I know the answer to this question already. I know I need to try and reframe myself because I have honestly lost my cool and my Alpha frame. Not all of my friends seem to be apart of this prank, but it’s the 3rd time they’ve cat fished me (in stupid obvious ways I should add) to try and see if I am a virgin (obvs not).
I can see that they are truly jealous of me because I changed my life. Without going into too much detail, I was really bullied a lot in high school and had a shit reputation. I always wanted to join the military and no one thought I had the balls to do it. Now, I am apart of a Recon Division and am starting to climb my way high. I am starting to easily get the attention of the cute girls they had absolutely been drooling over for fucking years and have no idea how to even behave.
I have been laid a few times since joining and it makes them jealous because today they tried to catfish me using an extremely poor attempt that I fucking blew out of the water. During this portion, I obviously lost my frame. Not to the extent where they got what everything they wanted, and this case was so extreme when I called them out — there was no subtle shit tests. Everything, and everyone was black and white. It was clear what was going on.
The problem is that these guys are my only friends back home. I have very fee other friends back home, and I spend a lot of time back home so I really do not want to burn every bridge possible. I have maybe only 3 friends who straight up weren’t apart of this, and one that was hesistant at first because he “didn’t want to snitch” but still snitched in the end.
The kid behind this is a fucking pussy. He only flexes his mommy’s money, thinks he owns shit because he buys bottles, and is a scrawny little kid. They’re at the point of doing childish shit like sending old nerdy high school pics of myself, “oh thats definitely a virgin right there”.
I have never seen such a crabs in the bucket as this, especially it being some of my closest friends. I really do not know how to go about this. I feel like killing the kid but I know that’s not going to happen and is just a fantasy. I know I need to take a deep breath and keep on going as usual. I need to regain solid frame.
I already blocked everyone on all possible means except those few friends who weren’t apart of it. I want to know how to behave in person, because it may be a big city but we will obviously cross paths somehow. I am trying really hard right now to remain calm.
bored1544 5y ago
They aren't your friends. COmpletely drop them. DOn't try to retaliate, don't try to raise your position in their hierarchy. Focus on continuing to improve inside your own life.
redpharma7789 5y ago
I have blocked all but two (whom I truly consider not involved, they are definitely RP af) and I have people watching me, making sure I don’t go on a rampage tonight.
ECoast_Man 5y ago
Dude. 'Friends' are disposable. Make new friends. This shit isn't cool at all.
MuhTriggersGuise 5y ago
Dude, shit like what they pulled shouldn't even faze you. They are small minded people doing small minded things. Just laugh and move on with your awesome life. Raging is beta.
redpharma7789 5y ago
This fag is literally now trying to destroy my reputation back home. I have at least like 5 DMs this morning from hot girls all being like “Tell your friends to stop DMing me, I don’t wanna fuck you”.
MuhTriggersGuise 5y ago
Yeah? And how are you handling it?
redpharma7789 5y ago
Obviously not in the best way possible.
My reputation is something I’d defend with my life. This shit is starting to blow up bigger than I could ever imagine. And I can’t lift until tonight.
MuhTriggersGuise 5y ago
Shit is "blowing up" because you have a track record of melting down and producing infinite amounts of entertainment.
comcain 5y ago
Exactly what did they do? Insufficient context for me to comment/advise.
redpharma7789 5y ago
Right, so in the past they played a few pranks on me. One was convincing this crazy girl to try and flirt with me (not a big deal, she wasn’t that cute, and she stopped on her own). Second time they started sending fake texts within themselves and changing the name/number to make it look like me. Then they started coming to me acting like I was starting shit (they dropped it after I threatened to kill someone).
Now, they did a really, really poor fucking attempt to catfish me. Random profile, no followers, clearly a fucking celebrity profile picture. Quick reverse search and boom... obviously. I had my suspicions up already, my friend was like “oh hey my friend to me say hi xxx”. Like seriously, I called him out... next thing you know one of the kids start snitching.
He says that they’re doing it because they don’t think I am a virgin, and that how I was so quick to call them out pissed them off. Next thing you know, I’m invited to a group chat and they start sending memes of my old prepubescent self (LMAO, like seriously) and they start calling me a virgin and fag and all that.
I am going to flat out admit, and some times I did lose frame... by retaliating and talking back, etc. I had one real friend, whom is my OG... he straight up told me who did it. Now I know it’s the scrawny kid. I am about to fucking kill this kid. I’ve had enough of him. He’s always been a little rat and fucking cock and I really wouldn’t mine beating the shit out of him.
As of now, everyone from this friend group (minus two) have been blocked on every avenue possible. I have locked up my guns and gave the key to my best friend so I don’t go on a rampage tonight. This is all shaking me because I no longer have any friends back home, besides a few. I don’t know what to do.