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Us3rn4m321 5y ago
Hook up with another coworker and have everyone find out. The men will think you're great and respect you. Some women will be turned on.
Just joking bud, it's awful advice lol
Pluglord 5y ago
Too late. Start preparing for the worst.
jhahn311 5y ago
Already am, just trying to figure out how to lessen the blow
mrHappyPotatoe 5y ago
Do nothing.
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What kind of job do you have?
PhaedrusHunt 5y ago
Plant some cocaine in her cubicle. Get that crack whore fired.
desanar1 5y ago
Lmaooooo
boy_named_su 5y ago
You're a child. Every day we say "don't shit where you eat", and you did it anyway. You deserve this
jhahn311 5y ago
Realized this rule after I found the red pill
ppanthero 5y ago
This “rule“ should be common sense though...
TheRedPillMonkey 5y ago
I'll spare you the speech about not playing where you eat. You're learning that the hard way.
There is no good out - hence why we have a hard rule about this shit. A hard split may make her salty and vindictive. Going beta will make you seem weak at work. Going "I just don't feel right dating a coworker" may work, but then she'll get pissed that you ever got into it in the first place.
She needs to get over you in her own mind. That's the only clean way. You need like a Chad bro to swoop in and fuck her some night, seduce her, feign interest in her, all while you intentionally start sucking a little in bed. That way she'll just be "over you" and you'll not see many real reprocussions around it. I mean, she may talk shit behind your back to co-workers about sucking in bed, but who the fuck cares? I don't think you're going to try and fuck a coworker again anytime soon.
That may not be the best path, but I think the only clean way out for you is if she makes the decision herself and not you.... However you accomplish it.
That, or find a new job first, then break up with her.
jhahn311 5y ago
Very helpful advice Thank you very much
Merwebb 5y ago
4D chess
MaliciousMack 5y ago
Great advice RPM, but to add on to this, another option may be to try clingyness, distance isn't working, so the inverse may be a possible way out if you play your cards. Will be a lot of work, but it in theory is a clean exit plan.
maxofreddit 5y ago
This is good... it's the only option you actually have control over.
It also may take a while, but smothering her and wanting to be with her all the time will make the likelyhood that she's looking for a Chad show up.
6londie 5y ago
"You need like a Chad bro to swoop in and fuck her some night, seduce her, feign interest in her, all while you intentionally start sucking a little in bed"
I VOLUNTEER AS TRIBUTE!
MuhTriggersGuise 5y ago
I would advise caution. It may be that she saw the writing on the wall, and tried to preempt you with the thought you wouldn't accept her breaking up and try to win her back. There may still be drama to be had.
jhahn311 5y ago
I have taken pre emotive action in case drama arises and I worked out a transfer that involves better pay and it’s closer to home
daytonbull90 5y ago
Don't shit where you eat, men never prosper in situations like this, dating in the workplace is like marriage, you either stay with her or lose everything. Just try to keep it civil, jump in front of it with superiors, stay mature and try to 'be friends' with her.
justtenofusinhere 5y ago
Go full beta on her. Be the most over the top cloying, needy, weak bitch you can be.
She'll break up with you yesterday. Plus, as a bonus, word will get around and you won't be able to date any of the other girls there either saving you from repeating this mistake in the future!
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jhahn311 5y ago
I realized this rule when I got to the Redpill and trust me this won’t happen again I just wish I would’ve known better
vtr0 5y ago
Get super clingy and beta, and do everything a beta would do, until she breaks up with you.
jhahn311 5y ago
This I will try
Ninokun 5y ago
Changing the company wont be the end of ur life lol. Its time to start applying to other companies.
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i'd date her again. but i like to live dangerously
Occams_Stubble 5y ago
Hire a couple stinking homeless meth addicts to pose as your parents and introduce her to them.
mozofila 5y ago
Try to sort it out with her, if not - find a new job.
PhaedrusHunt 5y ago
https://youtu.be/ZB62oaOeqR0
Wrath_of_Trump 5y ago
Pucker your asshole real tight and hope for the best.
nomba 5y ago
This should be stickied...the title alone will save a lot of people a lot of trouble.
Original_Dankster 5y ago
It's sub-optimal situation to be sure.
Best bet is to contrive a way to make the break-up mutual. One suggestion would be to make yourself incompatible with one of her deeply held life goals. Announce that after a period of introspection, your life path is incompatible and it wouldn't be fair to hold her back.
Example: She wants kids. Say you realized that you never want kids, and that it would be best if you two went your own ways - because if you prevented her from having kids one day, it could breed resentment, and if you did have kids, you realize you're too selfish and lazy to be a good father.
I used this one (honestly, that very example and for me it was 100% true) and it worked like a charm. That ex and I are still amicable years later.
jhahn311 5y ago
That’s a very reasonable and viable option
1NV0K3R 5y ago
Depends. Does your work allow you to date coworkers? If that is the case you can easily approach HR first with an official statement and go from there.
jhahn311 5y ago
It does as long as there is no disruption of the workplace
1NV0K3R 5y ago
So go to HR and explain the situation that you are going to break up and that you want them to be aware just in case it becomes an issue in the future
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1NV0K3R 5y ago
ITT people who've never dealt with corporate
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I make sure to be on friendly charming terms with at least a few of the HR gals. Id drop this into casual conversation with an HR gal vs making a formal report in my situation with connections. They all gossip like magpies so everyone in HR will informally know the scoop.
Formal HR is never your friend. Their main role is to protect the company from its employees. Their secondary role is what everyone else thinks HR does.
FriendlyAdvisor-v2 5y ago
Nah. HR is never your friend, they’d be more likely to let you go than let her go. Follow the advice of some of the endorsed contributors, polish the resume and try to become a bad partner. Make her want to break up with you.
1NV0K3R 5y ago
Uh they can't let him go if they allow coworkers to date...
InChargeMan 5y ago
I think you meant to post this to r/funny
FriendlyAdvisor-v2 5y ago
Of course they can let him go if it interferes with the work environment?
InChargeMan 5y ago
Exactly, which includes the girl feels like telling HR that he makes her uncomfortable by working there. Which takes 5 minutes out of her life and significantly alters his.
jaedgy 5y ago
Accuse her of sexual misconduct first /s
MilestoneAndPrivacy 5y ago
This but unironically
MrSittingBull 5y ago
that may actually work
Tdayohey 5y ago
I’d just be honest and tell her that you’re starting to think it may be a bad idea to date while you’re working together and that you don’t want to create any conflict with management and each other that could interfere with both of your careers.
It’s a clean and honest answer and one that makes it seem like you’re looking out for her and yourself. Some people can date coworkers, others can’t.
PlackOfCigarettes 5y ago
Just say you want to take a break, say ur dog died and it’s making you put life in perspective and you can’t think straight anymore and don’t trust anyone anymore because the vet said someone attacked your dog
TurnDownForWhat 5y ago
Honestly try and branch swing your way into a better company or subtle of course start encourging her to find a new company.
Cloudsurf89 5y ago
No magic solution so how about a few slightly flawed suggestions...
Tell her you: are gay - have found religion - respect her too much to fuck her - are going through some tough stuff and need space - are going celebate - don't feel good enough but reaaaaally love her and want to cuddle her forever - are terminally ill
RaughKee 5y ago
Try faking a number of premature ejaculations in a row, then after your done get all clingy and cry a bit. Relationship done.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Moral: “Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.”
deville05 5y ago
jhahn311 5y ago
The most helpful advice so far
MuhTriggersGuise 5y ago
Just to clarify, this is a list of actions you should take, not two separate options.
jhahn311 5y ago
I threw my toaster in the shower but I fucking lived wtf
speed3_freak 5y ago
Bathtub, my man. Bathtub
enderbeannn 5y ago
I stumbled on the answer to this before ever knowing about TRP. A few years ago I was dating a chick from work and unintentionally went all out beta on her. I got dumped real fast.
Do the same and when she inevitably dumps you, continue to be beta and tell her how hurt you are but that you'd like to stay professional at work.
Kabuki431 5y ago
Rule 1. Never shit where you eat.
jhahn311 5y ago
This I definitely now know
As-You-Were 5y ago
Lying to break up is beta af.
Meet her in public on neutral ground so she can’t freak out and if she does there are witnesses.
Say you don’t want to make it awkward at work - say it’s over.
Job done.
PM_ME_SOME_NATURE 5y ago
Go full beta and make her break up with you.
a0001_i1100 5y ago
Get a better job and then get a better gf.
anon1moos 5y ago
should have considered that before you started dating your coworker.
TonytheNetworker 5y ago
Glad you were able to escape alive without any repercussions!
stylesm11 5y ago
Try to make it about morality, like you really think it's wrong to date someone at work & you can't do it anymore..., or run her of by being needy as shit?
thesquarerootof1 5y ago
No. He shouldn’t try to look clingy . She might gossip at work, this ruining his reputation
jhahn311 5y ago
See I stopped caring completely and she now won’t leave me alone so that is definitely an approach I have not thought of Sounds like a good one to try
elcarlosmiguel 5y ago
nope girls can feel when you wont actually give a fuck, so she will probabaly like you even more, be real and cut the losses as soon as possible there's a reason dont shit where you eat is so loudly spoken on here.
u chose to ignore now there's really nothing you can do except framing the break up like its the best for both and not losing frame with non of the fuck sjit she will eventually do. You can go look for other job as well
jhahn311 5y ago
I didn’t know that we’ve been dating for over a year I found trp like a couple months ago
elcarlosmiguel 5y ago
Sure man, good luck!
waylonw 5y ago
Never get your honey where you make your money!
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