I've been seeing this girl for 5 months. The day before this happened she said her family was coming over and that I should meet them. She calls her grandma and her mom and tells them that I will be there at 12pm.
I get there at 12pm and meet her mom's husband. While we're standing outside, she comes out. We're standing there and she introduces us not knowing that we already met. She says that I'm a guy "who randomly decided to show up." I say, "Did you not tell me to come at 12pm the night before?" "Yeah but I haven't spoken to you since then. Also I can't have you up there because it's messy. And it's because I need some time with family first, y'know?" "...Do you want me to leave?" "Can you just go get a coffee or something?"
As she's coming inside she motions me to my car as if I am some fucking dog.
I walk to my car and drive off. She doesn't call me back.
Everything was cool the night before. What the fuck happened?
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home_is_the_rover 8y ago
Yeah, dude got completely out-alpha'd and can't handle it. This is what keeps me coming back to the TRP subs, haha.
ilikesquash2 8y ago
Seeing this tells me you dont know much about TRP! and how is it the top comment? So No this is not how TRP tells people to treat other people. NO where on here would it say to invite a girl over then when she does come over immediately ask her to leave. So your ideas about TRP are misguided. Please take time to read about a sub from its sidebar before you ridicule it.
ShounenEgo 8y ago
If you see his history you'll realize that your assumption is right. He and the person who responded to him came to attack their strawman, grab some circlejerking karma and call it a day.
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
Hard next or downgrade to pure plate fucktoy status. I'd honestly drive straight to my place and box up her shit if I was ever treated like that.
mrrooftops 8y ago
This is probably one of the hardest nexts I've seen on here for a long time.
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opalorchid 8y ago
I'm pretty sure OP is the fucktoy here ????
Beta little bitch
EdenBlade47 8y ago
Seems like OP got redpilled and is losing his shit over it. The irony and lack of awareness in this comments section is fan-fucking-tastic.
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Hairbrainer 8y ago
I can't remember when, but I've seen a vague tip like that before.
[deleted] 8y ago
Yeah it seems like op got nuke shit tested. Or her family indoctrinated her in some way, there are so many variables.
cannibaloxfords 8y ago
It would be over right then and there if i ever went through something like that. Some chick I was chillin with once called me out in front of her whole family and I noped the fuck out. She begged for me to take her back by offering much more head than ever before, so I rolled with it, but also started cheating and already had mentally detached. This was pre TRP days when I was already following some of the rules without knowing it.
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
I'd say the basic pre-TRP rules I'd follow were simply is the pussy worth [action she did that pissed me off]. Other than explain how the fuck women really work, TRP simply taught me to tolerate a whole lot fucking less.
cannibaloxfords 8y ago
Cosign. Abundance mentality and detachment from idealism has been my salvation
reigorius 8y ago
Detachment from idealism. That rings very true.
0io- 8y ago
Honestly, if it were me, I would listen to her story first. Maybe there is some crazy family stuff going on.
For example, maybe Grandpa is there and he's drunk and on some kind of crazy rant about Christianity and everybody who is not a member of the Church of XYZ is going straight to Hell. And Mom is crying and saying that she can promise that your gf is a member of the Church of XYZ and that she has never gone on a date with anyone, let alone anyone who is not from the Church of XYZ...
Basically it's bullshit, but if somebody tells me "hey, disappear for an hour, I can't talk now, you don't know me" I will be cool and then find out later WTF it was all about.
Maybe her big brother is there and high on crack and waving a gun around or something saying he is going to kill anybody who touches his little sister.
Maybe they have a giant surprise party but the stripper who jumps out of the cake hasn't arrived yet. Probably not, but at least find out what the story is before you insta-Next her.
slickdevil1 8y ago
Dump her.
3rt41 8y ago
Run, do not look back.
Umop3psidn 8y ago
I'm just not sure why many of the responses are so emotionally charged.
through_a_ways 8y ago
eternal september
SkorchZang 8y ago
What the fuck is she smoking, dude? I would be royally pissed, that's the kind of thing where you never hear from me again after doing it.
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
I think I'd quietly get in my car as I was told, go to my place, box up any of her shit, then drive back and leave it on her doorstep.
Oftowerbroleaning 8y ago
I wouldn't even bother driving back. That shit would go in the garbage. Unless it's something salvageable I'd just give it to another plate.
cuntdestroyer8000 8y ago
Thrifty.
vaelamin 8y ago
Sell it on ebay thats what ive done
MelodyMyst 8y ago
I think it should be taken back and dropped off, just so the family can see it and know the truth.
MightyTaint 8y ago
Why? If you're done you're done. Women just love this back and forth shit. Don't play games, just be done and out like a man.
reigorius 8y ago
Gha, her parents don't care and it's a weak sauce attempt of striking back. Dump her and her stuff. This warrants a rock hard next. Simple text, this is not working and no contact. Disrespecting a man in front of a crowd? Fucking bitch.
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
Then you run the risk of crazy coming around demanding her stuff back (even if it's stuff you bought her), dragging out the drama far longer than it should. Remember, this hamster knows where you live.
It's best to simply dump her shit in a box on her doorstep and be done with it that very day. At the very least mail it to her.
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AEther_Flux 8y ago
They want a reaction so they have something on you. No reaction = they didn't mean anything to you, they can't handle that.
GuidoBandito 8y ago
Had one ex that couldn't tolerate it when i had no reaction to her shit testing the fuck out of me by telling me all these other guys wanted her. Finally, I just said "good luck" and ended contact. Hamster went nuclear. Held frame and said nothing. Finally abated after a few weeks of not getting anything from me. A month later she's engaged to a very obvious betabux. Go figure.
AEther_Flux 8y ago
I had an ex from my beta bitch days ask me on multiple occasions to fuck her, contacting me through facebook and reddit. This was all after I went no contact. I told her no and moved on, now she tells old mutual friends how I was "So terrible" to her. They see through her ruse and have since stopped talking to her. The less you say, the more people will see the truth with hamsters gone wild.
PROVERBIALLEMONADE 8y ago
Funny. Looks like you made a bad choice in a partner. Simple.
[deleted] 8y ago
Radio silence and don't make contact. Then be an asshole to her. She's only a fucktoy from this point forward. Fuck her then get dressed immediately afterwards. No cuddling just leave.
That behavior of hers was shitty and must not be tolerated.
Have some self respect.
reigorius 8y ago
Preferably glaze her stupid face. Aim for the eye.
CuntyMcFagNuts69 8y ago
Fuck outta there mate.
stolidfact 8y ago
No contact. No excuse for that.
[deleted] 8y ago
She probably had another boytoy there whom she introduced as her "boyfriend."
trpdgc 8y ago
It's too late to embarrass her in front of her family, so hard next is the only way. I wouldn't even accept an apology here, unless she made it in some grandiose manner like doing some huge sacrifice or taking you out to a game or a super nice dinner.
cmkinusn 8y ago
If you are wondering why you got down voted, it is because apologies don't mean jack shit after an action like that. She just showed her true opinion of him and where he stands in her life, how will an apology, even ones like the type you mentioned, change that?
Maybe she could apologize if he gave her the chance, but she would only do it for closure on her part and why exactly should he give her the opportunity?
IVIaskerade 8y ago
If you've banged her in the ass (it's been 5 months, you really have no excuse), there's always the possibility of using the nuclear option and telling her parents. That's always fun.
cmkinusn 8y ago
That's not nuclear, that's petty or possibly even "nice guy" territory.
opalorchid 8y ago
"I'm going to tell your mommy!" ???? what are you, five? Have your balls even dropped yet?
F_Dingo 8y ago
Don't ever talk to her again, the level of disrespect is unreal.
bigskymind 8y ago
Yeah, she managed to out-red-pill him. AMOG'd, sorry buddy
Mildly_Sociopathic 8y ago
"Correction, I'm the guy who randomly decided to leave"
Don't tolerate disrespect.
trpdgc 8y ago
Best suggestion fucking ever.
Unfortunately if she introduced him this way she had no plans of ever seeing him again. She wasn't even trying to avoid a scene.
[deleted] 8y ago
Nah, that and leaving is the best course of action
opalorchid 8y ago
...is it random if she told him to leave? Or just doing as he's instructed?
Mildly_Sociopathic 8y ago
Depends on when you do it.
niczar 8y ago
Go no contact. If she manages to get ahold of you anyway, just say "look I'm in hurry, I'll call you later to explain everything" and never call back.
drlothariothuggut 8y ago
Everyone here is right, she is rude as fuck. Stop taking to her and if she does contact you, just use as a fuck toy and be a dick to her, fuck that shit
mr_nate_ 8y ago
Like everyone else is saying, this girl is on some crazy ass drugs if she thinks she can just pull you around by a leash like that. You need to downgrade her, because she obviously doesn't respect your time or your reputation in general. No contact unless she contacts you, and even then... YOU have to decide what she is from there on out. Have a spine though, put her in her place.
Punishment Thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2w2ine/longterm_relationship_game_theory_a_beginners/
lavitze 8y ago
Cut that bitch off and move on to the next one.
AlphaStud 8y ago
I think the way you reacted to her comment sort of validated the ideal she had in her mind that you shouldn't be there.
But, either way, thats disrespectful of her, and unforgivable. She obviously doesn't respect you. I would go dark on her.
kempff 8y ago
She is a miserable host who manages party dynamics with the panache of a six year old presiding over a stuffed animal tea party.
Have nothing more to do with her. I guarantee this will not be the only time she pulls this sort of thing on you.
If it helps you see the reality of what was just done to you, consider the degree of disrespect she showed you in doing this, and ask yourself if you're okay with being treated that way.
MightyTaint 8y ago
Never talk to that bitch again. Do not fuck her again like half the posters are suggesting. You should have too much self respect for that shit. If you want to get laid, fuck someone else.
ironblacksmith 8y ago
Have some self respect and never speak to that bitch again.
[deleted] 8y ago
Who cares? I would stop talking to somebody after that.
stillnoturday 8y ago
Shes not your LTR and if you are smart never will be again. Put her on plate start enjoying other women right now!
Syn3rgetic 8y ago
I don't even understand what happened other than the fact that she said something to you and expected the complete opposite. Not even a woman thing, this is just retarded on a whole other scale. Hard next. Whether its a girl or not, that's incredibly rude and insane.
Thizzlebot 8y ago
Soft next that's rude as fuck, this isn't going to get better.
Shaigan 8y ago
I'd say hard next. Major disrespect
SW9876 8y ago
Completely agree. This is unacceptable behavior.
COLIE53 8y ago
She lost her fucking mind. Go get some plates, this bitch aint shit.
MrGoodStuff05 8y ago
Dread game her.
bigskymind 8y ago
She beat him to it - he went scurrying off to reddit, hamsters running at warp speed.