I have to move back to my parents house for awhile. Maybe until winter. I’m just concerned because having my own spot was great for women. Almost all of them still lived with their parents so logistics were simple. But now I’m not sure exactly where to bring them. Aside a hotel? I’m planning on going out a lot more since it’s getting warmer too and it just clashes with the family.
Should I just buckle down and go full monk mode and pick up extra jobs to get out of there asap? I’m thinking about not going out much at all and just grinding till I can comfortably leave.
chazthundergut 6y ago
It's just like everything else: FRAME
You control the reality. There are two possible ways to experience it:
This sucks! I'm stuck living with my parents. No chick is going to come back home with me if I am living with my parents! I'm not in high school anymore. I'll never get laid.
Get it? Control your frame, control your reality.
DrownRanger47 6y ago
Perfect answer.
Iwannachokekatie 6y ago
My parents wouldn't give a shit and neither would I. The only reason why I don't consider taking a chick home (or anyone for that matter) is that I'm ashamed of my family and our living conditions.
setsuna0 6y ago
Yeah there’s that. Our living conditions isn’t something I’d want people around. And my family is too much lol.
Iwannachokekatie 6y ago
Exactly. I'd be down to secretly finger be a chick while sharing a couch with the fam and watching a movie. In the worst case they'd just tell me to go to my room. The only thing filthier than me in that situation would be the couch we have.
setsuna0 6y ago
That’s wild I like it lol.
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setsuna0 6y ago
Looks like this is the moves right here. ✊????
DonaldBaelish 6y ago
Hey man, I know this will sound extremely crazy. But at my parents house, I have a room. I suppose you do too. It's a cool thing to have a room.
I fuck them in my room.
Also in the kitchen.
setsuna0 6y ago
Ok this is going to sound bad. But I don’t even have a door to my bed room my G lol. And too many family members around.
I haven’t lived here since like 2011 so it’s weird from having my own lol
Shiva-Lingam 6y ago
I moved back to my parent's house recently to save money and have time to plan my next business venture. since I hadn't lived here full time for 12 years, I knew I would have to face some issues that required time and money to be fixed before I could take women home. with time, effort and by involving my family I'm now 90% there and in a month or 2 it will all be fixed.
what I would suggest is to find ways to fix the obvious problems and to take steps to address them (eg. find out how much a door costs, and have a plan to buy it and have it installed ASAP). involve your family where possible as it will be hard for you to do anything there without their collaboration.
redlittleboot 6y ago
Her place? Motels? Usually its bearable but your living conditions dont sound fantastic
setsuna0 6y ago
Yeah I’m going to get my living conditions better over there. But in the meantime I’ll use my car, motels, and her place if possible. I’ll be out by winter anyway
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I think you should invest in a door for your bedroom.
setsuna0 6y ago
I am I didn’t move back in yet
As-You-Were 6y ago
Hotels are decent but you’d need to make a day of it, and squeeze in 2-3 plates a day for the duration of the stay. Don’t get a hotel to just fuck some broad.
If you have a car, with back seats,.. do it in the back.
Also, some girls like having sex outside, plays into exhibitionism and risk of being caught etc. + you get a story out of it to tell your friends.
All in all though, save up and get your own place - you planned out timescales for when you’ll have enough bank to do so?
setsuna0 6y ago
I didn’t think about a hotel for the day to fuck multiple plates. That’s actually amazing lol.
Yeah I got a car and Ive fucked at a park once. That was one of my best stories lol. guess I have nothing to worry about then.
I’m looking around now and I think by fall I can comfortably leave. I’ll be getting a second job to make things go faster.
blister333 6y ago
I had an entire furnished basement and bedroom to myself. Oh and a sliding back door for people to slip in and out of whenever it was convenient.
ks501 6y ago
I had to move home at 28 to improve job prospects. Here's the deal as I see it: have a healthy relationship with your parents and mutual respect. Then, pursue a real relationship with women. They'll respect that. If you don't have weird parents, it should be fine.