Say one guy has a perfect body, make 6 figures, has it all... well, seemingly, except he is dull, and personality is non-existent. Say a girl comes along, sees you with all that and then there is this other guy she sees, makes average money but has an attitude/personality like he is a rock-star. I've seen this more times than once, I think she'd go for the average dude. I want to know what others think here. Is being fun, exciting, interesting, having character and personality more important to most women than having a perfect body and making 6 figures? Will most girls choose the guy with attitude and personality over the guy with the body and money?
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chazthundergut 5y ago
A man earning six figures with washboard abs will never be dull to a woman.
He might turn her off by being needy (which is something else entirely), but he would never lose to a broke chubby dude on the basis of personality.
Being rich and ripped is personality to a chick.
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chazthundergut 5y ago
Sorry dude I gotta disagree.
I've seen it time and again.
Go to a party at a mansion hosted by a rich guy. He doesn't even need to be ripped. The chicks just cannot help themselves. They will find him wildly interesting and attractive, even if he is boring.
Now, this isn't the same phenomenon as a rich beta letting his neediness and beta-ness shine through. That will definitely be a turn-off, and it will be easy for a dude who is alpha or has personality to beat him.
But boring? Impossible. A dude who is rich and ripped will always be interesting to chicks. I am telling you, I have seen it dozens of times.
room_303 5y ago
Actually they can are are dull to women, six figures with washboard abs sounds boring as a doorknob.
Earning 6 figures and owning half to debt, living with parents and or having no life experience (among many others) are all leaning closer to find the beautiful flowers smell of shit.
chazthundergut 5y ago
Question: do you personally know any man earning six figures with washboard abs who has a hard time attracting women?
I am asking because I know and have met several dudes who were pretty rich but had very boring personalities. They could barely keep a conversation going. But the thing is, they never had to. Chicks don't care when you drive a lambo and you're hosting a party in your mansion.
Again, I'm saying this because I've witnessed it first hand.
And by the way, not one of these rich dudes had washboard abs. If they did, it would be even easier (if that was possible).
Are you basing this off of theory or personal experience?
room_303 5y ago
I'm judging it off my life experience and that I am in fact a good judge of character and met many kinds - like you said, they are Rich (99% of the time because their Dad and Grandpa, and Great Grandpa spoon fed the shit out of them), So they are boring, lack grit, have never been down the abyss. And are self centered about the THINGS they have. These THINGS are their sense of VALUE, Fabricated Pride Sense, - "I AM CHAD VALUE TO GIRLS BECAUSE OF X AND Y AND PORSCHE 911."
Sure, fuck one or two goldiggers and they are still empty afterwards.
chazthundergut 5y ago
Oh yea dude I agree with you on that. I know several rich guys with cardboard personalities.
I'm just saying that a boring personality has never been an obstacle for any rich guys that I've ever seen. Or hot guys. I can't imagine it being a problem for a man who is both rich and has washboard abs.
It's the same way that there is no such thing as a boring hot chick. Of course they are all boring as shit. And yet no guy has ever turned her away for being boring, and that is unfortunately just the way things are. When you are in front of her, you don't see her as boring. A gorgeous woman with a sexy body will be endlessly fascinating to 99% of men.
oneredguy 5y ago
The other guy passes shit tests. The guy that men will think of as a winner? Well when he's constantly failing shit tests she'll think he's a pathetic beta and to be kept around only as a final fall back option when she needs money.
You can indeed bang hot young girls even homeless sleeping in a sleeping bag on concrete floor not even sure how you're going to pay for gas tomorrow. If you can obliterate her shit tests.
Personality just means demolishes shit tests and takes her on a wild emotional ride. So yeah, personality always wins. Game is over and above everything. Physique, status, money, they all help improve the quality of the girl you can get. But you'll never get any girl at all without the arch principle. Game.
resnine 5y ago
I know this for a fact because I knew a dude that lived in a tent and was fucking bad bitches. It made no sense to me. The dude did not have a silver tongue, he had a GOLDEN TONGUE. The guy had such a mastery of the english language. He could make any guy look ridiculous and a fool just by his word play and tone of voice. The women flocked to this sucker. He just radiated confidence, despite how bad his situation was, he never seemed to care that his life was shitty. He never portrayed it as shit, he acted like a fucking rock-star every fucking day.
resnine 5y ago
I know this for a fact because I knew a dude that lived in a tent and was fucking bad bitches. It made no sense to me. The dude did not have a silver tongue, he had a GOLDEN TONGUE. The guy had such a mastery of the english language. He could make any guy look ridiculous and a fool just by his word play and tone of voice. The women flocked to this sucker. He just radiated confidence, despite how bad his situation was, he never seemed to care that his life was shitty. He never portrayed it as shit, he acted like a fucking rock-star every fucking day.
iCeeYouP 5y ago
Exceptions don't make the rule. (Your confirmation bias is showing.)
Or are you telling me that since the moon is rarely orange, it's automatically expected to be orange every single night?
resnine 5y ago
No, but it seems that the consensus around here is that game is above and beyond more important than money. That wasn't an extreme example, but I've seen varying degrees of the same thing. Guys that were basically losers gaming hot women because they had a way with words/mastery of the english language. Could talk their way out of any situation with man or woman.
iCeeYouP 5y ago
"Gaming" and "fucking" women are two different things. Are those guys fucking them? Have you seen it with your own eyes? Otherwise, they are just entertainment until the guy who's actually going to fuck them shows up.
resnine 5y ago
I don't hang around what I call "alpha" all that much, but I the two guys I did that can think of were pretty much making dirt and getting multiple women to fuck them. Other times I'll say it just appears that they are losers, dirty clothes but all this attitude that women flock too. Other than that I don't know what those particular situations were. Seems to be similar to the other two guys who were basically homeless but get hot women to fuck them.