I don't have many friends and honestly I like it this way, I don't like going to bars or nightclubs although I do like drinking, no outdoor hobby other than cycling, solo-hiking and fishing, and yeah not many women over here.
Most people meet women through friends, parties, and bars, actually most women of my age, 22, hang in bars and nightclubs. It's hard to apply most of the things I read here if I rarely interact with women.
The question is, does this mean I should force myself to go to bars and do things I don't like doing just for the sake of meeting women? Because that kinda sounds pathetic, it's like a guy trying to learn the guitar just to get women attention, even thought he doesn't like it.
vandaalen 5y ago
if only women were allowed out on the streets in your country Saudi Arabia and you could just go and say "Hi!" to them in weird places, like i.e. the subway, the mall or the supermarket...
You are living in Saudi Arabia, no?
Walkerstain 5y ago
Cold approach only work if you're attractive. Well at least with me it never really worked, walking up to women out of the blue in public places like a park or on the streets. I thought if I engage in some sort of common activity it'll probably be easier, no? No I don't live in Saudi, not sure why you're being a dick.
vandaalen 5y ago
fail. back to the sidebar with you
Walkerstain 5y ago
I'll admit I didn't fully swallow the pill, just licked it.
oytrp 5y ago
So make yourself attractive. There are no shortcuts.
Walkerstain 5y ago
That's not an easy thing to do when you're 5'6.
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88VILLI 5y ago
You’re a few inches off average (going by USA). Don’t make excuses, you’re only cheating yourself.
oytrp 5y ago
Nothing worth doing is easy.
[deleted] 5y ago
Go to the mall or grocery store, coffee shop or any place where there are people. Walk up to the best looking babe there that doesn't have a rock on her finger and say hi.
Don't be afraid to cut to the chase either. Lots of eye contact. "What's your situation" is not an inappropriate question after a good conversation has been established. If she acts like it's not something she wants to talk about, next.
PraiseBasedDonut 5y ago
Go out to a mall or coffee store and meet women. You can also join hiking and cycling clubs , this will help you with the networking even if you don’t find any women there.