Any way I've never really had a height complex (probably because of my weight one). Well through hard work and diet I've lost a lot of weight and put on a nice amount of muscle. I'm no Adonis but far better from were I started. With my weight coming off I guess my mind is looking for other imperfections to get hung up on.
Do short guys find it impossible to get women? Most of the guys I consider alpha (confident personalities, great bodies) are only like two inches taller than me. And I'm not talking about nerds I mean black belts in counterpoint american kempo and bodybuilders so...
Any way do you guys have any advice for me. I'm 16 so I get the still growing excuse but I swear I feel done and my doctor thinks I might be done as well. If I stay 5'5 will I have a chance? Or should I say how much harder will ''the game'' be to play? Give me the truth no sugar coated feel good bullshit.
unethical_pirate 8y ago
5'6 here don't worry about it, I've had a 6ft plate we just joked about it. There's plenty of women smaller than you go for them. Concentrate of the things you can change. Be the best short arse you can be.
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CalvinHobb3s 8y ago
My buddy is that tall. If he stays lean, any gains in the gym are really pronounced. It's like he has to try half as hard to get bigger. He stays with a decent muscle mass and you really don't even notice the height.
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You can look amazing with very little muscle at that height. Work on your online game. I'm 6' 5" and 95 kg. I have to work out just so I don't look skinny and it's really hard to get a muscular look when you're this tall...
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Online game is a waste unless he adds a few inches with lifts or lying. Not a bad idea but I really wish there was a short man's online game guide.
[deleted] 8y ago
Just don't write your height, no need for lying. And don't put anything they can compare next to yourself. Get low body fat and pics of abs.
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Thanks for the reply. I see the wisdom of what you're saying but in my experience when height isn't listed it's usually asked for. Should the question be treated like a shit test (not that it is in the strict sense) or should she just be nexted?
Maybe I'm being neurotic, but I would think that treating the question with humor would look dodgy. Then again she might put all that on hold if she sees a six pack. I suspect I might have answered my own question.
trippypatagonia1 8y ago
Dude, I'm 5'5. When I bulk it's honestly amazing the results I get. I am stronger than all of my friends who are 6 feet and taller. When it comes to girls it doesn't matter. Just stay fit and keep your looks in check. I just like to go for super short petite women.
Tiway22 8y ago
You sure you're stronger? Shorter people dont have to move the weight very far.
trippypatagonia1 8y ago
I'm stronger because of my range of motion haha
sabinmightyfist 8y ago
Just wanted to provide some my viewpoint. I'm 6'5 and fairly good looking. I'm 22 and just lost my v card last year. Being tall and handsome did nothing for my since my game was shit. Flip side is guys like rsd Tyler (short and ugly) fuck a lot of gorgeous women constantly. Game is salesmanship of your product (money,looks,status etc). You can have a bad salesmen sell a good product but doesn't close on sales. Similarly you can have an amazing salesmen (game) sell a bad product and people (women) will still go crazy over it. Focus on having a good life filled with friends and memories.
ThisTension 8y ago
5'7" here.. What I lack in height and muscle I make up for with fashion and wit. Also a great cologne gets me opened all the time.
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Own your shit. Don't matter, and if anything when you get built it will look more impressive anyways. Eye contact and dominance is important but avoid little man syndrome at all costs.
MeatCurtainRod 8y ago
Height is only an issue if you make it an issue. If you blabber on about your height as if it is a weakness and your point of insecurity, it is a major red flag for girls.