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PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Signs/Traits to Look for in a High Value Man
Everything in your life is a critical need? You don't eat, buy, or do something just because you enjoy it and it's fun?
Male or female, if someone *needs* a relationship in order to be happy, function, and lead a fulfilling life, then that's a red-flag. You have to have your own life figured out fi...
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Is it ever too late for someone?
You need to read the sidebar and refrain from giving advice until you have a better understanding of RP concepts.
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: The Red Pill and interacting with other subreddits
Multiple accounts definitely make things easier.
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Help me find my "Goddess of Fun and Light (GOFL)"?
*How* you respond is something you may have to experiment with - someone could write out step-by-step reactions for you to follow but it would come out wooden and stiff. You have to figure out how to tap into your lighter side in a way that feels natural and positive. I think it would benefit you mo...
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Help me find my "Goddess of Fun and Light (GOFL)"?
Playfulness in a relationship can be a tricky thing for some people. I did a quick search, and I think you would benefit from taking a look at [this](http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/30bnt0/how_to_inspire_fun_in_a_rp_relationship/) post. The OP, /u/meri-dian also struggled with finding ...
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Subtle Reposting of the Sidebar Message "Welcome to Red Pill **WOMEN**
Strike 1, and you only get 2.
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: field report
This is a wonderful Field Report, thank you for taking the time to share your experiences with everyone here. I'll be adding this to the post on the sidebar with the other Field Reports. :0)
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Saw this on MSN - nice to see this kind of article in the mainstream "The Top Complaints Men Have About Marriage"
> "There's no one right way for every couple," says Weinreich, but if having a goal to shoot for is helpful to you, you might consider getting intimate at least once a weekâas long as both partners are interested and willing.
This made me so sad. The author had *just* talked about being more a...
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Just curious, anyone else find themselves more judgmental about other females post red-pill?
If a friend shares a story that's meant to insult or put down their SO - I sometimes try to remind them of a *different* story they've shared in the past (a positive one, where they were really happy with their SO). "David spilled wine on his shirt at the party? That's horrible, I remember when you ...
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: How to help my younger sister? 25 yo virgin nerd wirh social anxiety
Great comment, and you're absolutely right. OP is still thinking of this from a "I'd be unhappy in her shoes, therefore, it's likely that she is too" mentality.
/u/vintagegirlgame needs to take a giant step back and adjust her focus/approach/mentality.
:0)
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: How to help my younger sister? 25 yo virgin nerd wirh social anxiety
As another user suggested, don't focus on trying to improve, change, or guide her - particularly if she hasn't *asked* for any of those things from you. If you live near her, tell her that you want to start a new tradition and spend at least one day a week hanging out with her and doing something. A...
10y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Being aggressively hit on in front of my SO
> I would say he was more "hah"ing at the fact someone waited until he was away and trying to test their luck in a place surrounded with people who would go out of their way for him.
Haha, yes that's how I was picturing it in my mind (based on what you've shared in the past).
No worries lovely,...
11y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Being aggressively hit on in front of my SO
Exactly, Occam would be *very* unhappy if he saw me entertain that kind of behavior.
11y ago - Permalink
PhantomDream09
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Being aggressively hit on in front of my SO
Your phrasing "I don't see why he had to laugh" comes of as tone-policing/judging. /u/eatplaycrush also stated:
> We weren't in an environment where he was unknown either. When you are out in those environments men don't want to just have a nice friendly chat especially when they purposely waite...
11y ago - Permalink
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Re: Signs/Traits to Look for in a High Value Man