@polishknight Hi polishknight, thank you for both of your responses I read them all, and they were really helpful. I think think you are 100% correct in minimizing contact with them and do my best to not speak a word with any of them anymore. I will try to reach out to some friends to see if they can store some stuff although I can't really go to the library because my "mother" does not understand boundaries and constantly goes into "clean" and invade my privacy. If you wouldn't mind I have 2 big questions I want to ask you, should I just talk to them with 0 emotion from now on and bro they've been abusive asf and had cps called on them like 3 times, how do you not want to get revenge
@Lionsmane8 Bro i've been the bottom bitch for like 20 years now, and that position is never changing in this family. I've borne 80% of the abuse in this family. I guess I know the answer is already to get out, but I just want to be able to graduate and get a job so i can leave here forever. People are smashing my shit in front of me and saying you deserve it. I need 1 year 5 months to get out of here forever, but like the family is seriously fucked up in the way they are treating me and moving out right now is not an option
The "dad" has major fucking autism by the way, everyday he goes to work and then plays video games in the basement for 20 fucking years now. Has never spent time with the family unless forced to.
@souldrone My door has a hammer dent because my "mom" got overly emotional because I refused contact and no-one has apologized about it. My sister got mad because of an argument and kicked my door to the point where half the door is cracking. The "father" said he would call the police to take me away if I touched my sisters door or kicked it, versus for me my sister already admitted to kicking my door and said she'll kick it some more and that i'm not even a human the "dad" hears all of this right in front of him and he just tells everyone to ignore me
@Lionsmane8 I don't understand bro maybe I am wrong but my "dad" has been such a beta that he does not discipline my sister or correct any of her behavior. She openly swears without provocation at me and is 16 and a Chinese girl. It's like if you could pass any shit test then why does nexting exist? It's because some girls have such cancer personality problems that they are beyond saving and even when you set boundaries and pass shit test with these damaged people they refuse to follow your boundaries multiple times and still have a horrible personality that is in no way submissive.
This morning I woke up to my door broken, my 16 year old sister got mad and kicked it in and admitted it. She called me a pussy and that she should hit my door more. My "father" next door did nothing and said "your not my son anymore and I don't care". I asked him if damaging other peoples belongings unprovoked matters and he refuses to answer the question or tell my sister to stop. "Father" has disowned me in 2 months since returning from campus verbally and just ignores me when i'm in front of him, Sister openly swearing at me in front of parents. Inbred family how do I get out.
Did you put your sister over your knee and spank her after she admitted to destroying your fathers property?
I asked him if smashing his computer was "okay" and he said he would call the cops, then I asked is smashing my door okay? And he said it was his property and he get's to decide what to do with it. Then I asked if it's okay to smash my sister's door, he said he would call the cops. So this is incorrect then to damage other peoples things? And "father" says I don't have to answer you.
@Typo-MAGAshiv Bro I have schizophrenia, can't have kids, and am mad at my parents. I've had like 6 arguments since I have got back home with them. The "father has said your not my son get out" to me already. Literally disowned me in 2 months, and i lived with the guy for 20 years. My door has 2 fucking holes in it and "father" says I deserve it. I literally have done nothing but study.
This morning I woke up to my door broken, my 16 year old sister got mad and kicked it in and admitted it. She called me a pussy and that she should hit my door more. My "father" next door did nothing and said "your not my son anymore and I don't care". I asked him if damaging other peoples belongings unprovoked matters and he refuses to answer the question or tell my sister to stop. "Father" has disowned me in 2 months since returning from campus verbally and just ignores me when i'm in front of him, Sister openly swearing at me in front of parents. Inbred family how do I get out.
