If she is as religious as you say, she will probably turn you down(sex and kino). She is probably just living with the fantasy of turning you muslim and marrying a white(assuming) man. Source: muslim man.
The other comment is quite accurate-Muslim girls are too much energy/conflict if you aren’t a part of the faith itself.
Also she’s 23 - believe it or not but most girls in the faith have some kind of marriage arrangement/talks have already begun by 20-21 so it seems like she’s either missed the boat or is a rebel.
The other part of me:
If she’s as hardcore as she acts to be then she shouldn’t be seeing you at all. The other possibility is that being/acting cute is all just a ploy to lure you into the faith and she is purely on a conversion mission to “help you see the beauty of the faith” or something.
Either way- too much thinking , not worth the energy. You either make a move and she outwardly rejects and you move on with your life or you make a move and she breaks one of the tenets of her faith- No sex before marriage.
Oh so you’re an emotional support for her, someone that is a source of joy/energy even though you might just be trying to date her.
As a good man: I say to be there for her in your current arrangement , she seems like a great person who’s just trying to figure out this new land after being forced out of her home. (if shes a refugee)
It’s up to you dude- you could try to fuck her and potentially ruin a nice time or potentially be a real mentor to someone and experience a different kind of reward/joy.
If I was you. Just have a good time , live a good life , be happy in her company and you might find herself wanting to be with you through sheer attraction and backtrack her words. Someone who shows her love/energy but doesn’t focus as much on her as she likes.
You can’t play games with Muslim women , they come to you - NEVER go to them.
Haha not at all. I’m still saying you can fuck her but as a TRP man you have to know how to produce the great return on investment you make- especially the ones in yourself. This refugee connection might be worth more down the road as a potential connection than it currently stands as a cute girl playing hard to get.
I’m usually a guy who plays the long term game. Not everyone does , and I get it.
She might say one think but act the other way. I personally would treat her as any other girl : strong eye contact, flirty/playful discussion, kino on hands, hips legs. You can avoid the kind of things you would do with a party girl like drinking game and such ... obviously. But respecting the whole veil of religion and status will not help you at all. Tbh these kind of girls actually want to be treated as any other girl, it's a form of escapism. If she gives you more resistance than the usual ASD then that is up to you to stop and get on your way out.
I would keep the subject away from religion, treat her as if she was the girl next door. If she insists on getting your religious insights, or if she clearly refuses to escalate then you can let her know that these are your terms and no others. She has a great weapon on her side to break your dominance, so if you are not ready to leave at any moment then you will fall in her frame.
If you lead the night, you lead the discussion and you lead the escalation then what will happen is not "her fault". It will make it easier for her ASD
But to answer on what you are probably willing to hear : Yes, religious girls often look the other way when aroused. Attraction is a subconscious feeling, and subconscious supersede conscious limitations like religion.
I have banged a Muslim girl who wore the veil before and she told me a lot of Muslim girls are actually sex freaks and they just put up a facade for the Islamic community.
Not saying that this girl is like that though. But why not go for it?
Yea im guessing she wants to really try convert me then marry me to get her wet dream come true. Neither of those things are interesting to me so ill prolly just not even waste my time. Shes a cool girl tho
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2ndLion 7y ago
If she is as religious as you say, she will probably turn you down(sex and kino). She is probably just living with the fantasy of turning you muslim and marrying a white(assuming) man. Source: muslim man.
anon1moos 7y ago
That's a hard next in my book, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
In this specific case she's clearly trying to convert you.
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anon1moos 7y ago
Maybe you can, maybe she'll give it up, she wouldn't be the first religious girl to get down before marriage, but is it worth it?
huge_gap 7y ago
Run. She wants marriage and you'll have to deal with her religion and family and culture. Fuck that.
redrogue12 7y ago
Ask for anal.
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One part of me is like:
The other comment is quite accurate-Muslim girls are too much energy/conflict if you aren’t a part of the faith itself.
Also she’s 23 - believe it or not but most girls in the faith have some kind of marriage arrangement/talks have already begun by 20-21 so it seems like she’s either missed the boat or is a rebel.
The other part of me: If she’s as hardcore as she acts to be then she shouldn’t be seeing you at all. The other possibility is that being/acting cute is all just a ploy to lure you into the faith and she is purely on a conversion mission to “help you see the beauty of the faith” or something.
Either way- too much thinking , not worth the energy. You either make a move and she outwardly rejects and you move on with your life or you make a move and she breaks one of the tenets of her faith- No sex before marriage.
Source: another Muslim man.
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Oh so you’re an emotional support for her, someone that is a source of joy/energy even though you might just be trying to date her.
As a good man: I say to be there for her in your current arrangement , she seems like a great person who’s just trying to figure out this new land after being forced out of her home. (if shes a refugee)
It’s up to you dude- you could try to fuck her and potentially ruin a nice time or potentially be a real mentor to someone and experience a different kind of reward/joy.
Hard roads, hard choices. Good luck.
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If I was you. Just have a good time , live a good life , be happy in her company and you might find herself wanting to be with you through sheer attraction and backtrack her words. Someone who shows her love/energy but doesn’t focus as much on her as she likes.
You can’t play games with Muslim women , they come to you - NEVER go to them.
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Haha not at all. I’m still saying you can fuck her but as a TRP man you have to know how to produce the great return on investment you make- especially the ones in yourself. This refugee connection might be worth more down the road as a potential connection than it currently stands as a cute girl playing hard to get.
I’m usually a guy who plays the long term game. Not everyone does , and I get it.
Good luck anyway!
_Ulan_ 7y ago
She might say one think but act the other way. I personally would treat her as any other girl : strong eye contact, flirty/playful discussion, kino on hands, hips legs. You can avoid the kind of things you would do with a party girl like drinking game and such ... obviously. But respecting the whole veil of religion and status will not help you at all. Tbh these kind of girls actually want to be treated as any other girl, it's a form of escapism. If she gives you more resistance than the usual ASD then that is up to you to stop and get on your way out.
I would keep the subject away from religion, treat her as if she was the girl next door. If she insists on getting your religious insights, or if she clearly refuses to escalate then you can let her know that these are your terms and no others. She has a great weapon on her side to break your dominance, so if you are not ready to leave at any moment then you will fall in her frame.
If you lead the night, you lead the discussion and you lead the escalation then what will happen is not "her fault". It will make it easier for her ASD
But to answer on what you are probably willing to hear : Yes, religious girls often look the other way when aroused. Attraction is a subconscious feeling, and subconscious supersede conscious limitations like religion.
chazthundergut 7y ago
Yes, you could still close the deal. Under that hijab is a woman with the same wiring and hormones as every other female.
Yes, it would take a little extra game and persistence to overcome her religious conditioning.
No, it probably wouldn't be worth it. Would be a cool story though.
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I have banged a Muslim girl who wore the veil before and she told me a lot of Muslim girls are actually sex freaks and they just put up a facade for the Islamic community.
Not saying that this girl is like that though. But why not go for it?
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showerdudes9 7y ago
Yea im guessing she wants to really try convert me then marry me to get her wet dream come true. Neither of those things are interesting to me so ill prolly just not even waste my time. Shes a cool girl tho
NotoriousSnake 7y ago
Treat her like any other plate/ltr, remember that awalt still applies. Next if she isn't down without marriage.
Source: I'm a Muslim Dude
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Anal is halal, homie.
room_303 7y ago
Muslim - next before she nails your pipe, bomb.