What would be the best way to go about doing it? Is tinder an option provided you live in LA or NYC?
And how can I best frame myself in such a scenario? To be honest, I'm pretty young (23) and I've never fucked an older chick, and I really want to. I'm not looking for a relationship, I just want some hot older broad in an informal fwb Situation. Any advice trp?
AFPJ 8y ago
If you're hot enough for Tinder, you can slay far better in person.
The best way you can frame yourself in any scenario: as yourself.
Same shit as always: lift, take care of yourself, don't be a bitch.
[deleted] 8y ago
You don't really do anything different. If they weren't hanging around places younger people go they wouldn't be cougars. That's their whole thing.
Although for the sake of argument I suppose bars that are not the top trendy ones but kind of a tier below that are your best bet.
Or just go to Scottsdale.
RedSkeller 8y ago
Tinder is always on option. You can get cougars in training or Pumas 30 - 35 on tinder no problem. Just be straight forward and set up a date, you'll be surprised at how easy it is. In the real world, any compliment to an older woman in a bar setting is simple, chances are they game themselves. Just remember to agree and amplify and you're golden. MILFs and cougars know the game and have no shame in banging out.
[deleted] 8y ago
What are some good openers for Pumas and cougars on tinder?
Also what percentage of them are beasts vs legit hot? Again, talking NYC and LA here.
RedSkeller 8y ago
Can't help you with specifics about NYC and LA, but as people get older - bad habits catch up with you. Chicks that lived hard and never took care of themselves will look like shit when they are older. I'm sure LA/NYC has the same type of crazy in shape cougars and they're likely head cases but they'll hunt younger men that are Chads. Straight up ask them out over tinder, don't even bother exchanging pleasantries. 'Let's do drinks tomorrow'.
[deleted] 8y ago
How many are down just to fuck? I'm not looking for some dinner date, I just want to hook up with a really hot cougar/puma. I'm tired of college girls.
atticusfinch1973 8y ago
Every city has a bar or bars that cater to an older crowd. Dress a bit more appropriate for those places and head over and sit at the bar. Likely most women will spot you when you come in and if you're friendly and having fun meeting people it's almost guaranteed you'll meet an older woman who wants to get laid.
Tinder is also an option but the women would have to have your age in their range in order to see you, which is unlikely for women in their 40's.