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Noblefiz 3 months ago

@winninglosing no offense, but with the amount/types of questions you ask, you come across as a guy who doesn't/has never had true abundance mentality; this is not good. I only say this because I have previously had AM, but currently do not, and you sound like me. You do what you need to. But keep TRP in mind

winninglosing 3 months ago

@Noblefiz Maybe, at this point I won't though. If I tell someone I am exclusive then i will be till I decide I don't want to be. As it stands, I want to try exclusivity out for a while. I can always stop and game again

Noblefiz 3 months ago

@winninglosing you need to get past that.its not easy.Morals diminish your ability to truly live your best life and to do things that maximize your happiness ie..not saying demolish the idea that murdering Innocents is bad. Merely to realize that many of your "morals" are deeply ingrained ideas instilled in you by society and unbeneficial

winninglosing 3 months ago

@DennyHardy Fair enough,thanks man.

winninglosing 3 months ago

@Noblefiz Yeah i dont want to cheat though, personal morals.

DennyHardy 3 months ago

@jwayne @winninglosing I share the same sentiments. If you're already worried about appearing too needy you are in her frame. Use scarcity as a tool. Spin that plate, carry on with your life. Invite her out when you want to go. If the desire is genuine she'll find a way to meet you on your terms.

Noblefiz 3 months ago

@winninglosing don't. Just start seeing other women. Abundance mentality will naturally bring out behaviors that signal those things to her automatically.

jwayne 3 months ago

@winninglosing bro, is this the same girl who you went on 3 dates with and you asked us if you should get exclusive? And she was travelling this summer? If so, we already told you to spin her as a plate.

winninglosing 3 months ago

@jwayne Usually thursday (sometimes) and either fri/sat ya'

jwayne 3 months ago

@winninglosing So you see her at weekends, right?

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Did I end it too early?

Thank you man. What you said makes a lot of sense and I appreciate you taking the time.

The other user who responded says i shouldn’t reach out at all. As an endorsed contributor I tend to side with you - thoughts on his comments?

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Did I end it too early? How might I reinstate LTR?

Fuck. I don’t want to hear that but you are right, I know it.

Thanks man.

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Did I end it too early?

Hey man, may you please check out my new post? Ill link it here for convenience's sake.

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Did I end it too early? How might I reinstate LTR?

Hmm - I am definitely surprised she is not begging for me back.

Thing is, I don't want to be done, so why should I?

That all being said, I appreciate your advice and time.

Any other thoughts people?

Context | Full Comments | submitted about a month ago by WinningLosing
Did I end it too early? How might I reinstate LTR?

She wants to do LDR when she goes away. I will never do LDR. So not her terms.

Im just agreeing to having fun dating for (up to) next 4-5 months. You don't feel theres anyway to not lose frame?

Even if I do lose a bit of frame, my frame is solid in most all other regards - it should be fine no?

Context | Full Comments | submitted about a month ago by WinningLosing
Did I end it too early?

Anyone else agree with random? So you think I was right to tell her not to go or we would break up?

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