I'm really digging the quality of posts getting to the front page.

It seems like you story is speaking to me personally. Long term LTR (3.5 years) manipulated the shit out of me. I can't believe I was so blind to all of it, in the name of fucking "love."

Now, its been 3 months since our break up. Fucking bitch has left the country, another leech with a green card abusing the United States. Pathetic! I can't believe the cunt actually had the balls to call me when she was about to depart, to tell me "Please don't have any hopes of us getting back together." LOL. Never ever.

I am currently in the anger phase. More than her, I am actually angry at myself, for allowing all this shit happen to me. For spending my hard earned money and my super valuable time. I'm currently 31, and I just swallowed the red pill.

Tl;dr: AWALT, but your frame and choice in women also sucks.

Wow that is a nice post. Was reading some MGTOW posts, and unsubscribed for all the AWALT bullshit propagating there. Will save this post as a self motivation and self-improvement guide.

Excellent post! This was always one area that I have struggled with regarding TRP. I've seen posts that describe horrible behavior by men and then they wonder why women react the way they do and then men scream AWALT! Human behavior comes into play here, in that, shitty treatment may cause shitty reactions.

What the hell is that? TRP comment section that is not filled with men who are hysterically afraid of being hurt by a woman? That refreshing.

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Yep. Fucked it up with a girl who was a virgin before she met me. Dated four years. Got 99% of everything I wanted. She broke it off. I can say AWALT and pound my keyboard, or maybe I can realize I became a controlling beta in the last few months and who can truly stay with a controlling beta who skipped gym, stopped dressing well, and had -100 dread game. Sometimes, it's best to take responsibility, and become better.

My Red Pill moment came in 1992 at the age of 24. I was living with a bar fly and her 2 kids. Being home at 4am was too much to ask. After I threw her out I reevaluated everything and stopped dating women who went to clubs. Simple as that. Refused. Line in the sand. Shut out 85% of the available women but the remaining 15% were of much higher quality. Later that year I automatically removed any and all promiscuous women from being a LTR candidate. How do I find this out? Get drunk with them and act like the most liberal, non judgemental, open minded ex man whore. Once filled with truth serum in a comfortable environment they tell all. Lastly, around age 30 I began inquiring about their credit and refused to date a woman with bad credit. Found my then 21 year old wife when I was 32. 20 years later we have a wonderful life and I pat myself on the back daily for keeping my bar high.

This entire post is virtue signalling, I see this a lot on TRP, AWALT is a term for beta to keep them for thinking they found a unicorn or a women who will go against her human nature. This is only important because society stuffs this ideology down the throats of men on a 24/7.

After all how many stories do you have along the lines of, "I was mean to my girl friend, I treated her like shit, I ignored her phone calls" , but rather, "I did everything for her, I always paid, I put her needs above mine".

> The thing that separates the Bluepill from the Redpill is self-improvement.

No, actually the red pill is much more lazy than blue pill, I can say this because I spent most of my life blue and the amount of time and money I saved on swallowing the pill is significant.

> If you date a girl who has zero moral values and can't fight against her own nature, don't act surprised when you get more than you bargained for.

Her morals don't matter, you didn't choose a bad person, you were the problem, not your choice, this is what AWALT is, even if she has morals, sexual attraction is primal. Heroin addict or virgin girl who was Christian her entire life , don't matter, only thing that matters is tingles.

I mean it goes both ways, fat wife at home vs Super model, A lot of the loyalty of men is solely due to their options, if most blue pill guys could attract women they would fuck more, but this isn't due to lazyness, otherwise this would be call StopbeingLazy, it's due to a lack of information , therefore saying, "I'm shitty become better", you should say, "I know have new truth and perception to operate under"

> And the first step on the road to self-improvement is admitting that you made mistakes and that you're willing to learn from them.

I think guys realized they made a mistake, that isn't the issue, the issue is lack of knowledge, which is why blue pill guys make the same mistake 20 times, because they blame themselves, They were to fat, no funny enough, not good looking enough, didn't have social skills ect..., once you swallow the pill ,it becomes a lot easier.

In Short All girls are AWALT, and pointing out isn't a attack on women, it just coming to terms with reality vs the Disney movie. NO ONE WILL LOVE YOU "JUST" FOR BEING YOU

One point of self-reflection is AMALT. All men are the same. The lamantation of women about cheating men who don't provide are manifold.

As soon as you start looking into the issue men, given the chance, are just as hypergamous.

We don't branch but pussy swing, no requirements other than average looks and a fertile age required. The only problem is many men cannot experience this due to the, sometimes self-imposed, betafication.

Become a top 20% male and see for yourself. One will become very laid back with female behaviour when you know that the next pussy drooling over your awsome personality ist just an approach away.

Bottom line: We are all just apes. Thinking men are something inherently better in the SMV is beta thinking.

Most women are actually just fine but just whiney incels cry AWALT at everything that doesn't comply with their laziness. "But but, women are dirty cheaters!!! ALL OF THEM". Well, maybe become a man that provides the woman with the sexual satisfaction so she doesn't need another dick?

Really, AWALT is nothing but a self-defense mechanism like "All dogs bite" or the feministic equivalent that all men are assholes by default. Most AWALT criers don't even introspect to see if they are probably much like any other men, the equivalent of AMALT, namely that all men just want to have sex and no meaningful relationship without doing any of the effort to actually be attractive to a woman, who rather prefer to be accepted as they are because that takes the least time and energy.

All those hurt betas are just a bunch of lazy fucks who are angry that the game doens't work according to their convenience, and it's good that these bastards cannot procreate. They must be filtered out of the gene pool and I support women in their shit tests. It sucks for you, but it's better for society and human kind in the coming millenia.

"But to put it blunt, you're the one who let a shitty person into your life and let them do shitty things to you."

This right here is helping me get over my mistakes. When you take ownership of the responsibility of who you allow to fuck with you, it is much easier to say "hey I fucked up and shitty shit happened, but now I know," as opposed to bemoaning the world for being unfair and placing you in these situations. It's a matter of agency, do you want to see your path in life as a trek up a mountain, or would you rather be swept away down a river clinging to whatever you can find along the way? Sure you may trek your way to an impasse, but you can always readjust your trajectory when you understand that you're in control.

Good post. AWALT should be a motivator to always be on your best game when dealing with the opposite sex, not some crybaby excuse for when you slip up in one way or another and nature takes you for a fucking ride in the form of a woman behaving like they are supposed to.

Other thing to keep in mind here is AWALT doesn't just apply to shitty girls, it applies to all girls, some of which can be wonderful for a short period of time.

I have mostly positive things to say about my ex. It was a wonderful learning experience in that she was really top-notch, everything you could ask for in an LTR for the first 7 months, and it was shocking to see her shift when I broke frame, hypergamy kicks in and suddenly it's a different person. I could even tell that she didn't want to feel that way but it's her nature and she couldn't help it.

That all being said, your post speaks the truth. I'm very happy to be out of the relationship, she was young and I knew it wouldn't last forever, but the ultimate failure of it was my breaking frame over and over and I can't blame her for hypergamy taking control.

But to put it blunt, you're the one who let a shitty person into your life and let them do shitty things to you

And this happened to most men largely because of a world that rams down the message of Women Are Wonderful down our throats from birth.

We're shamed for our (correct) instincts in a way that women are not. We get the "be good to women" from birth from our mothers, sisters, and all the media - much of it subliminal. How many women die in the average film? How many women?

It's not just the man that's at fault here. Men are misled from birth. There's some blame to be put in other places than men's shoulders for once.

AWALT is both one of the hardest truths, and laziest excuses in trp. I see it way too much as a excuse for personal responsibility. "I did all I could, but AWALT!"

AWALT is real. Indeed, all women are in fact like "that". But now that you're armed with that knowledge, how are you going to act? Maybe she branch swung because you dropped your smv? Because you caught oneitis? Because you didn't vet her properly. Maybe you didn't understand the situation you were in, the bad moves you made, the feels that got in the way of the pill, and she did what any woman would do.

Don't blame her. Blame yourself. Improve yourself. Learn from the situation. If AWALT means all women are like that, then as a man, you need to understand it and use it to your advantage, not whine when it works against you.

I had that moment last year during school. I had this girl giving me all the IOIs. But, by being my own socially awkward self, I was somehow using every redpill shit in the book. I would straight up ignore her to talk to my better friends. If she started talking to me, I wouldnt look up from my schoolwork to respond. One day, she was staring at me and when I asked her why, she says, "Maybe I want you to look at me". To which, socially awkward me, replied, "Maybe you should have something to say then". Anyway, I realized halfway through the year these were all signs that she liked me. When I did, i tried to not be awkward and pursue her. Doing all types of beta shit, come prom week, she was going to prom with some senior. Didn't know or care about the details of that. But, ever since, I use it as my guide of "what not to do" with girls. Everything I did with her has resurfaced with other girls. It allows me to say, "Oh shit, it's happening again, dont do what you did last time".

I thought the Heart of Darkness was a warning from a guy on a boat in Africa about not starting a war in Vietnam using helicopters because the colonial French just want to grow bananas. I guess I'm confused...

I'm assuming this was inspired by that shit post a couple of days ago that got over 600 upvotes?

Hmmm, AWALT for me is exactly what it is, nothing more or less. I really don't want to live with women under the same roof at all, and it's not because of being butt hurt or with shitty women. I just don't want to put up with them. The problem for me is that once things get heavy physically, they (rightfully so) want more out of the relationship and to go LTR, which then brings me back to square 1 - AWALT and i don't want to marry them or live with them. It's not because of bitterness, more of being happier not married and living together

Totally spot on post. We can learn from AWALT to not be mad at our Unicorn when she does exactly what would be expected of her in a given situation. Then we learn from it - how can we change so the situation doesn’t occur. Example, getting complacent in LTR and forgetting to follow up. Allowing SMV to fall and losing focus on your dreams.

I slowly get the feel that TRP is the feminism of the average incelcuck. This post is not bad, but it confirms my theory.

Feminism is the average ugly girl that wants to change something to feel better herself. The result is she cries about everything and that the other are at fault.

Now after reading this post you can see clearly similaries.

Thanks for contributing to more hypoagency OP.

AWALT is AWALT because AWALT.

it's not men taking accountability for whorish behaviour, alimony rape, branch swinging and the like.

Sure, you need to improve yourself and all still women are accountable for their shit, which happens to be a higher-than-the-K2 mountain.

It's a trend lately in TRP to advocate for an endlessly internal locus of control. It's irrealistic. TRP is supposed to be amoral and speak the unfiltered truth, and some unfiltered Truths are: AWALT, cheating, branch swinging.

I repeat, should we settle for a sub-optimal self because AWALT? NO. Anyone should live up to his full potential, let's just not stop describing the truth as it should be.