I broke up with her after she wanted to still be friends with a guy who tried hooking up with her. I'm feeling I just don't bother with her, but deep inside there's still a part of me that wants to know what she wants. Thoughts?
Edit: thanks for all the replies guys! I've decided to just ghost her and not even give her more time of day. Now back to the gym!
mrpthrowa 6y ago
ghost. I promise you nothing good will come of this. the sole reason she's contacting is to get some validation and she'll act all disrespectful again once she gets a whif of that
fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- 6y ago
She fucked him. Before. After. Now he’s ditched her. She’s ready for you again.
OscarBars 6y ago
Exactly this. Keep up the no contact you dropped her for a reason.
DiscordantMonk 6y ago
Don't plate. Don't text. This post screams oneitis.
smirk_addict 6y ago
How does it scream oneitis? He blocked the girls number.
RedPilledRoaster 6y ago
He's still curious and thinking about her, that's how
DiscordantMonk 6y ago
After doing so, deep down inside he wants to know what she wants. It's validation OP. Crush that shit like an ugly spider.
Luckylancer96 6y ago
His logic blocked she but his hamster came here to hear a "give it a shot".
smirk_addict 6y ago
Good point.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
Who cares wh at she wants? What matters is what you want. I want you to send me $4000 via PayPal, is that what YOU want? I would assume no. Exactly! But what you shoupd want is to move on from a bitch who thought she could play with you. Tell your friend to delete and block her number.
Move on with your life my guy.
[deleted] 6y ago
Leave it the fuck alone.
Don't go digging in the trash.
beginner_ 6y ago
It will be messy, your neighbors will see it and you will actually figure out whatever you were searching for wasn't as valuable to be worth the trouble.
But sometimes one can only understand this completely and be free of regret if you have personally made the mistake.
meaningintragedy 6y ago
You know what to do.
[deleted] 6y ago
don't do anything. If she texts you take it from there, move on with your mission.
cudder17 6y ago
I blocked her so she wouldn't be able to text me anyways.
Nergaal 6y ago
Lol, as if it's impossible to use a friend's phone to make phone calls.
[deleted] 6y ago
Well then wtf you on about. Abundance mentality dictates you dont care about this one who dropped below your expectations
[deleted] 6y ago
Well obviously he's in scarcity since he's making this post
bumbuff 6y ago
Next
SorcererKing 6y ago
Based on your edit it seems like you've done the right thing. Nevertheless, read this.
BusterVadge 6y ago
You know what to do. Don't let pussified thoughts take over logic.
SirKolbath 6y ago
If she contacts you, probably using an app or alternate phone because you have her own number blocked, screenshot everything, including you telling her to leave you alone. If she continues to do so, contact law enforcement and provide the documentation as evidence for a restraining order.
Pluglord 6y ago
Lmfao
RPAlternate42 6y ago
Sometimes I see my dog looking at me and it's absolutely clear that he sees me as the leader of the house: head lowered slightly, ears relaxed, tail wagging like a dough mixer.
I have another dog. He's retarded. He barely knows his name, and thinks he's 4 times his actual size.
I think you know where I'm going with this...
So I was sitting there, looking at my dog and the little retarded dog next to him. The retard looks like he just met a new person and he looks back and forth at me and my other dog.
Anyway, this little retard dog smells like cat shit because, well, he eat's cat shit from time to time. So I have this well-behaved, loyal dog, and this shit-eating retard next to him.
I stood up and immediately both dogs stand up. When I look directly at my smart dog's eyes, he sits back down; he knows that if I walk away, he's excused but when I stay, he needs to stay. The little shit-eating retard start jumping over his more intelligent counterpart: humping his leg, nipping at his neck and ears, growling, and generally being a little shit-eating retard. My smart dog just ignores him until I tell him to, "get him!"
Then they fight in the backyard. The smart dog has no problem playing with the little retard because it's better than his imaginary friends and the cat.
See, you probably think you're the smart dog in this. But you're not... because you're not a fucking dog. You're a person. I'm talking about two dogs, you read it imagining yourself in this fantastical word of anthropomorphic dogs.
Now you see where I'm going with this.
No. You don't. Stop digging through the trash; that girl added no value to your life then, and why would anything change. It's still trash, in the bottom of a pool, filled with trash. Like trash.
Do better.
Pluglord 6y ago
what the fuck did i just read
ishyman 6y ago
Plate her
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
Wrong. That would make him a spineless cuck
cudder17 6y ago
Wouldn't that be giving her validation tho?
htbf 6y ago
And?
cudder17 6y ago
Why would I give her the benefit of feeling validated when she was in the wrong and disrespected me before I broke up with her?
RedPilledRoaster 6y ago
Don't be a sperg
smirk_addict 6y ago
You shouldn’t have even wasted your time replying to that.
cudder17 6y ago
glad i'm not going crazy
khorvo29 6y ago
Fuck plating her. A girl who disrespects you like that will and can do so much worse. Why give time and attention to her just for sex? Go plate some high quality girl who are worth it.
cudder17 6y ago
I agree, but man does inviting her over just to hate fuck her then immediately kicking her out sound great.
khorvo29 6y ago
Imo, giving her any attention at all is already too much.
htbf 6y ago
Why are you spending any time thinking about her feelings?
Live free man. Do what you want. If you're ready to lose her, you're capable of enjoying whatever she has to give.
cudder17 6y ago
hmm never thought about it like that
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
She has nothing to give that he can't get elsewhere. She doesn't even deserve to breath the air he exhales.
htbf 6y ago
No girl has nothing to give that you can't get elsewhere genius. Fuck off.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
No you fuck off, idiot. You're telling him he can plate. I'm telling him it's a waste of time and a lack of self respect.
htbf 6y ago
You can't give a single reason as to why it's a waste of time. You are just spotting venom you snek.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
Because the bitch is disrespectful and tried to play OP for a cuck. You don't give people like that time or attention. If you get fucked over real hard by a business partner, are u still gonna be cool with them and eat together for fun? No u cuck. You need to have a spine and some fucking pride. We're not dogs.