I moved in with her ... and her kids

LOL

EDIT: Don't cohabitate. Read this from the sidebar.

Move out, get your own place. This is TRP advice. If you can't follow this advice, you are not following TRP.

Sounds like you're looking at the rest of your life right there dude. Where can we send the bereavement flowers?

Think about it: If you're getting an important guest in your house, no matter how much of a slob you are, you'll try to tidy things up. Even if you live together, you need to keep the household in order, simply out of respect. And she's a woman, she's biologically engineered to responsibly administer a household and the resources you decide to provide.

Do you see where i'm going with this? She doesn't care what you think about her mess. She doesn't care if you're comfy or not, heck, maybe she expects that you'll wear an apron and clean the dishes before changing the diapers of someone else's kid. She's got you in her palm and in her frame, my friend.

And you deserve better. Why would you want a woman who's unable to at least keep a clean house? That's not just failed woman, that's a failed human. If you were just banging her then fine. But you're clearly trying to involve and investing in a LTR with a sad person who's bringing you down. The time you invest cleaning her dishes used to be the time you used to improve yourself. Everyday you spend with her, you are worth less. Cause you do less, cause you've become less: a housemaid.

It's not like women love housemaids and feminity in a man.

Recognize the oneitis. Reclaim your life and realize: You're a man and a winner. You can get a better girl. This one sucks.

Fucking leave. It's well known that TRP can't fix relationships nor broken women. Get a new one, one that knows you post-TRP, one that won't hinder your improvement.

By leaving her. Stop trying to change people. Why cant u just find yourself a girl that meets your criterias?

Why are u providing housing for a single mom that has MORE THAN ONE kid fromsome other dude or dudes that are not YOU? Would it really be that hard for you to get yourself a girl that isnt the reject of someone else and that isn't complete and absolute garbage? Like, you really cannot date any other living female in this galaxy but a girl whos already busted out two kids that fucking aren't even yours? Is this it? Is this the best you can get? Do you think it's a crime to have standards?

Dread

if that fails replace her.

You should never live with a women, If you have to because of kids or something you should at least have your own room or hold on to the property you had before you moved in together.

I think you should see the red flags everywhere and stop with that oneitis. You're trying to fix an LTR but it's too late imo. You're already 100% in her frame.

You give her no consequences, she gives you no shits.

As others said, dread her. Don't discuss it with her, don't call her out on it. Dread her.

Start being distant and act like you don't need her. She stopped trying to impress you because she thinks she owns you.

Prove her wrong...

Dread?