Many of the new guys coming here think that TRP is only about how to attract women, get laid etc., but it's not. Infact, attracting women is the smallest part of it. The real meaning of TRP is to slap you with the harsh truths of life to make you wiser & then suggesting measures to improve your life, to make you a man, to make you a Greek GOD, to let you become the best godamn version of yourself. In short, It helps you to make your life worth living. What I mean by this statement (making your life worth living) is that to truly live in this amazing & beautiful world, not just exist ( like 99% of the population do ).
So, How can a man make his life worth living? The answer is quite simple - By improving his quality of life. Improving the quality of life includes 2 aspects : Physical & Mental Aspects. Improving the mental aspect means developing a strong mindset & the physical aspect means improving your physical appearance. Improving both of these aspects is necessary to shape you into a real man, a man who will be a GOD for all those hot women out there.
Personally, I believe that the improving the mental aspect is much more Important & Beneficial than the physical one.Lets talk about both of them & how to improve them :
Mental Aspect
Every great man that ever stepped a foot on this planet had an Elite Mindset. Your mind will carry you through your battles when yours limbs are too weak.A Strong Mindset Can Be As Good As A Blessing But A Weak One Can Much Worse Than The Worst Curse. Luckily, anyone can develop a strong mindset. Some ways to develop an Elite Mindset are :
1) Changing Your Attitude - In life, attitude is everything. What the situation is, that's not really important but how you react to that situation is everything. E.g. Some people view failures as defeats and quit but some see them as a chance to grow, viewing them as obstacles and overcome them.
2) Limiting Negative Emotions & Exercising Positive Ones - Negative Emotions Such As Anger, Depression, Frustration, Stress, Anxiety & Fear Are A Major Sign Of Weakness & An Instant Attraction Killer For Women. Moreover, anger is the worst emotion above all, it can destroy relationships, Use anger as a fuel but do not let it burn yourself. No matter what the circumstance, we always have control over our emotions. You are responsible for your own state of mind or happiness. Always try to be happy, see the positive in every situation. Optimism is the key to happiness.
3) Taking Risks - According to Mark Zuckerburg - “In a world which is constantly evolving everyday, not taking a risk is the biggest risk of all. " Remember - Fate Rewards The Bold. Every great thing comes from a risk. Remember approaching and saying a hi to that hot girl is a risk too, but it might have amazing benefits!! Moreover, Your self confidence boost after you take the risk, no matter what the outcome. So, have some courage and take risks. You only live once, why not live it bold?
4) Overcoming Negative Self Talk With Positive Ones - This is very important. Negative self talk and thoughts are confidence killers. Avoid them and don't focus on negative thoughts, let them pass. Instead, practice positive affirmations and positive thinking.
5) Meditation - There are countless benefits of meditation. Many successful personalities such as Arnold Schwarzenegger & Connor Mcregor meditate daily. Meditation helps you control your mind, reactivate your senses so that they can work more efficiently, makes you feel lighter and peaceful.
6) Praying - Have Faith In GOD, Pray Daily & He Will Fight Your Battles Alongside You.
Physical Aspect
No matter what anyone says, people (especially women) will always judge you according to your physical appearance (face, body, strength, agility, speed etc.) . Fitness is a way of life, there is nothing more sexier than a muscular body. Every women will fall for that body of a Greek GOD. I cannot describe what fitness has done to my life. It's benefits are amazing. It gives you tons of self confidence & women, of course. You start feeling sexy about yourself and then, the whole world see your God - like physique and falls for it. Having a great body is the greatest of all blessings. When someone compliments you for your six - packs or big biceps or sexy broad chest, that feeling is amazing. Some methods of improving your physical appearance are :
1) Lifting - Feeling Lonely?Depressed?Broke?Go to the gym. Enough said!! Lifting weights have countless benefits such as a fuckable physique, more strength, more immune to diseases, increased testosterone levels, self - confidence & what not?
2) Sports - I am a Track & Field Athlete. Before joining sports, I was a lazy & shy dumbass who never believed in himself. But now, after just 8 months of engaging daily in sports, I have a great physique, high - self confidence & a great social circle. I can now talk to anyone whether it's a hot girl or a stranger tough - looking guy, I just don't give a fuck now!! Sports can teach you many other things too like discipline, patience, importance of high work ethic & team spirit.
3) Yoga - Yoga is known for curing many chronic as well as acute diseases. It also gives you a great amount of flexibility.
Other Things To Improve Your Quality Of Life & Help You Become The Best Possible Version Of Yourself -
1) IDGAF Attitude - Life is so much enjoyable when you don't give a fuck what anyone thinks or says about you. Anyone's definition of you doesn't define who you are. It's your life, live it on your own terms.
2) Dreams & Goals - If you don't have a dream in your life, you are broke, afraid, lazy or all three. A life without dreams is like a fish living in a 6 inch wide bowl of water. A dream gives your life a meaning. Anyone can achieve greatness. Glory can be a man's most precious gift in life. In the words of Shakespeare - “Be Not Afraid Of Greatness, For Some Are Born Great, Some Achieve Greatness & Some Have Greatness Thrust Upon Them."
3) Love Your Parents - Trust me, in this world, Only your parents truly love you. They have sacrificed a lot for you so respect them & love them. No women can ever love you unless you have something very useful to provide her. When that thing is gone, she'll be gone too!! But, your parents will love you forever, no matter what.!!
4) Be Selfish - Prioritize yourself over anything or anyone. It means that you respect yourself enough to do what's best for you because this is your life.

fuckeverything789 8y ago
stop being a pussy expecting or wanting life "a life worth living". Life is hard and thats it. Life is pain. Its about strength not happiness. If you want to focus on happiness it is a about giving not receiving. Spread happiness by helping other people who need it. But don't expect happiness or comfort for yourself.
Roaring40sUK 8y ago
Many of the new guys coming here think that TRP is only about how to attract women, get laid etc.
It seems to me that this applies more to some of the Old Guard.
NeoreactionSafe 8y ago
Oh I don't agree with that.
I'm an old guy at 56 years old and the Red Pill fits into an over all "Big Picture" view of things for me.
We need to keep a Jerry Springer Show type feel on some posts to make the Red Pill attractive to new members.
Most newbies are having their entire mythical Blue Pill reality being torn apart and they must have the old myths collapse, then get angry, then begin to awaken to a better way before they are fully ready.
This top level post deals with the guy who has already completed the "Kill the Beta" phase and is ready to improve himself.
Roaring40sUK 8y ago
Let me explain - I meant Old Guard as in long standing TRP contributors, rather than older guys! I am in my 40's myself..
calloberjig 8y ago
It's easy to comment about what you think TRP is. Don't forget Rule Zero. If you don't know what rule zero is, read the fucking sidebar. The old guard invented this place man.
It just so happens that doing the things suggested by OP are BY FAR the most effective means of attracting women (i.e. focusing on your mission)
Roaring40sUK 8y ago
Easy there tiger!
I am well aware. And I am in agreement with OP. TRP has also just added Building Power and Culture flares for the very reasons the OP is outlining.
Of course i am aware that the Old Guard invented this place and I like to think I respect that.
Keepnitrealz 8y ago
I agree with everything except the parents part. For my case I had a shitty parent who was abusive in many ways and had a great effect on my self esteem in a negative way. Unfortunately I had to cut ties for my mental and physical health. Now im trying to get into the red pill game and move on from what has happened to me in the past. Cheers bros
Need2LickMuff 8y ago
I took a risk once.
I was on the bus, and some cute girl was eyeing me. As she was getting off the bus, it jolted quicky and she nearly ran into me. She ended up looking at me in the face all embarrassed, until I smirked and said "Oi, if you let me know you were falling I'd have caught you". A stupid thing to say, especially when she got all excited and warm and replied "Well, why didn't you catch me there?".. I ended up going blank and said some really stupid shit instead of getting her number, basically going from confident cute guy to loser in her eyes quick.
That story always gives me bad anxiety attacks when I think of how cringe I was. Shouldn't have said anything to the bird and kept to myself; I just reacted like a moron without consciously wanting to talk to her.
sarthak_kant 8y ago
At least, you now know what you did wrong. A man looks at his past only to learn from it. ‘going from confident cute guy to loser in her eyes' You are caring too much about what she thinks or thought about you. That shit doesn't matter, what you think about yourself is what matters. I don't think that she thought of you as a loser because at least instead of going all blank in the face (like most of the guys would ) you talked to her with confidence, not every guy can say that to a girl. Even if sh does thought of you as a loser, who cares?? Fucking no one. There are millions of girls in this world, not everyone is going to feel Attraction towards you no matter what you try to do, so stop overthinking & move on.
Need2LickMuff 8y ago
It happened 5 years ago; I haven't done anything since. Like I said, I took a risk once.
ONCE.
robotghow 8y ago
Everyone is a moron once in a while. You have to give yourself the benefit of the doubt.
Need2LickMuff 8y ago
I've never been good at socializing with people, so it's not really an issue of me having an off day but a reflection of the reality that I cannot connect with people.
Problem is that I'm physically attractive, so I'm expected to live up to some standard of being at the bare least socially competent. It gets difficult having girls hit on you when you'd choke talking to them even if they had a cock, beard, and were named Bruce.
I could deal with having an off day, since you always rebound back. Problem is, having nothing to say is just my reality.
robotghow 8y ago
You obviously know how to use words, so I'm guessing you're just bad at thinking on the spot. That can be learned through practice. Of course, the practice can be painful, which is why you don't do it. But it's a never-ending cycle, and if you don't break it, nothing is going to change.
Regarding social competence: If computers can be taught to detect people's moods from pictures, you can do it too.
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Thank you for this reply pushing us all away from handsome ultra faggot tendencies. It's not a good look.
Need2LickMuff 8y ago
You may see it as me making a connection with people, but I don't feel it. I don't feel like I'm part of anything even if I am, mate. Just like I didn't really feel like me elaborating on a problem of mine was 'crying' about it. If I'm not explaining it properly enough to where it looks like I'm whining about stupid shit, then fair enough, but I don't feel like my words carry weight with anybody. Why do you think I was shocked someone was receptive toward me? I don't know why she got happy that I said hi to her, because it doesn't matter to me when people say hi to me.
I can see how it looks like I'm pity partying, but if you knew me outside of this place you'd see just how little I actually like talking about my problems. If I'd even talk to you.. which I probably
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Need2LickMuff 8y ago
Bruh you just got done saying I'm lazy and now you expect me to do all that?
NederSlav 8y ago
You're doing it again. Building excuses. Jesus fuck it's pathetic. Forget it, you got a good physique, IDGAF attitude. Stop making excuses, learn from it, move on. Positive mindset bro.
Need2LickMuff 8y ago
Quite literally not having anything to say to people and never being good at talking to people = making excuses? It's kind of impossible to 'learn' from my mistakes while talking to people when I don't know how to. Have a conversation with me right now, separate from me talking about how much of a POS I am. You'll learn quick that it'll be you leading the conversation and me adding very little to the interaction.
185poundsofhatredWIP 8y ago
But you can brag about your BPEL quite well.
Need2LickMuff 8y ago
I can brag about the shit I just took, too.. doesn't make me Casanova, innit.
185poundsofhatredWIP 8y ago
We are on the same boat. Hard as fuck on the internet and socially retarded irl.
Cos_7_ate_9 8y ago
Interesting but what's with the formatting?
sarthak_kant 8y ago
IDK I didn't type in this format
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32bb36d8ba 8y ago
Thanks for the write up. Have you read Gorilla Mindset and if yes is it worth buying? Sorry if it has been discussed on this sub already. I'm on the phone and all I could find was the authors ama which might not be impartial.
sarthak_kant 8y ago
I haven't, what is the book about btw? Maybe I can suggest an alternative.
32bb36d8ba 8y ago
Gorilla Mindset https://www.amazon.com/dp/1514672111/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_kpIozbCHATP8E Judging by the reviews you are going in the similar direction. He took I think emphasises the right mental programming.
sarthak_kant 8y ago
Looks like a great choice, why don't you try it? Let me know if you liked it or not.