Hi guys! 29yo here with so many questions about the red pill. The situation is the following, I am in a group of singers and there is this chick, probably a 9, very smart with whom I have started interacting a couple of months ago. She has a boyfriend that is completely Beta (advocates feminism and sews, yeah he sews for her).I have engaged with her in deep conversation but she is a dominant and sometimes responds to my texts and sometimes she doesn’t, like she doesn’t need another man in his life. I know she likes attention but consciously or subconsciously she wants me to invest in her, so she doesn’t care if I talk to her or not
Question 1. (For the broader public) How do you go and establish that you are alpha and better than any man she is currently with? DHV for that matter
Question 2. If her current boyfriend already provisions for her, what happens if I show dominance? She is already accustomed to dominate men
Glowv2 6y ago
You"re that insecure , you wanna prove to someone that you are more alpha than someone Else ? Thats the most beta Thing ive ever heard
johncillo 6y ago
No no, it is not to prove to her, it is the room for action that I can create with her is really narrow, so I need something direct to create a wider space, as I said she is really evasive
Glowv2 6y ago
First off , you dont want a dominant girl. Second , She has a bfriend, so all you have to do is stand back , and act indifferent
johncillo 6y ago
I agree with your advice but the dominants want to be submitted it is just that they have high-end shit test, if I get to impose my frame to her she will become one of my plates
mrHappyPotatoe 6y ago
Bluepills only have the need to prove women that they are better than their current bf.
Your mind is full of unnessesary shit.
[deleted] 6y ago
Bro you're a goddamn man, men singing and pretending to be alpha is contradictory. Don't point to outliers like Marvin Gaye. You're not him.
Anyway, to get to my point...
IF SHE HAD ANY INTEREST IN FUCKING YOU, YOU'D NEVER KNOW ABOUT HER FUCKING BOYFRIEND. SIMPLE AS THAT. SHE CHOSE HIM, IF SHE WANTED YOU, HE'D MAGICALLY DISAPPEAR.
we_have_the_best_red 6y ago
I believe the sidebar of askTRP has a blurb about not asking “so there’s this one girl that I realllly want” kind of questions.
If you’re super concerned with not being “beta”, I’d stop targeting this one girl. Go meet 10 girls this Saturday evening so you have options. That’ll get her pussy 10x wetter than any texting or interaction tactics.
DeepRedTomato 6y ago
Read the sidebar.