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Re: How to proceed when you get "hints"?
As a man you need to do a first move, she is clearly giving you green light to make a move. If you don't make a move, then attraction she has will go down because you didn't do anything and she'll this she isn't interesting for you.
I'd flirt a bit and dance on the edge, I wouldn't tell her straig...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Guilt over casual relationship, what do?
Work on cultivating an abundance mindset, otherwise you'll spin in circles. You need to be OK with whatever happens, and emotional investment like that isn't gonna help anything.
I'd also maintain frame as much as I could.
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Ex asking me to meet for brunch.
Okay then in that case this seems to me like it was more of an ultimatum style of thing.
4y ago - Permalink
Re: What is the best Book on social interactions in general ?
Another is How to Win Friends and Influence People. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4865.How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=QB0Mb3nl5w&rank=1
"Learn the six ways to make people like you, the twelve ways to win people to your way of thinking, and the nine ways to c...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: What is the best Book on social interactions in general ?
Never Eat Alone is a good one. It will also help you get better at business things.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/84699.Never_Eat_Alone
"In "Never Eat Alone," Ferrazzi lays out the specific steps--and inner mindset--he uses to reach out to connect with the thousands of colleagues, friends, an...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: What are your thoughts at working out from home ?
I'd totally work from home if I had the €€, equipment and space for that.
4y ago - Permalink
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Re: She wants a male friend to stay over her house?
She explained it to you. So:
- if you go there because you are uncomfortable you explicitly show your insecurity. DONT DO THAT.
- if you tell her to tell him to home, you explicitly show her your insecurity. DONT DO THAT.
I liked long term game more. So:
- tell her sure no probs; but where you are c...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Confusing situation with girl. How to proceed
Just continue as you do, but seeing a bit less, and don't bring up this topic again; she will when time comes..
What you should avoid is:
- rejecting her or purposfully ignoring her, basically, making her not feel included.
- texting her for the sake of not texting her. Do shit, be busy and that's...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Confusing situation with girl. How to proceed
go for the whole weekend, but then have your own plans after that weekend; rest a bit, and decide to meet her after some time again.
only say you have plans if you actually have plans, don't bullshit.
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Quicker and more effective ways to become socially dominant?
meditate and do Wim Hof Method
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Is it better to have a physically unattractive plate or no plate at all?
Experience + coming from a place of abundance, which plates provide you
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Settling down to have kids with gf. Advice on moving into her house?
Keep savings in case you will need to move out, just to have that feeling of security and not being in scarcity mindset. You want to always have a back-up feeling of if sth happens you are going to be fine.
I think that whether you give up power or not with this move, depends on how you look at it...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Nightgame - How to get more engagement
Don't focus on verbal stack too much. It's good to have it, but that alone won't help you get k-close and pull.
Focus on the vibe and being in moment, pay attention to surroundings, listen to the person instead of thinking of what you want to say next. Most fluff is improvisation and you need to ge...
4y ago - Permalink
Re: Software Development viable future?
It is very valuable option these is absolutely no oversaturation, there is more demand than supply of good(!) software engineers. This will always be needed, and if you keep evolving as computer man, you will never run out of good money especially if you throw yourself at it for a good amount of yea...
4y ago - Permalink
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Re: "He is so sweet" - why do girls describe me like this?