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SirKolbath 6y ago
No, it isn't. The gym is sacred. It's your place to improve yourself. I would never invite a woman to my gym. There are too damn many of them there as it is, texting furiously and Tindering frantically while they check their makeup in the lifting mirrors and walk half a mile on the fucking treadmill.
There are two women at my gym who sweat. One is a decathlon competitor and one is the fucking owner. Everyone else is either a college girl pretending to work out (Why did you put on full makeup to sweat, princess?) or a goddamn dirigible who won't make it two weeks before she stops coming.
If you want to work out with her, take her flabby ass to Planet Fatness for pizza. Stay away from gyms where people are trying to get serious work done.
redlurker9 6y ago
Amen.
TSM_Bjergson 6y ago
Idk man. Being a bodybuilder, the gym is where I have STATUS. My last two LTRs were girls I met at the gym and worked out with in a regular basis.
SirKolbath 6y ago
That's fine, as long as you don't mind losing your gym when you break up and she brings drama into it. You know how women are. That's her place now, and once she is done with you you should leave.
Obviously, if it's working for you I wouldn't change it, but it's not something I would do. Hell, I'm not even very polite to the women in my gym. They're always in the fucking way, and most of them need to learn that they don't have to use perfume as a goddamn marinade. I'm trying to break consistent six minute miles on the treadmill and some tart next to me soaked her stupid self in Britney Spears toilet water so I have to breathe it.
I consider the gym to be precisely the same as the workplace. I don't shit anywhere I sleep. Any place I go to regularly is a place I don't want to be trying to pull ass. I go to work to work. I'm there to improve my economic power. I go to the gym to work. I'm there to improve my physical power.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
"Hell, I'm not even very polite to the women in my gym. They're always in the fucking way, and most of them need to learn that they don't have to use perfume as a goddamn marinade. I'm trying to break consistent six minute miles on the treadmill and some tart next to me soaked her stupid self in Britney Spears toilet water so I have to breathe it."
???????? That's the same for me except I don't do treadmill (Shoo shop Gainz Goblin)
SirKolbath 6y ago
I am a Krav Maga instructor so I need to keep a certain level of physical stamina that weights alone won't give me. Treadmills are unfeeling, merciless bitches that keep me relentlessly on pace and also do less damage to my elderly knees. (Seriously, I have cadaver bone in one of them. Judging from the way it feels, motherfucker I got it from was two hundred years old.)
Westernhagen 6y ago
Heh. Every time I dated a gym girl, when we broke up she lost her gym, not me. I didn't even do or say anything, they just stopped coming. No way in Hell could they have caused me to stop coming.
SirKolbath 6y ago
Good. There was a post in ask TRP a couple years ago that was exactly the reverse. Some guy banged a gym sloot. She got pissed about being a one and done and complained to the gym management that he was ogling her or some shit. (Sorry. I'm fuzzy on the details. It was a while ago.) He ended up losing his membership.
For me, it's just like work. It's just not worth the risk and effort involved. There's too much potential for drama and nonsense, and I'm there to work.
Westernhagen 6y ago
(shrug) I live in a town with a shitload of gyms. If I got kicked out of one, I'd just go somewhere else. You're paying them money, they're not paying you money. If they don't want your money, too bad for them.
But yeah I certainly understand anyone wanting no drama in the gym.
SirKolbath 6y ago
Problem is, they also want her money and women have a habit of whining on social media and to the press when they feel they're being oppressed.
Yeah, and bear in mind that all advice I give is prefaced with an invisible, "If this works for you..." I'm not you, I'm me. I'm better at being me than I could ever be at being you, so what works for me might not work for you.
MattyAnon Admin 6y ago
Gym date is a fucking terrible idea.
1 - the gym is your temple.
2 - women are very shy about how they look without makeup, and full makeup at the gym is also terrible, and she'll sweat and hate it
Counterpoint: it's good for touching.
LiveAFTSOV 6y ago
I'd bring a LTR there not a plate
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Story time.
Yesterday I was crushing shoulders when a couple with a significant SMV imbalance walked in the gym. The girl was a petite blonde, early 20's, HB8. The guy was skinny, pale & not much hair left.
Within 10 minutes of being there the girl was being chatted up by 4 guys (not necessarily Chad's but much higher SMV than the boyfriend). The boyfriend looked like a helpless animal.
Unless you're a top 5 Chad in your gym it's not a good idea.
NavyBlueCrow 6y ago
Temple like guys above said. Once I met a girl from my gym who wanted to fuck but you know what? I didn't wanted that, I mean she was hot but you don't shit where you pray.
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TheDreadnought1 6y ago
You're right, but even if you're full confident, taking your sheep to the house of wolves doesn't seem a very good idea.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
Concerning your 2nd point, you just gotta strive to be the strongest or most jacked dude
NavyBlueCrow 6y ago
You know it's not working like this. You can do the best but the world is the world. It's all about probability and choices.
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Not a first date. Terrible idea. However my LTR and I have separate gyms and occasionally we will go together.
-HeartOfDark- 6y ago
Help her with some exercises. "Correct" her form with your hands and make sure she squeezes her chest. Tell her she looks good. Etc.
BlackMarmoset 6y ago
Yeah, also hold her purse and your testicles while she chats with other guys.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
She can't be chatting with other guys if she's busy muting you squat 400+lbs in the rack.
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-HeartOfDark- 6y ago
He said she doesn't lift. Learn to read.
Westernhagen 6y ago
Anecdotally, the gym I go to now is very "male oriented" (i.e., mostly squat racks and bench stations, literally NO aerobics machines). Girls who use it are pretty serious; they do squat, bench, snatch, etc. There are two couples that come regularly; one couple is married, other just an LTR. Don't think they met at the gym. The guys in these couples are pretty strong but not super-Chad. Nevertheless I haven't seen anyone trying to chat up those girls. Personally, I'm not planning on hitting on any of the single girls; I am there to get my lifting done, not to socialize. I doubt I'd bring a date to the gym, for the exact same reason.
That said, back in the day when I belonged to a Big Franchise Gym, I had no problem (philosophical or practical) getting dates there that resulted in a bang. (Got the number in the gym; the date itself was always outside the gym.) Lots of women come and go in those places. And I do recall a number of LTR couples who always came to the gym together, too.
As for kino, it depends on what she's doing. If she spends the whole time on aerobics machines, doesn't seem like there'd be much opportunity there. But if she's lifting, you can always spot her while she's doing it in a way that leads to kino.
atticusfinch1973 6y ago
Better idea - take her to the track and run some sprints/do calisthenics, etc. Private and afterwards it's easy to tell her to come to your place and shower off.
Peter_B_Long 6y ago
Meh it depends. It's a good opportunity for you to lead her and be confident in the dominant role because you know wtf you're doing (hopefully).
I took a girl who was into me to the gym. I'm not really into her so i didn't care about how it would play out. She would look at my arms when we were doing weights and then giggle so that was good. She was very submissive and did everything I told her to do and followed me everywhere. I was getting a lot of looks from guys so that was a little weird but I was also getting looks from other girls so that was cool. Only downside was that I did make us go through a hard workout of shoulders and legs (we finished with deadlifts) and it was like 100 degrees outside plus I was coming down from a cold so I did feel weak / shitty at the end of the workout so that didn't really help my frame.
GregorioTRP 6y ago
I actually took a girl on a "gym date" last week. Not worth it. Not in the slightest. She made it sound like she was seriously into lifting but once we got there it became clear that she was like 99% of all the other women who spend time in the gym; doing a bunch of useless bullshit with little to no weight and a severe fear of sweating. So while I was working my ass off she was jumping around to different random shit and talking to people. Barely interacted with her at all as I was focused on getting a good workout. Never again.
TrenGod37 6y ago
I mean everyone is saying it's a bad idea. I say do whatever you want. Why not try it out. After all this sub is about reclaiming your freedom and doing what You want to do when people tell you otherwise. Give it a try and you'll learn yourself whether it's a good idea or not.