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Drainstink
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Women are actually deluded. Especially in Asia
Exaggerated. 50% of men realised they are invisible to women. The other 50% try desperately hard. Women dont notice the invisible ones and the invisible guys are more aware of it in Japan. Thats all. This is mostly Tokyo however. There are shades of grey otherwise, and it does have age dependency. H...
4y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is it wrong to expect any support from a LTR?
My ex was more empathetic. But i agree women generally have no empathy unless its for their children, or some situation they have experienced exactly and even then its a self catering form of it. They also have no fucking idea about reality. They will employ logic but only on a strawman basis.
4y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is it wrong to expect any support from a LTR?
Never want to be “mothered” just not treated like something under somebodies shoe.
I posted this to make sure i havent lost my mind. Im well pilled. I wanted to make sure i was not having a lapse. Maybe our LTRs are meant to treat us this way? Maybe i forgot that women should never offer you a ...
4y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Is it wrong to expect any support from a LTR?
Its not like i want to vent or get support from her. Its just sometimes after u have the worst 6 months of your life u accidentally cant hide ur having a bad day, even if u stay silent on it till they ask you to tell them whats up 50 times. It’s happened maybe twice at most. All i kinda expect is...
4y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How can i set a boundary with my LTR who wants to go to a questionable place with friend?
Obviously im ready to move on if this is her true colours. However should i be setting a boundary? Maybe i was naive not to. I will try do it in a jokey way right, not to sound insecure or anything. Whats the best way to approach it? An ultimatum just seems insecure imo
4y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Hiding wealth from LTR? Should i lie?
“ Even the most chad in the room becomes a financial provider in a women's eyes when they know you have independent money. Not saying she will see you as weak, but she will definitely be expecting something. The game becomes how to keep her expecting by giving her the least.”
This is probably t...
5y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Hiding wealth from LTR? Should i lie?
I agree with everything you said and thats how i’ve been playing it so far. I just kinda get worried about her “knowing” i have assets. I would never say i have lots, but i am tempted to say i own little just to protect myself. The probing is annoying sometimes too. However, like you said, fro...
5y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Hiding wealth from LTR? Should i lie?
She thought i was broke for years. So she passed that test. If i were not in this country that makes marriage divorce rape hard then id never consider it. But i’ll get my Visa guaranteed easily if i do.
She just saw my trading view a few times and i have BTC open. So shes asked a few times.
Ideal...
5y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Hiding wealth from LTR? Should i lie?
Just be clear, i’d never marry in a different country. Here its relatively safe. Its just this little issue which is a potential problem i dont want to handle incorrectly.
5y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR wants to go clubbing together
Its great for a plate. Honestly. It sure can “spice up” a relationship but its like cutting off the boats anchor because you are bored. It created excitement, everyone is panicking now, no longer bored but its created a problem. You could have just done something else.
Like you said, be “on p...
5y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR wants to go clubbing together
Plenty of places to go dancing. Night clubs imo, and you are free to disagree, are sexual hunting grounds especially for women. They go to feel sexy, be open to a brad pitt encounter and bathe in eyes and attention and use it as a chance to shit test you.
Why would i have any business going to a cl...
5y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR wants to go clubbing together
Telling her that and mentioning she is free to go if she wants fine?(but breaking off if she does)
Dont want to sound like im mate guarding with the boundary either. Need a way to express that
5y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR wants to go clubbing together
Yes to all, but its as i said, i just dont feel like its an environment for a relationship. Not interested in going.
Its of no benefit at all. Maybe for plates.
5y ago - Permalink
Drainstink
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR wants to go clubbing together
Its just reality though. LTRs dont stay the same. If she expected it too then fair enough i can let her go and she can start again somewhere else and end up the same.
I constantly do things together, day trips, dinner etc, and long trips.
I dont do surprises i’ll be honest because when i used to s...
5y ago - Permalink
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Re: Women are actually deluded. Especially in Asia