising so u get strong boners. Also, next time a girl shows up and looks nothing like her pics, just pull lut ylur phone and show her who you were expefting. Tell her this is not gonna work for you. Send them away. Youre not obligated to fuck them

yeeeeewwww feeling alpha yet?