With the several recent threads here about bachelorette parties and what really goes on at them, i I just have a question for anyone who has experience working at them whether you were a stripper, DJ, planner, whatever
How, if at all are any of the incidents of the bride and or bridesmaids doing sexual acts with a stripper ever caught on film?
I understand the girls giggling and guffawing in the moment makes them snap pictures of the bride in the backroom, and women go into this "feelz before realz" mode, but who the fuck could ever be so dumb as to film any of this shit or how could anyone else ever let it go on?
Also, why do the dancing bear videos look so realistic?? Surely they are just porn for entertainment? I'm embarrassed for posting this but fuck it, i have to ask.
[deleted] 6y ago
Honestly I've been to a couple of bachelorette parties and they generally suck. Lots of penis shaped paraphranelia and girl power drunkenness. I think a lot of the worry mainly comes from the other girls sitting there like fuck my friend won and I'm drinking and gonna find a man tonight! Woooo!
BPasFuck 6y ago
Sometimes someone in the wedding party just wants to fuck the bride over, and break up the marriage before it even starts.
Don't ever underestimate how two-faced women's friends can be.
blackedoutfast 6y ago
some of the women in the audience are paid professionals. they'll start giving the dancers blowjobs and all the other non-professional girls will see it and think "wow i guess it's ok to suck their dick. hmmm she's having fun and everyone is cheering her on, i bet i can give a better bj and get even more validation"
bsutansalt 6y ago
The pros are known to the "dancers" and often identified by jewelry or wrist band. Every once in a blue moon one of the background women will get caught up in what's going on and join in. 98% of what you see is staged.
2comment 6y ago
This can be said for much of life. If it feels like it was engineered to grab your attention, it likely was. Not sure why anyone like OP would think some random porn series is gonna have the highest integrity in its claims.
[deleted] 6y ago
Wrong venue. But it's the #1 thing that miffs me about the red pill.
Short of GLO, I can't know who actually lives like they claim to... even then.
I know everyone puts on somewhat of a front, but I'm not concerned about porn starts pretending bachelor parties are ogries. I'm worried that some of the guys I've gained the most value from here are keyboard warriors.
I mean, how high up the food chain do you have to go, before 100% of people lift?
Thizzlebot 6y ago
Yeah it's becoming a real problem and pretty easy to see through here.
Cunt_Robber 6y ago
Are bachelorette parties an American thing or what? I feel like whatever caused this custom goes against what either party really wants. I did have a friend who hired a stripper for his bachelor party, and did some crazy shit with her, if you get my drift, but Ive always wondered why. Is monogamy that bad that you have to celebrate your last single days by slutting it up? Smh. And those videos... It's all staged. People know whats going on. They wouldnt consent to be in it if they didnt know it would reach the mass audience. But even if it is real, with the seriousness of marriage today in western society, is it that surprising? Sluts gonna slut.
2comment 6y ago
They're only a thing relatively recently, sold as some type of equality with the previous rise in Bachelor/stag Parties.
Marriage, in general, in America is built up as a money making racket with a lot of dough spent on pageantry --- all the women in a social group wanting to one up each other's ceremonies. Easily 25k or more can be spent on that single day bullshit rather than helping the couple financially.
Bachelorette parties probably rose up the same way. Before that, they had hen parties, if anything.
blackedoutfast 6y ago
bachelorette parties weren't even a thing until like 20-30 years ago. before that the bride and bridesmaids might have had a little daytime lunch party type thing but not the wild nighttime bachelorette parties like happen now.
bachelor parties are a legit traditional part of the wedding that is much older. the idea was that the men would take the groom out for one last night of temptation as a test to see if he was truly ready to get married. get drunk go to a strip club etc. in theory (and maybe in fact in some cases) if the groom ended up fucking some random stripper they would call off the wedding. but mostly it was just relatively innocent bro time.
sometime in the '70s with the rise of 2nd wave feminism, the women started wanting to be like the men and have their own wild crazy bachelorette parties. and since women were involved these quickly spiraled into the crazy shit that happens today. there is huge difference between what is ordinarily acceptable when a female stripper is dancing for men versus when a male stripper is dancing for women.
Cunt_Robber 6y ago
Appreciate the eli5. Both modern marriage (with the tens of thousands of $$ wasted) and bachelor/ette parties sound like a huge waste. Everything has to be a celebration, a party. It's like those participation medals in grade school. I can actually understand why men would have bachelor parties with it being a test of commitment for the groom, but for the women it just sounds like an excuse to slut it up yet again. What degeneracy.
MrTyler_Durden 6y ago
It's usually not caught on film. Usually what happens is the bride will do something naughty the night before and word will get around. Who it gets around too, determines on wether or not the groom finds out. If a female from the grooms side finds out about the night before (which is likely with girl gossip) then that's usually how the stories get found out.
quicklogaccount 6y ago
Don't ever underestimate stupidity, not only female's, but male's as well. Mainly, always be attentive of your own.
It happened to a woman I met (not friends with though) and to a guy I exchanged some words with whenever I saw him in college (I heard his wife divorced him for it). Both videos spread quite fast in whatsapp.
dongpal 6y ago
the thread with the video was fake aka a real porn as someone in the comments proofed
[deleted] 6y ago
There are a bunch of real videos of women sucking stripper dicks. You can find them. It is very obviously a room of women that chose to be there and are not being paid and some of them suck the stripper off. So shit like that does happen. You can tell they are real from the camera quality and the vibe of the place. There is no way those women are such great actors. That being said, I've also seen staged ones, which are more common.