I feel I already know the answer to this, but as the title said, was doing the good ol' "shit, blindly swipe right" and eventually ended up matching with this chick who immediately sent me a message saying she wants to "kick it".
A lil bit of back and forth, she later says she'll bring an ID when I voiced skepticism about her actually being legal. I kinda get the vibe that she just wants me to smoke her up, but since i'm a dealer, having an extra pot head in the contact list is usually a good thing.
But...idk...obviously she can only ever be a plate, but the almost 10 year difference just seems a bit much to me. What do you guys think?
ryandiy 8y ago
Some girls prefer older men. Treat her like a bratty little sister and fuck her brains out. She probably can't get that from the boys her age.
Kommanderdude 8y ago
In the famous words of Eminem ( look at her bush. Do it got hair?).
Seriously op. If she has a valid id that says she's legal then Wreck that pussy.
That_Deaf_Guy 8y ago
sidenote, don't tell her you're a dealer.
Westernhagen 8y ago
My sister's first boyfriend when she was 17 or 18 was a pot dealer who was in his mid-20s (maybe not 27 but close). He rode a motorcycle and brought non-stop excitement to her life. There was a lesson there, but unfortunately I was too stupid to see it at the time...
Docbear64 8y ago
She's legal , if you're thinking of this she must be cute enough to fuck , What's the issue ? 18 year olds like weed and sex just as much as a fellow 27 year old + woman would.
SoloAlbum 8y ago
In highschool I knew 15 y/o girls who told guys they were fucking that they were 19, complete with fake IDs. A girl at my friend's church gave 17 y/o me her number saying she was 16. She was 13. All of them passable.
Tinder profiles don't hold up against statutory rape charges, last I checked.
BlackMarmoset 8y ago
Depends where he lives. For example in the country I am now, she must be 14+, or 16+ if you're an authoritarian figure for her. Despite that, it's socially acceptable to have sex with a 18+ girl.
I mean, as acceptable as older hoes accept you're going for a younger and hotter version of them.
Docbear64 8y ago
Well at that point I don't know what to say , if she has a fake ID and she tells him she's 18 and on Tinder fucking short of doing a background check I don't know how he'd otherwise know.
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she can also accuse him of rape if she wants to.
Men are supposedly defined by risk taking behaiour, toxic masculinity I think it's called.
My question, why do you not?
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Once you start taking risks, you have half a fucking clue where the line actually is.
Girls are afraid to approach men, THAT is a stupid risk line. A man in this case, is afraid to fuck a legal adult who wants to fuck him. While being a dealer in a life ending federal offense. Because he's worried 40 year old women will dislike him for it
Let that sink in
Utterberetacht 8y ago
Must’ve been those phthalates.
Atticus_Crowley 8y ago
Just...feels...creepy? Taking advantage of someone who doesn't think ahead?
MrTyler_Durden 8y ago
It feels creepy because society says it's creepy. But in reality, society is just jealous they can't pull skinny 18 yr olds like you at 27 years old. I get shit on all the time from my friends for dating "young" girls. It's all jealousy. She's 18. She's a grown ass woman and old enough to make her own decisions. You're fine.
Docbear64 8y ago
LOL That's your programming talking to you my friend . I get that you never were an 18 year old girl but let's think back to 18 year old you . If an older chick wanted to smoke you out and fuck you would you feel like she was " preying" on you or like you legitimately had the decision making skills to know that you wanted to have sex and get blown with her ?
We have this bizarre idea in our society that women deserve respect and are mature except for when it comes to sex for some reason . She should be empowered to explore her sexuality, we should empower her to go into and explore whatever career options ,but she couldn't possibly be old enough to realize if she wants to sit on your dick or not ...... clearly .
Does that actually make sense to you? Do you actually feel guilty about the idea of fucking an 18 year old or is that just how you think you're supposed to feel ? For what it's worth I am 27 and I have fucked 18 year olds ( A few who were in that barely legal territory) . When she moans " fuck me " into your ear any preconceived ideas you have about age discrepancies are out the window. She knows what she wants you don't have to give it to her but don't assume she doesn't know exactly what she's getting into with you.
Atticus_Crowley 8y ago
I....like the way you think.
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Just make sure she isn't some 16 year old kid lying about her age and you're good.
Also, at no stage in their lives do women actually think ahead. She is already as mature as she will ever be. She is just sexier now than she will be in 20 years, so go for it.
falecf4 8y ago
This, this is truth!
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
You can not fuck the hot 18 y.o. girl. All you have to do is admit that you like dick, and we'll let you off.
And yet you deal to potheads. /grin
My 21 y.o. OLTR1 was 19 when I fucked her for the first time. I was 47. If she's 18, she's down, and she passes the boner test, you should be all over that.
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So 47 does go into 19. I'll email my old math professors.
Fucked a 19 y/o at 39. 10/10, would recommend.
You know you've lived a wild life when 4 of the 5 40+ y/o's you fucked, you were a teenager......and then ended two virginities in your 30's (yep I've had a wild ride so far).
By the way, I don't say "taken" virginities, because they both knew exactly what they were doing.
Atticus_Crowley 8y ago
I'm picking her up in a couple of hours. Doc got my head out of my ass.
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Atticus_Crowley 8y ago
She flaked last second when I reminded her that I'm checking her ID lol
vonbehren 8y ago
How'd it go?
Atticus_Crowley 8y ago
She flaked last second when I reminded her I was gonna check her ID. Loose plans for later the week, but I'm cautious.
Tough_Luv 8y ago
Don't confirm, let her come to you. Silence means no plans. Try again after a cool off period, but ignore the past and move as is your pursuing for the first time again.
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I am not that into it.
Also I've hooked up with a few girls from the bar that were 18/19 but had fakes and I didn't know til later.
Then again once they're out of high school it's fine.
stro85 8y ago
I'm 32 and fuck 18 year olds. I don't care. Do whatever makes YOU happy.
[deleted] 8y ago
How is this accidental? You set the age range yourself.
Elfclan30 8y ago
oh boi
Atticus_Crowley 8y ago
The "accident" refers to the fact that I was blindly swiping right. Most girls that age range i swipe left on unless they are particularly cute or interesting.
GainzdalfTheWhey 8y ago
So? I'm 28 and 18yo are totally within my range
vandaalen 8y ago
I am 41, guess what...
1Pink1Stink 8y ago
He's not attacking him, he's calling him out for playing dumb.
GainzdalfTheWhey 8y ago
Oh yeah I meant to reply op, parent reply dude totally right
BusterVadge 8y ago
My LTR is 16 years younger than I am (I'm 43). Who cares? As long as she is legal and doesn't annoy the shit out of you.
Mudpielol 8y ago
If she's legal, and she does not seem crazy, go for it.
She can make her own decisions. You're not her dad or her brother.
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34 here, totally in my range
Auvergnat 8y ago
If she's legal, and you're both keen, there's no issues.
Tell her to show you 2 IDs 'cause she very likely has a fake to go out.
[deleted] 8y ago
Me thinks this is a mans 'consent form' that femenists want. lol
beachbbqlover 8y ago
Legal. Who cares.
vox_veritas 8y ago
Nothing says redpill like a pothead drug dealer ????
FrameWalker 8y ago
Dont act so shocked. This sub was subverted long ago and now works against men
Atticus_Crowley 8y ago
What's wrong with having an easy side hustle?
[deleted] 8y ago
Save the messages, especially the bit about her saying she'll bring an ID. Fuck, take a picture of the ID if you can. That could even be a power move in the right scenario.
sehns 8y ago
Agree with this 100%. Save that ID on your phone and go to town.
SexistFlyingPig 8y ago
So, you're asking what two consenting adults can do in private?
I'm confused here.
17 years, 364 days old: You're a fucking pedophile creep and should kill yourself.
18 years 0 days old: You go guy, way to score a young hot chick. Woo hoo.
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"Yeah boiii..."
edwardhwhite 8y ago
Hit that shit
Thizzlebot 8y ago
Age is just a number after 18. Who cares if you want to fuck 60 year olds or 18. Do whatever you want everyone else can fuckoff.
Entropy-7 8y ago
For one, I was well into my 30s and still dating teenagers. There is nothing to feel weird or guilty about. While there might be slight differences in behaviour between 18 and 28, it's nothing that you can't handwave.
I am an old goat with no experience in weed or Tinder, but don't get yourself wrapped around the axel.
JedYorks 8y ago
How do you do it?
Entropy-7 8y ago
Mind over matter: if you don't mind, it doesn't matter. Teenagers are still people - fucked up immature people but still people. Just go with it and run your game the same as with someone your own age. She may actually appreciate it.
JedYorks 8y ago
I like older women in their 30s and 40s and am 27. how to get them? is there a trick ?
Entropy-7 8y ago
That was never me but I would suggest being well read and not grabby-grabby. Keep in mind that this advice comes from a guy who was dating down by zero to 12 years when gaming 30s women (I have only dated one 40 year old, ever). Most are comfortable enough with the SMP to make the first move, so you don't have to, necessarily. I could go on but just chill and enjoy. They will give you an opening or you can make your approach. It's different than gaming 20-somethings; they will want to break your 3rd date rule, but don't put up with that shit.
JustOneMoreAcct 8y ago
I gotta ask...when dating under 21y/o's, what do you do? Since any venue alcohol related is out.
Entropy-7 8y ago
I'm Canadian so the cut off is 19 or 18 depending on the province. I'm from Toronto and we had various "all ages" events to go clubbing/dancing. If you are in upstate New York then take a weekend in Montreal where the age is 18 and the girls are hot.
If you have your own place then that is the gig. Bring her into your world.
mksu 8y ago
fuck her
WinstonMcFail 8y ago
Best answer lol
trpjnf 8y ago
I'd be wary, man. I'm 21, recently went on a date with an 18 year old HS senior. First time hanging out went well, she was really into me, but later she drunk texted me about how she almost died because she drove home drunk.
If you can vet her somehow and see that she's mature, go for it. Otherwise, be careful.
jb_trp 8y ago
Agreed. To add to this... I'm 33, and I've hooked up with a couple of girls who are 18-19 on Tinder. In the end they all had issues. After sex, one told me she had sex with her adult brother-in-law when she was 13 years old. And that she was hooking up with men who are in their 30s and 40s. There's often a reason very young girls act out like this.
Personally, at this point in my life, 24 years old it the cut off for me. I like them out of college and doing something with their lives. I also find girls who are 22 years old and younger to be typically way flakier.
MuhTriggersGuise 8y ago
I agree. I have no moral problem with OP (or myself) hooking up with an 18 year old. It's just the mental maturity and potential for drama that makes me pass. It's not a hard number, but my cutoff is about 27. I'm not even sure if it's a maturity thing alone, or also a generational thing.
jb_trp 8y ago
I just find most women I'm into are actually "grown ups." Both men and women take a lot more time to grow up these days, and people in their very early 20s and late teens still seem like high schools (often because they are!).
I find women in their mid 20s who take care of themselves and have a career make for both better LTRs and plates. They usually aren't as hung up on sex like some younger girls seem to be, and don't flake, and are just more intelligent in general (if you pick the right ones). But to each his own.
G4RRETT 8y ago
She's 18... in most countries she's been legal for years. In some states even she's been legal for over a year. Don't feel shame because of our arbitrarily set magical age when it's perfectly legal. FHRITP
DadOnDabs 8y ago
I know you probably won't listen and this doesn't have to do with your initial post but quit dealing dude. It's not worth it when you get caught. Been there and done that. Jail isn't fun and neither is court or getting expelled from university. Quit while you're ahead because you won't see it coming.
Atticus_Crowley 8y ago
I'm pretty small time. Only have 1 zone at a time usually. Almost all of my clients are old high school buddies and co workers. Plus ya know...im an upstanding white guy with zero priors. If I do get pinched, can probably plea something decent. It's probably gonna get legalized in my state in the next year or two anyways.
DadOnDabs 8y ago
I was in the same position you are. It's great until you are lying on a jail floor. Thought I was untouchable but that changed quick.
TRPTosser 8y ago
27 / 2 = 13
13 + 7 = 20
A bit young, but you're in the right range.
[deleted] 8y ago
I was 40 and fucking an 18 year old.
You need to not give a fuck what anyone thinks and get what you want out of life.
I laugh at people that give me shit for it. They admit they wish that they could too.
marianasentmenudes 8y ago
you think that's insane? I once met an insane bitch who told me she lost her virginity at the age of 13 to a 28 year old.
The_Lightskin_Wonder 8y ago
Ive never shared any green with a women without getting something in return. When it comes to weed though it better happen that same night.
Its not that weed is a higher commodity than money, its just women are more likely to try that slick shit with something you may not mind replacing.
UEMcGill 8y ago
Ass cash or grass, no one rides for free.
[deleted] 8y ago
What is it you're scared of... Women in society getting mad at you?
So brave