foreword: i think the answer to my question might be on the rooshvforum but for some reason my IP is banned (i live in a dorm) http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-33854.html
here's what happened
i banged this broad a few times and then stopped seeing her today 2 months later we bang again, lots of LMR but once she's in bed and comfortable she can't wait to be naked. going hard as fuck, she's grabbing on to me and kissing, suddenly I notice she has tears going down her face... stop pumping and calmly ask her if she's alright, she says "yes, it just happens sometimes" (it never happened the previous times we had sex) we continue until i finish
has this happened to anyone before? what does this mean?
Cyralea 11y ago
Some women just cry during sex. Some cocktail of hormones is triggered when they're highly aroused.
I was with one once, it's disconcerting to say the least.
aaron_the_just 11y ago
Sex with an alpha male is relaxing to women and cures their anxiety.
Some women have tears of joy during an orgasm, too.
Congrats bro
nomadicwilk 11y ago
thanks man, a legitimate ego boost
W_O_M_B_A_T 11y ago
You're overthinking and giving more fucks than you need to. She's an adult-ass woman, she can handle THE FEELS. If she has a legitimate complaint, she can say something about it.
If she gets bitchy or too demanding you can soft next her.
nomadicwilk 11y ago
yup, did it before and can do it again
pleasedontknowme30 11y ago
for some women, the pleasure, etc... causes them an emotional release which can come through in the way of tears. Good you asked, doesn't necessarily always mean pain etc...
captainbloodd 11y ago
This right here. I've seen it happen countless times with many different types of women. If you bang an intense orgasm out of a woman and it makes her cry, you're doing something right.
pleasedontknowme30 11y ago
I have heard of people crying after a massage or seeing the chiropractor for exact same reasons.
SkorchZang 11y ago
Yeah. I would ask why she's crying. Girl said about the same thing as yours, so I said "it's adorable" and made like it turns me on even more. She loved it.
And to tell you the truth since then it kinda does actually turn me on... It's her emotional catharsis, hitting her hard, and I'm like Sigmund fucking Freud with a giant dick, in there.
[deleted] 11y ago
I've had it happen twice. They both told me it was "the wall" coming down. By wall i mean that subconscious blockage made from life experiences.
I'd say it's a good thing, but it could also be physical pain or maybe another emotion. In the end I don't really think you're gonna know unless you can get her to be honest. Chances are she won't be because she fears judgement.
My advice would be to relax and just let her believe you two are going with the flow. The more comfortable and free she feels the more apt she is to just let it loose because you have that trusting mellow type of vibe around you.
As long as you maintain that kind of frame it won't impact how she feels about you. She'll probably want you more because you just eliminated fear from the equation.
I could be entirely wrong as well. Just going with what I experience. Good luck and report back :)
nomadicwilk 11y ago
reporting. you must be right, it happened again for her. thanks for the answer, i remembered to just be cool about it
dadsmeatwagon 11y ago
Had something similar happen.. she was going hard, then just suddenly stopped & started bawling her eyes out. After talking it was very clear she wasn't 'stable'.
I was SO scared. A week later I cut her off completely. I was NOT dealing with that.
nomadicwilk 11y ago
yup sounds crazy to me
alreadyredschool 11y ago
Women get really emotional after they came. Maybe something else is bothering her. Who cares?
nicethingyoucanthave 11y ago
Sort of.
Just this past Easter, I picked up a single mom and she started crying on me because it was the first holiday she'd ever spent away from her kid. I guess the dad was a real loser and had not been in the picture for years.
She had told me all this before we started going, and even said that she wanted to get laid specifically to help her calm down. But then, tears. A holy shit moment to be sure. It's very alarming to think that you might have hurt someone that you're trying to make love to.
nomadicwilk 11y ago
what kind of game do you run on a single mom? crying is an emotional release for women, maybe combining with sex is some super hormonal cocktail for them