Note I have peyronies disease (google it if you don't know, but I don't have a terrible curve but I have a curve and there are spots on my penis that has scar tissue and does not get hard). Found an amazing girl. Third time we has sex, I couldn't get it up. So I started to use l-arginine and horny goat weed interchangeably. This worked amazing and I was a sex god. However in my stupidity due to relationship boredom, I decided not to use the pills. I couldn't get it up at all but tried and came very weakly. My girlfriend felt that I was thinking of something else became very upset and broke up with me.
Broke up with the girlfriend 60 days. Went 60 days no fap with multiple wet dreams during the process, but little if any morning wood. I just had sex with an old friend with benefits and I could only go once. I got hard but i premature ejaculated very quickly.. like 60 seconds. After that I could not go again. This is very sad for me.. as it proves to me that I will have to use pills to achieve that level of sex for the rest of my life. I really don't see how 30 days more can help my premature ejaculation. Some people are born with it. I am not. Only in my late 20's and its semi depressing.
The saddest part is I was planning to get my girlfriend back by proving to her that lifting, sleeping well, eating healthy and getting my vitamins would help my erection as the previous activity would increase testosterone. I ejaculate too fast, I will not have to find another girl to be 100% honest from the get go.
Feel free to input any additional thoughts but I guess I will have to just let a future girl know that I have this issue and I am taking pills during our early honeymoon phase. Basically when she tells me she loves me and wants me to meet her parents. Kinda sucks that all this red pill knowledge and the basic truth to life is sex is the most important thing in a relationship. To keep a beautiful girl you gotta fuck her like it is your last time seeing her. I was born a beta in bed. Thankfully there are pills to help me. I just gotta be alpha in all other areas of my life.
S74RK 8y ago
Big diet tips: eggs, and zinc. Cut out milk, which contributes something like 80% of the estrogen in your diet: http://news.harvard.edu/gazette/2006/12.07/11-dairy.html Get rid of alcohol. Add in nuts, omega 3's, and vitamin D (3000 IU/day). You can start googling for sources if you'd like, though this should be common knowledge. Up your saturated fat, eat at least a pound of meat a day.
Lifestyle tips: sleep what your body needs, and lift heavy. No fap might not make sense for you. You want to get better at maintaining wood and ejaculating, don't you think you need a little practice, if even on your own? Try jacking off once a week to start: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12659241?dopt=Abstract
All of this ups your testosterone, which is what gives you wood.
This is really all you can do. Naturally that is. God speed.
And don't get hung up on that one girl, it'll probably be too hard to change her perception. Improve yourself and go meet other ones.
[deleted] 8y ago
Yeah I agree with your last statement. OP clearly hasn't swallowed TRP yet if he's saying stuff like that.
laere 8y ago
Fuck I gotta get rid of the milk in my shakes.
eyeswideopen1 8y ago
Thank you for your response which is super helpful. I was a little bitch last night. Honestly going 60 days without any sexual activity, most people would probably cum in like 10 seconds. I'll hit this chick up again and I'm sure I'll be able to last longer.
Metalgear222 8y ago
Jerk off more? How was this not suggested already.
[deleted] 8y ago
I had major ED a year ago. It was mostly Porn Induced ED, but it fucking sucked. I'm a fit guy so I knew it couldn't be a health problem, but I looked into supplements. Arginine, Citrulline, and Pycnogenol cured it. It took about a week of NoFap + this and my dick would be hard as fuck. Plus lifting helps a shit ton.
eyeswideopen1 8y ago
Arginine definitely works for me. However I don't like taking that all the time as I read somewhere that you need 10 pills a day. I only took 2 before before sex and it worked great. Do you just daily supplement and if you do what are your doses?
[deleted] 8y ago
I took about 4 a day for like 3 days before I would have sex. Then again they were 500 mg so pretty small.
eyeswideopen1 8y ago
So you did this every time you would have sex? You don't do this daily then?
[deleted] 8y ago
Only used it when I was struggling. Now I don't need to and just use it whenever I want a nice little boost.
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eyeswideopen1 8y ago
Thanks for your response. A lot of it is probably mental as well.
TRPrincecharming 8y ago
eyeswideopen1 8y ago
Agreed. Thanks.
[deleted] 8y ago
Kegels.
eyeswideopen1 8y ago
Yup gonna work on those as well. Thought I woulda been a machine and been able to go round 2 but nothing. Prob cause i'm late 20's and already some very visible gray hair.
TheMGhandi 8y ago
Kegels are bad...do reverse kegels instead.
SemenMoustache 8y ago
Can you link a decent article / set of instructions? Half the sites I've found seem to contradict themselves.
TheMGhandi 8y ago
As long as kegels are akin to holding in urine and reverse kegels are about pushing it all out, then you're good to go.
Here's a link. Pegym is full of useful penile information for those interested.
SemenMoustache 8y ago
Thank you
eyeswideopen1 8y ago
Thank you.