Hello redpill. I've had a couple of girls tell me about other guys who are trying to get with them.
Example "there's this guy at work who comes to flirt with me all the time. It's so annoying. He even has a wife but hits on me anyway... blah blah blah"
Why do they do this sort of thing? What is a good response?
[deleted] 9y ago
It's a shit test to see how you react. Say something like 'is he hot? You should go for it'
mr_nate_ 9y ago
Also it's humble bragging to prove her perceived "self worth" to you.
[deleted] 9y ago
Yeah I told this to a girl and she started legitimately bawling and saying she wanted to be with me. It's a major shit test. Abundance mentality will never steer you wrong.
[deleted] 9y ago
My favorite: do you think he'll spend 200$ for a night with you? Proceed to call her a prostitute
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thatblondeguy_ 9y ago
Yeah I think my girl was trying to show off. She told me she has multiple guys who want to meet her (multiple orbiters who want to fuck her). I told her when I'm free for a date and she seemed happy
abdada 9y ago
They're bringing this up in person, face to face?
Gawernator 9y ago
I remember a post similar to this one on TRP a couple weeks ago... but somehow it was spun into a positive...
thatblondeguy_ 9y ago
Over the phone. Does that change the way you should approach it?
[deleted] 9y ago
Why are you on the phone gossiping with a girl? Are you 14?
[deleted] 9y ago
why approach it at all? Wheres the value in your response (for you)
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thatblondeguy_ 9y ago
Thank you man that's quite helpful
abdada 9y ago
Hey look, another friendZoned emotional tampon on Reddit TRP who refuses to use texting strictly for logistics.
Read more. You're not close to TRP behavior.
midlifedick 9y ago
What's a less enthusiastic version of LOL? Cuz I just kind of chuckled.
[deleted] 9y ago
ugh I know right? Damn these men being interested in the lives of their women! Jesus Christ OP if you so much as give her the hint that you like hearing her talk or you enjoy having a text conversation(it's 2016 why aren't all your text's literally "XYZ at Z pm"), she will instantly lose attraction and cheat on you with the nearest chad she can find. AWALT™ if I were you I'd just
stonenext her and find 5 women who just want to have sex with you and wouldn't give a shit if you died tomorrow.[deleted] 9y ago
Your post history stinks of coming here and trolling. People who understand TRP don't just read the angry posters or the theory posts. They are informative, but there's a balance that must be struck, and further, individuals have their own style.
If you don't want a committed relationship from a girl, and she decides she does, yes, you next her. It's only fair. Nobody is saying you need to ever lie to her, in fact most would say do not lie, be up front with your intentions (i.e. casual sex, casual dating, non commitment in general). Oddly enough, saying those things up front increases success in general for most guys; it's because of what it signals to the girl about you. You aren't mate guarding, you are secure, you're probably able to get some more pussy that isn't hers, or why else would you be okay with no commitment?
Should you decide to be committed by all means, give something back. The reason you are supposed to not go all out in giving what youve got to her is it signals all the wrong things. If you have any female friends that you don't ever plan on banging, ask them to describe a guy who was "creepy". Just watch, it'll be the guy who tries his hardest to be the perfect boyfriend and please her every wish. I literally just heard an example of this happening today from my own sister. The poor sap was a total bitch and now she doesn't want him around despite her saying he has model looks.
What I'm getting at is either 1) you're a kid trolling, 2) you don't actually understand TRP, 3) you're a woman, and you think this is misogynistic or 4) you truly think being a woman's servant gets them wet.
I suspect #2, possibly #4. You can implement pieces of theory while handling comfort tests properly in a relationship. If you don't know what a comfort test is (which I suspect by your comment that seems to suggest you believe that TRP says men aren't supposed to care about women), then go read.
loin_fruit 9y ago
I love telling them "oh yeah dude I think they're into you too, you should get it girl ;)" It's not what they expect at all.
yGTWgtNrco 9y ago
I'd just ignore it. My guiding principle being, what is what she's telling me have to do with me? If nothing, I change the topic of conversation.