Wasn't quite sure how to word title, my apologies.
I finally have gotten back into the sack(ish) after a 6-month hiatus while I figured out what I'm worth to myself.
We messed around doing everything except insertion/sex after I expressed I had drunk too much along with Cocaine use from both of us. She never changed tempo and we had fun.
My phone is broken and I pick it up Wednesday from the shop - thus I've played a distance card with little communication except to subtly get her admission of consent. I'm 90% confident she'll be my first plate (read: consistent) post-TRP but I'm struggling with suppressing the overwhelming desire to get her back in bed again asap. I haven't (I think) screwed this up for myself yet so:
What do I do now and into the future to handle this desire to rush into sex again?
lionofthejungle 8y ago
What are you rambling on about??? Just fuck her.
She's not LTR material on a count of her doing coke. While we're on the subject of coke, get off that shit.
Zagiggity 8y ago
No intention or desire to LTR her, that much about her is obvious. As for the other, it was a lapse in judgement.
I'm rambling about the nagging desire to text or call her all hours of the day. I'm not doing it because I know better but the desire doesn't leave.
Smigg_e 8y ago
Wut
lionofthejungle 8y ago
So then text her to meet up, and if she doesn't bite, wtf cares?
Zagiggity 8y ago
Also, anyone ever had HBs/plates express big difference in bitchiness before/after sex?
machimus 8y ago
Totally. They're way less bitchy after.
Zagiggity 8y ago
This one was the exact opposite. She flipped between bouncy & cute to largely unresponsive. Granted this was the next day.
bicepsblastingstud 8y ago
Because you didn't have sex.
machimus 8y ago
This is a pretty important detail to the before/after sex thing, OP.
oldredder 8y ago
distract yourself with anything else but your emotions.
The desire to rush into sex is not beta. The desire to supplicate so the woman's in charge is beta.
rpdarkydark 8y ago
One distraction could be working on that next plate. Of course you'll obsess over your blow girl if she's your only current option, get more options whilst holding your frame with BG.