After you conduct primal mating dances with the chick, its important to pull her aside for light chit chat/teasing, freshen your drink etc. Then back to more dancing or change the venue. Then demand that she come check out your new fishtank and smoke a bowl.

Common scenario - girls dancing in the group circles paying absolutely no attention to the guys including you dancing there like a monkey trying to show everyone "how much fun you're having". Now what?
Approaching from behind is creepy. She pays no attention to you. Because her friends are right there and she doesn't want to look like a slut in front of them. So she tries really hard to show she's just there to dance.
That's the most common scenario in the clubs. Not what you explained there. I'm wondering if you even go out, man.

im kinda disappointed you didnt give us any dance lessons in your post.

Club game varies depending on the type of club. In hiphop clubs, the main thing to note is females will all be twerking (which is code for "come take me from behind!"). As such, your role is to oblige and just take her from behind. Reaching for her hand is less effective than grabbing her waist.

Also, be careful with waiting on a woman to "notice" you. Clubs are crowded and, chances are, she won't even see you with all the chads and tyrones in the building. What you want is to bring attention to yourself (i.e. tear up the dance floor) and prove how much more fun you are than everyone else. Hiphop clubs are easy lays, so take hiphop dance lessons if this is your goal.

 

As an added bonus, don't stand like a dumbass while she's grinding on you. Match her rhythm. Can't do that, take hiphop lessons.

Make sure to cut the bottoms out of your pockets.

Go in, dance, approach if you find a girl attractive but go to dance.

Paying to go into a good club only to find girls? I would rather pay a hoe.. Atleast the lay is certain.

Two questions/points ?

1) You need to give some tips on dance. Not detailed just a basic overview

2) Please provide some more details on progression once you already have her dancing with you ?

From what i have tried. Its better if you keep dancing for sometime and escalating to see where she is comfortable touching before trying to talk to her. If at some point she is allowing you to grab her ass , take her out of the dance floor, saying i need(let's get) a drink/water/some air (note : lead her). If she has her arms around you or face(lips) close to your lips(not close to your ears) go for the kiss . Its important to pull away before she does, look away ( showing disinterest ) , then lock eyes again and go for a more passionate kiss. This should be enough to give her the tingles and then pull her .

should dancing be serious or overtly funny. I can do both but I always end up feeling uncomfortable during serious sexy dancing as the girl expects you to lead like how else do you dance to club music sexy other than grinding. Also its crowded and thats pretty much the only dancing you can do.

Imagine being so autistic that you need this advice.