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Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: Own Your Shit Weekly - July 07, 2020
> Deadlifts are agony right now, no matter which type I try (Romanian, Jefferson), but I am persevering through the pain.
my experience with back pain (substantial over the years) has repeatedly shown me that i never recover laying on the floor. i have to use a combination of rest and stretch...
5y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: Own Your Shit Weekly - July 07, 2020
i read this three times, and i cannot tell what you're doing here. are you playing with the gun in your imagination, waving the gun around (aka "negotiating at gunpoint"), or are you actually going to shoot the marriage and move on?
IMHO, do it yourself divorce is as dumb as it gets. if y'all in...
5y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: FR - Breaking and fixing your shit.
Red has not really provided the details; but 20 and no job or school . . . from what it sounds like?
i don't personally know anyone that's came out of that on top. i mean people still need their grass cut.
5y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: FR - Breaking and fixing your shit.
> What's the difference btw falling in love and pussy pedestalization?
mostly self awareness. "falling in love" is a feeling that resides inside of you; and unfortunately it need not be mutual. when you realize it's a feeling inside; and not really external (that woman on the pedestal) you t...
5y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: FR - Breaking and fixing your shit.
like you i generally learn my lessons the hard way. always have and though it may sound ignorant probably will keep on. i like risk and i like doing things people tell me i can't. when that's your game some time "mistakes are made"
so long as no limbs or fortunes are lost or jail time is incurr...
6y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: Own Your Shit Weekly - June 30, 2020
although you're older than me (51); i have a lot of experience with the depth of sunk cost fallacy you struggle with after 46 years (30).
> So why was I rekindling my anger again?
you have not forgiven yourself for past mistakes, or more succinctly: you're self loathing. you conjur the anger...
6y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: Own Your Shit Weekly - June 09, 2020
I agree, that's some real shit from https://old.reddit.com/user/rotkohlblaukraut
i could write a book on those ridiculous bars.
see "The Cave" by Plato for the OG treatise
6y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: Actual conversations with "abuse" victims.
> Expect crazy or you are not prepared.
thanks for the mindset adjustment
6y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: Actual conversations with "abuse" victims.
solid advice. i'll be mostly gone for the preceding three months, and should be mostly gone for another 1-2 months after. youngest turns 18 in January so that's not really an issue. ideally i'd still be able to stay in my house occasionally until he goes off to college in August; but i got other ...
6y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: Actual conversations with "abuse" victims.
> get your ducks all in a row
can you elaborate? do you mean be prepared to move out immediately or something else?
6y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: Own Your Shit Weekly - June 02, 2020
> it's simply indifference
actual progress
6y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: How to handle accusations of affairs 201
Not a mod ; it was negative before it was positive
6y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: [60 DOD] Week 6, Finances
it's certainly not as generous a tax benefit in your state as mine (unlimited contributions, 6% marginal, and can revolve money in the same year). Still though, i'm guessing you're passing up a 8-10% return on year 1 savings, and similar on gains.
6y ago - Permalink
Persaeus
commented in Married Red Pill
Re: [60 DOD] Week 6, Finances
i agree with the opportunities of liquidity
6y ago - Permalink
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