Stop watching porn, and stop masturbation. The benefits of /r/NoFap are hotly debated on TRP. It's very much akin to alcohol: some people have a problem with it and some don't, and the level of problem seems to vary with the individual.
Make an honest try of it, and experiment to see how much you can tolerate.
It's been known to have negative affects on real sex, 1: it can create unrealistic expectations of what sex with a partner should be like, 2: it can cause you to either not cum or not be aroused by normal/vanilla sex because of those expectations.
There is a slew of other factors, I personally hold the everything in moderation mantra. Though I follow it less than I should. Try switching it up and also using only pictures once in awhile, even just imagination sometimes.
I think the unrealistic expectations is the biggest part. & masturbating to it only reinforces those expectations. Unless you're watching certain amateur videos i suppose.
I think it leads to a tendency pedestalize, induces more social anxiety, and less motivation to go out and approach.
If you can't go a week to ten days without, you're probably using it too much. Its good to to take a month (even up to 90 days) off to "reset" you brain. After that, keep it to once a week at most, and when you do, focus on thinking about women that you haven't had sex with yet, but want to.
I'm finishing a roids cycle and I fap every day watching porn. This weekend I scored an hb 9.
Guess what hapenned? ED ! I will try a hard reset with tribulus, Post Cycle Therapy, no fap and no porn during 1 month. OFC I already bought a 100 mg viagra and its hidden in my wallet.
I'm currently running test, tren and mast. I jerk off multiple times a day and can still go multiple rounds with my plates. I literally never stop being horny, ever.
I only get erection issues on high doses of deca. I recently ran a gram, with 1 gram of test as well. Towards the end I suffered for months. Fuck deca.
But I also keep blue pills on hand... you never know.
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bestCallEver 9y ago
Well fucking said my man
AmazonExplorer 9y ago
Technically then, wouldn't reading erotica fix that?
ToTheT0p 9y ago
All this is very true!
_ManGuy_ 9y ago
How do I recover from this?
[deleted] 9y ago
Stop watching it.
[deleted] 9y ago
Stop watching porn, and stop masturbation. The benefits of /r/NoFap are hotly debated on TRP. It's very much akin to alcohol: some people have a problem with it and some don't, and the level of problem seems to vary with the individual.
Make an honest try of it, and experiment to see how much you can tolerate.
ioncehadsexinapool 9y ago
I'd say don't worry as much about fapping and just stop the porn.
[deleted] 9y ago
It's funny, browsing porn without masturbation is fine for me. Different people are different. OP should figure out what he needs.
MyLittleAtomBomb 9y ago
All pornography is shot from the pov of a cuckold.
Think about that shit.
the_Milkweed 9y ago
It's been known to have negative affects on real sex, 1: it can create unrealistic expectations of what sex with a partner should be like, 2: it can cause you to either not cum or not be aroused by normal/vanilla sex because of those expectations.
There is a slew of other factors, I personally hold the everything in moderation mantra. Though I follow it less than I should. Try switching it up and also using only pictures once in awhile, even just imagination sometimes.
ohmygodpause 9y ago
I think the unrealistic expectations is the biggest part. & masturbating to it only reinforces those expectations. Unless you're watching certain amateur videos i suppose.
[deleted] 9y ago
...;)
[deleted] 9y ago
Top kek, I wonder if the countless women to whom this applies watched too many porn. :D
the_Milkweed 9y ago
Circumstantial, I've fucked a lot of starfish that scream like banshees
SureImShore 9y ago
I think it leads to a tendency pedestalize, induces more social anxiety, and less motivation to go out and approach.
If you can't go a week to ten days without, you're probably using it too much. Its good to to take a month (even up to 90 days) off to "reset" you brain. After that, keep it to once a week at most, and when you do, focus on thinking about women that you haven't had sex with yet, but want to.
OmLaLa 9y ago
Read "The Power of Horny" Parts 1-3 on TRP by some narcissistic asshole named OmLaLa.
Izzenw 9y ago
I'm finishing a roids cycle and I fap every day watching porn. This weekend I scored an hb 9.
Guess what hapenned? ED ! I will try a hard reset with tribulus, Post Cycle Therapy, no fap and no porn during 1 month. OFC I already bought a 100 mg viagra and its hidden in my wallet.
Just in case.
SadGenius 9y ago
what the fuck
BeyondDedication 9y ago
I'm currently running test, tren and mast. I jerk off multiple times a day and can still go multiple rounds with my plates. I literally never stop being horny, ever.
I only get erection issues on high doses of deca. I recently ran a gram, with 1 gram of test as well. Towards the end I suffered for months. Fuck deca.
But I also keep blue pills on hand... you never know.
killsyou123 9y ago
Masturbation without porn? Any negative effects?
[deleted] 9y ago
For me personally, absolutely. It saps my motivation and saps my desire to bang women.
killsyou123 9y ago
Yeah I was looking for anything similar to watching with porn. But I yeah I definitely agree about the sapping of motivation.
epistemic_humility 9y ago
Watch this buddy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
TED talks ftw