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You havent read the trp sidebar have you?

Ladies and gentlemen... presenting... someone who spent zero time reading the sidebar or literally anything.

the longer you stay the more unhappy you get.

Then why stay. Work on yourself, next, rinse, repeat, improve.

Man, i don't even know where to begin. You seem to understand nothing of the red pill. I'm serious. Nothing.

the longer I stay with her the more unhappy I get.

You claim this to be a fact, and yet you disrespect yourself enough to stay with her? What the fuck. On the other hand, it is not her fault, it is yours. Also, it is easier working on yourself when you aren't in an LTR. Women cannot be truly commited to (anyone really) someone who's not their superior.

Now that the "honey moon stage" is over we've been having less and less sex and I've obviously become upset about that.

So fucking do something man.. Sure as hell ain't nobody else who's gonna do it for you. And why are you upset about it? Your post is radiating bluepill. You need to read the sidebar. multiple times. And make sure you understand what you are reading and not just pronouncing words in your head.

At times I find myself enraged about it and whenever I tell her about it she calls me shallow and claims that all I want it sex.

Why do you tell her about it? Tell her to do it. Tell her to give you a fucking blowjob, how hard can it be? If she keeps refusing so fuck it, smile, grab your car keys and go to a bro's house or have a drink at a cafe or some shit - just don't give away your time for free to her. or any woman for that matter.

I'm sorry that I want to get laid more than once a month.

Just wow dude.

she doesn't give a flying FUCK about my needs or wants!

Surprise.

but as soon as I ask for her to return the favor I become the villain.

Man i'm trying not to be too harsh here, i really am. But you cannot come here expecting help or tips if you haven't done your part of the deal. You really need to read that sidebar in the main sub, lad.

See, what she's doing to get what she wants with minimum effort is a great fucking strategy if it works. and it clearly does. You just need to either just stare her down until she realizes she's full of BS, or laugh your ass off at her stupid attempts to do nothing to get something. Don't just do it so you can fuck her afterwards if you want head and aren't getting it, but she is. That's where you tell her it's "time for her to leave anyway" and stick to it. Don't let any emotion overcome you. Don't. Be. Emotional. You're clearly from your post waaaaay too emotional. you get upset and enraged so easily. And women doesn't give a fuck about you, your wants, your needs, your anything. They just care about how you make them feeeeeel. So make sure she feels like a bitch. Bitches love being bitches. You'll just never hear one admit it.

Part of me wants to leave this relationship

Yep, you should. And go hard monkmode.

but another part of me thinks that all women are like this now.

Oh, but they are. All of them, in fact. But only those who are bluepill will experience this kind of leader behavior in women, which sadly is about 80% of the male population. Those last 20% will rarely see this behavior, and dismiss it when it happens. But she is controlling you. She is your boss. And you're the bitch.

All I want is the affection that I give in return.

Oh wouldn't that be nice. And sure enough, you can have it. Or the illusion of it, anyways. For a time. And then, you will have none in return and soon after that no LTR. Unless you drastically change your ways.

I've been told that I'm a pathetic man for wanting to leave her over this and that I deserve to die alone

This is great news. This is the best fucking thing in that entire post of yours. I hope you laughed laughed your ass off over it, and amplified it.

But i have a feeling you didn't. Because you haven't picked the red pill up yet. You're just looking at it, lying there on the table.

The red pill fucking sucks until your understand it, then it's the best thing you've ever done for yourself. But you need to read that sidebar.

Oh, and also, read up on 'shit tests'. A lot.

Good luck

As /u/VasiliyZaitzev (cool name, btw) said, you need to read No More Mister Nice Guy.

Serious? Leave her.

I can promise you that it won't get better, but it will get worse.

Not all women are like that. My wife of 12 years now still wants sex almost as much as when we first started dating. This morning while I was making breakfast she made that very apparent.

Date to disqualify women who do not meet your needs. Raise your standards. You can get what you want, but not if you're "staying" with someone who is obviously not into you.

If you're not single .. you will never meet the woman who wants to have sex all the time.

the longer I stay with her the more unhappy I get.

and

we've been having less and less sex and I've obviously become upset about that.

and

she calls me shallow and claims that all I want it sex.

and

as soon as I ask for her to return the favor I become the villain.

Ok...and you're with still this girl why?

She's happy to accept pleasure but refuses to give it? Dude, unless you have some sort of hygiene problem, you are dating a selfish bitch.

Part of me wants to leave this relationship, but another part of me thinks that all women are like this now.

So part of you wants to walk like a man, and the other part of you is scared that she is somehow The Last Woman You Will Ever Talk To.

Abundance mentality is your friend....

All I want is the affection that I give in return.

This is an indicator that you need to read "No More Mr. Nice Guy".

I've been told that I'm a pathetic man for wanting to leave her over this and that I deserve to die alone

By who? Her? If it was her, that alone is a dumpable offense. If it was someone else, they need to FOAD.

The fuck?

Dude. If you're unhappy, leave lol. It's not very complicated.

Fuck what everyone else tells you. Do not let anyone shame you, they're simply trying to make you compliant and to make being unhappy acceptable.

They will try to put you down but in reality, yeah.

You didn't talk to her because of anything else besides the fact that you wanted to fuck her.

We're done.

Why?!

You won't suck my dick; I'm going to find a girl who will.

Simple as that, it will work if you leave or don't.

Tell her to start blowing you or she's single.

I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months and the longer I stay with her the more unhappy I get.

Even \r\relationship or other similar places would offer you the correct solution to your problems when you start off the wall of text with that.

She doesn't like giving what you like receiving. You need to GTFO.

as soon as I ask for her to return the favor I become the villain.

Don't ask, tell.

Part of me wants to leave this relationship, but another part of me thinks that all women are like this now.

They aren't.

Nearly every woman I've been with has been incredibly eager to give me a blowjob. Or rather, numerous blowjobs again and again. Happily deepthroating my cock, sucking on my balls, swallowing my cum, etc. They love doing it for the right guy.

The one woman who hasn't and was more skeptical at first was a virgin who has never given a blowjob before. Never done anything. I know this subreddit is always skeptical of these sort of things, but trust me on this one. She looked at my dick like it was some completely foreign object to her (which it was).

Part of me wants to leave this relationship, but another part of me thinks that all women are like this now. They've all of a sudden became entitled not to do anything for their man. All I want is the affection that I give in return. Is that too much to ask? I don't think so! I've been told that I'm a pathetic man for wanting to leave her over this and that I deserve to die alone and if that's the case then I'd rather be single!

Man, did you read the sidebar? You still have a pre-RP attitude and don't put yourself before her, also, you tend to blame women for your problems. Start going RP and your problems will begin to vanish.

Specifically about your position:

First of all, you should never stay in a relationship where you're unhappy. Read The Rational Male, read about plates. Monogamous commitment from you requires availability from her. If a woman does not provide you all the sex you need then you either next her and find another one, or just have more than one woman ("plates"). And by all the sex I mean EVERYTHING you need, not just enough to keep you from being "unhappy" - but rather, whatever you need she has you covered. If you need blowjobs she's giving them to you, if you want to try out anal... you get my point.

Second, she's obviously lost interest in you and you obviously hamster that away. You say "all women are like this now, they are entitled to not do anything for their man"... but didn't you say a moment earlier that "we were having tons of sex and it was well suited to my sex drive"? She was enjoying that sex, wasn't she? And then again, does she have to do anything for you if you are practicing SGM (which you should, read Sex God Method if you didn't already)? If you're basically using her as a sex toy she just can lay back and enjoy it! Not starfish sex of course, but I mean, she doesn't have to bring much effort to the table other than following your lead, and she gets multiple orgasms and all sorts of benefits. You should clearly see now, the fact you're getting less sex is not the result of her entitlement (or not feeling like doing something for you), but rather the result of her no longer getting turned on by you. Therefore, the solution is to work on yourself. Be a better man, study relationship dynamics, learn what you need to give women to stay horny for you, learn how to present yourself, how to lead the relationship, and so on.

It's really simple when you start reading and practicing it. You give them what they need (not what they tell you they want), and they can't get enough of your cock.

When you down on her, stop and work your way up to her head. Grab her head and guide her.

Then stop going down on her until she sucks your dick. The other posters are right though, you probably let yourself become more and more beta over time which is why she's freezing you out now. You're best chance of saving things is dread game.

Girls who say you're shallow for wanting sex or head are the ones to get rid of. As many in RP will point out, you can almost gauge how much a girl actually likes you by how much she's willing to suck you off.

You are being set up as the provider in this relationship. How dare you – the provider – want or demand sex? You should be grateful with the pitiful, shitty sex she's willing to give you.

Right now, you're the beta bitch in the relationship. You get to do for her, both on a relationship level and on a sexual level (on your knees, bitch).

It's unlikely you will raise your value with this one, especially while you're with her. Get rid of her.

There are plenty of women who love to please their men. You don't have one of those.

Dude you have to leave. It will only get worse.

Me and my gf will have sex once a day if we see eachother that much (18 month relationship) I get heas ofteb too.. even kinkier stuff tbh.

There are better women out there. Plate her.

It sounds like you're her slave. Only an idiot would stay in that relationship.

I'll be straight with you. This is the beginning of a very long and sad, lonely road. If you continue to tolerate this behavior you will be continually exploited. There are literally billions of vaginas in this world. It hurts when a girl you care about doesn't care about you the same way. But you let this happen gradually.

In the future you need to establish these kinds of things in the beginning. The last girl I LTRd I had discovered most everything that was "possible" or not within the first 4 months. I decided after 3 weeks I wanted to keep seeing her ... and if a girl doesn't do BJ's at all, she usually doesn't last 2 weeks.

Let them filter themselves out. They won't do something mutual in bed? next. It's better to be single and watch porn that to be used by a female who doesn't respect you.

If shes not giving you head - shes not attracted.

To get back attraction you either have to do dread game or dump her.

Which do you think is easier?

After you have done the deed in a non public place (no coffee shop / restaurant)- go no contact.