This happened a while ago but I can't make heads or tails of what I could have done. I have a feeling this will happen more so I'd like to know what I could do next time.
I went to a seminar that ended up being a sham. This guy was trying to convince us to buy his elite package to learn how to increase sales for our small businesses. Disappointing and having driven a long way; mentality prepared to meet people; I decided I was going to try chatting up with people anyway. This one 20-something had been in the corner of my eye and so I moved my chair over to hers and sat down. I could tell she wasn't buying the sham either so we hit off with that topic. I spent the next few minutes learning what she did for a living, what she was hoping to learn from this, etc. I told her what my business did and I was here to make new connections. We were politely asked to leave so I told her we could go outside and talk more.
We walked, talked, and exchanged contact info. I met her up about 2-3 weeks later to see what my small business could do for her small business. Thinking we were being completely professional I dressed and prepared myself to be in business mode. She shows up in yoga pants and loose cut shirt. Since I'm still growing my small company I decided -not- to try and derail from the original agenda of selling my services. I really need the work. While she on the other hand was playful, nonchalant, and later blunt about not having any money at the moment to spend but was convinced.
It went fine and playful but I felt like there was a miscommunication of intent. I was purely interested in business. While I think I've pulled off the smoothest pickup routine in my career so far while at the same time cock blocking myself with it. When it was over she got up ahead of me, adjusted her yoga pants right in front of me and she had a great ass lemme tell you.
SO, I know some of you might say don't mix business with pleasure. However a lot of guys go to business conventions and get laid anyway. I feel like it won't matter as long as she wasn't a current client. And she had made it clear that she wasn't looking to do any business immediately. How could I have smoothly transitioned from formal sales to setting something up? When I'm on business-mode I can't see a clear way of being fluid with this sort of situation.
failingtheturingtest 6y ago
"I don't have any money to pay for your service, but I'm convinced I could use it" adjusts tight yoga pants.
Are you really so blind you can't read the subtext here? She's trying to use her sexuality to get resources from you.
awalt_cupcake 6y ago
She said she wasn't going to spend any money right now but would be interested again at a later time. Yall are really useless on this sub.
failingtheturingtest 6y ago
Oh, well, I stand corrected then. If she said, then you should definitely listen to her words instead of her actions.
Or is it because she's different than the others? She's totally not the type to flash a little tight arse to get what she wants.
Good luck chief, sounds like to found the one.
awalt_cupcake 6y ago
you're right I should marry her immediately. thank god for you.
[deleted] 6y ago
She sounds like a stupid cock tease. If she was interested she would have eaten your dick weeks ago. Delete block ghost
awalt_cupcake 6y ago
I've -never- had a girl be the first to initiate anything unless I was already fucking her. Again, this isn't about her but about the next woman I may have the opportunity to be in this scenario again. I do a lot of sales on my feet and meeting new people.
herroweric 6y ago
Just fuck her and move on. Yoga pants, low cut shirt, and admits to not having money? Easy
And block once its over.
awalt_cupcake 6y ago
That's not even remotely what this post was about.